Black men...come in here!

[13473]

Date a black nerd and youll see men that prefer natural hair.

i've only dated black nerds.

my comment basically meant that the experiences of natural haired women being ignored or rejected don't become wrong because a group of guys say they prefer natural hair. they might prefer it in their heads but chase after the opposite which shapes how natural haired women perceive their hair in the dating world.

and this is not to throw any stones at bm. naturals get treated differently in general by different groups, such as by hiring managers.

 

[smARTmouf]

@ the results...

Does this suggest black women just don't like themselves?....

 

[Blackout]

i've only dated black nerds.

my comment basically meant that the experiences of natural haired women being ignored or rejected don't become wrong because a group of guys say they prefer natural hair. they might prefer it in their heads but chase after the opposite which shapes how natural haired women perceive their hair in the dating world.

and this is not to throw any stones at bm. naturals get treated differently in general by different groups, such as by hiring managers.

Thats what they all say.

I mean a real nerd not some I wear nerd glasses cuz its cool fake ass nerd.

You can wear a wig or weave for work or an interview and take it off after work I see no harm in that as long as its just to get hired or only at work. That doesnt mean that you have to defend it and wear it after work.

As for guys ignoring natural girls, why would you want these men? If they cant accept the real you then fukk them.

 

[GoPro]

Natural for marriage, no exceptions. I aint marrying no hairhat.

For smashing, anything but bald.

 

[stepbackj34spud]

Natural hair.

I don't care how pretty a chick is, BW still look like fools when they are wearing weave. shyt is cray how some of these bytches be thinking they look fly.

 

[Dwolf]

A fat ass.

 

[Dwolf]

When I first went natural, my harshest critics were black men. I had comments like "don't worry, baby, it'll grow back" and "why you go and do that?" Once my hair grew out, the negative comments stopped and I started getting more attention. I have a theory that hair length is more of an issue than the texture in terms of what men are attracted to. Although I will say, once I started growing my dreadlocs, my ex used to complain that they could never "be straightened" again and I would be "stuck" with them.

Thats not a theory. Its because you were damn near bald or your hair was short.

 

[13473]

Thats what they all say.

I mean a real nerd not some I wear nerd glasses cuz its cool nerd.

You can wear a wig for work and take it off after work I see no harm in that.

As for guys ignoring natural girls, why would you want these men? If they cant accept the real you then fukk them.

i did mean real nerds. science fair winning, room dedicated to computers, never seen a girl naked, more degrees than friends, lets discuss the types of trees i saw on my way to work nerds.

if you know a place to find more blerds, please share them.

ignoring natural girls doesn't mean they hate them. it probably does speak about the value placed on them. some guys hit on weaved chicks then ask them to wear their hair. it is confusing.

i don't want these men. i want thirsty simps who give me chocolates and offer to detangle my afro

 

[Ooh Marty]

Never met a blk man that gave a fukk abt how I rock my hair until I came to the coli :disnikka1:

 

[NobodyReally]

Thats not a theory. Its because you were damn near bald or your hair was short.

Well it is a theory because it's not a absolute rule. Women with short hair do pull men. But I do think length is a big factor

 

[Blackout]

i did mean real nerds. science fair winning, room dedicated to computers, never seen a girl naked, more degrees than friends, lets discuss the types of trees i saw on my way to work nerds.

if you know a place to find more blerds, please share them.

ignoring natural girls doesn't mean they hate them. it probably does speak about the value placed on them. some guys hit on weaved chicks then ask them to wear their hair. it is confusing.

i don't want these men. i want thirsty simps who give me chocolates and offer to detangle my afro

Miss dont devalue yourself by minding those men who like weaves.

Rock your natural hair and check out those men who like you as is.

Ive seen too many women wear weaves to attract men and fall victim to single prenthood.

Please dont become a victim.

 

[13473]

Ive seen too many women wear weaves to attract men and fall victim to single prenthood.

Please dont become a victim.

i'll look more into this

 

[GoPro]

Never met a blk man that gave a fukk abt how I rock my hair until I came the coli :disnikka1:

Most men won't tell you whats what cause they tryna get that puss, plus they know big girls'll do anything for a klondike bar

 

[Dwolf]

Never met a blk man that gave a fukk abt how I rock my hair until I came the coli :disnikka1:

Grown men discussing women's hair styles

 

[Ooh Marty]

Most men won't tell you whats what cause they tryna get that puss, plus they know big girls'll do anything for a klondike bar

First off I only eat the finest of deserts so get that bullshyt outta here and as long as my hair was looking nice none of my exes gave a fukk bytch