Here is my biggest issue with you.
You are a narrative changer depending on who it is. As seen with me and Bmoregorilla. You claim we as Blacks of class deal with white supremacy which Cosby is clearly aware of by his previous actions in life and in entertainment.
You mentioned that anyone could be killed like Trayvon Martin which Cosby would know as his own son was killed by a white supremacist like Zimmerman in the 90s.
You can't help older Blacks who grew up in previous times to scratch their heads and be confused of what went wrong. They didn't grow up in our world. Just like we didn't grow up in the Chief Keef world. They see how BM and BW don't get allow and can't see how this is happening but it is. Integration isn't what killed us because segregation sucked too. We need integration of resources which would be vital to our and anyone success.
A lot of points simply has been said before by numerous others but Cosby is right about one thing. We must come together and trust each other. That includes your actions of judging men by the merit of reason than the merit of like. That includes us men treating you all better and you demanding respect in the way a man can receive it. The biggest issue is we don't trust each other. You only want fine nikkas respect and they only want bad bytches attention.
And we wonder why our community is a shyt hole. Until that happens, ain't no way we are going to build up businesses as a community. Like Earth, Wind and Fire stated, "after the love is gone, what use to be right is wrong".
Bill didn't grow up in a perfect time and he did some bad things like cheat on his wife. But there is love there. Until we get love back, we are set up for failure regardless of our individual success as success will always be a team sport.
God bless
I'm not sure I understand how I'm a narrative changer and I appreciate your response.
I believe this case is causing cognitive dissonance. It creates a conflict for a lot of people.
I believe that the judge who allowed this was wrong. His sealed deposition should have never been released.
I believe that there is a deliberate campaign against him.
I agree with him in that people should make better moral choices however his speech and others like it are far too simplistic.
I prefer the approach of someone like Marva Collins, The great Chicago educator who started a private school for low income children who are labeled as learning disabled. Because she was in the environment with those children she could teach them in love how to make better choices.
I have done community service and also come from the hood myself. When I'm working with people who have adverse situations I do not make them feel bad or belittle them.
I am not a special snowflake, there is nothing amazing or different about me. There's nothing about me that makes me better than anyone else. Despite the abundant amount of shyt I may talk on the Coli, I one hundred percent believe and offering people solutions and support and encouragement.
No one should be ashamed of the past mistakes if they've me or how many children they have or how many different fathers their children have. When you make a person feel ashamed, that can push them to make even more mistakes.
The ghettos are full of hard-working honest people who just don't have any money. So many Black women are ashamed of their reproductive choices that more Black babies are aborted than born.
I fully support anyone who's willing to go into the underserved communities provide things like free breakfast, afterschool programs and citizen police monitoring and tutoring.
I am against the campaign of destruction against Bill Cosby, as well as any other Black person.
I'm just going to bury my head in the sand and pretend that me being bitter and hateful and judgmental will solve anything.
If I'm working with young people from low income backgrounds, I'm not going to shame them for their circumstances. They already feel ashamed. I'm going to continue to be respectful and encouraging.
I'm actually very resourceful. And I have personally helped a lot of people achieve their goals.
Talk is cheap.
We have to be the person going into the underserved communities and reaching out to the people.
It's me that has to do this.
Instead of ragging a young man or shaming him for sagging, I'll politely explain the MEANING to him and give him a choice for himself.
I'm not smarter than anyone here. I only believe in treating people with respect and helping them find solutions.
Bill Cosby has done a lot of good work and he has been nothing but kind and professional to me.
And even though this is a witchhunt, he open the door and made it easier for them by the choices he made.
I am not gloating in any of this.
I just wanted to make it clear that for people who feel so strongly about his speech either way that those of us who are able need to make efforts towards reaching out to people whose lives are filled with poverty and destruction.
If your intent is honest and true you can make a difference in even just one person's life. You can be the voice of reason to person that may not have parents Who are able to reach them.