Black man explains why the dating scene is messed up

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He's partially right.

  • Social media is gassing too many women up even the ones that don't look good at all

  • 80/20 rule

  • Nobody gives a damn about men, including other men. As bad as feminists are they're at least good at uplifting their self-esteems. You've got dudes here who would rather take up the talking points of white male feminists than admit the dating game is a mess right now lol

  • The guys that can't get anything turn to the internet where their insecurities and frustrations get worse
If he had made his points eloquently I would have agreed with him.
 

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Men like him usually think highly of themselves which is sad because he isn’t cute and probably doesn’t even have money, on top of that he has a terrible personality no redeeming qualities whatsoever.
you dont know anything about him but you are assuming

I make more than 300K a year (before carried interest brings it to 350-400K). Women constantly tell me I am pretty. And my girlfriend tells me I am the perfect man, yet I still battle with her over some of the shyt the gentleman is saying....

So what youre saying has nothing to do with it. The young man is speaking the truth
 

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the financial part he was speaking on was bleh, but what he said about women:

- not wanting to answer no questions
- not wanting structure
- wanting their man not to have an opinion
- wanting a nikka they can talk disrespectfully to etc.

Its all truthful. Thing is they appear to want it on the surface, but deep down they want a man to put them in their place when theyre being an idiot. And thats what leads to the constant battling between men and women unnecessarily - especially black women.

Its a mind fukk. You question them, provide structure, give your opinions, and dont tolerate disrespect - they will say youre controlling, manipulative and too serious. Like a child or wild animal they will do everything to rebel. You do the opposite, women will walk all over you en route to a new man.

Point is that women dont actually know what the fukk they want, so you should never try to do or be anything solely for them. Maintain your values and beliefs and kick them to the curb if it doesnt align.
 

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He’s spot on. This is the curse that women suffer given to them in Genesis. They don’t desire men, but they desire to rule over men and are mad because they don’t have the might to rule men, so they rule men by using a plethora of weak men/Agressive mentally weak men/dumbmen to act on their behalf.

That’s why they divorce at over 70% and make the claim the problem is with men, but the only problem is men letting women have any authority to begin with. Women can never rule, because they are more prone to evil than men and they are attracted to it as well. Why do you think they love the occult so much?

Just because a women will tell a brute to stop beating a nerd, doesn’t mean women are good. They will still get with that brute and deep down they enjoyed seeing the nerd get beat. Why would a “good girl” lay with a bad man, knowingly? Like gang bangers/drug dealers. We see it all the time. They will use the brute if they can, to work on their behalf. If a woman doesn’t fear The Most High or isn’t sheltered/square in some way, wickedness will come. Women might be “nice” but they have no honor.
Pure facts, can't deal with them properly until you understand this. Some men never learn, watch their actions, they are not that mysterious.
 

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Old dude is babbling and talking in circles. :mjlol:

First he says then he says women only fukk with men with money and then he says women don’t want to deal with a man with his own money who has their shyt together because they won’t put up with their shyt.:dead:
hes right and not talking in circles, but youd have to have been in an actual relationship (with a real woman) to understand.

he is basically saying women want a man with money in theory, but cant handle the expectations and boundaries that come with being with a man who has money

the same thing goes for men who want pretty women but cant handle the maintenance/expectations that pretty women are going to have
 

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He’s spot on. This is the curse that women suffer given to them in Genesis. They don’t desire men, but they desire to rule over men and are mad because they don’t have the might to rule men, so they rule men by using a plethora of weak men/Agressive mentally weak men/dumbmen to act on their behalf.

That’s why they divorce at over 70% and make the claim the problem is with men, but the only problem is men letting women have any authority to begin with. Women can never rule, because they are more prone to evil than men and they are attracted to it as well. Why do you think they love the occult so much?

Just because a women will tell a brute to stop beating a nerd, doesn’t mean women are good. They will still get with that brute and deep down they enjoyed seeing the nerd get beat. Why would a “good girl” lay with a bad man, knowingly? Like gang bangers/drug dealers. We see it all the time. They will use the brute if they can, to work on their behalf. If a woman doesn’t fear The Most High or isn’t sheltered/square in some way, wickedness will come. Women might be “nice” but they have no honor.
this man gets it
 

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To sum it up, friends. Many women want hypergamy while trying to run sh!t. It doesn’t work like that. So they get with subordinate men so they can call the shots. Then when the sh!t hits the the fan they can blame him for not being what they knew he wasn’t in the the first place. Word to
SWP, friends.
 
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