Break Up With Your Man Cause You Like Him More Than He likes You Brehettes

[Tenchi Ryu]

Exactly. Women are supposed to just accept anything from men

So you just missed that whole decade of the Tyler Perry saga?

Naw yall ass been notified yall don't have to accept anything

 

[Larry Lambo]

A lot of assumptions are being made from that short ass thread. I don't know what we can actually take from the info there. It doesn't seem to be enough to really make any observations from it.

I will say that communication is key. If you don't think you're on the same page, at least talk through it. I don't know whether that happened in this case or not, but it's a general rule for me.

 

[ORDER_66]

Of course it's dumb to a man that just wants to play games with women and use them. But look at it from the point of view of a woman that doesn't want to be played or used, it's a really good reason. I know it's hard for you guys to put yourself in womens shoes because we aren't people but just pretend for a second.

Why must the man be playing a game?! Maybe he's hesitant to let himself get deeper involved... It's not about putting anyone in a woman's shoes... sometimes a man grows in deeper love with time. Most men arent willing to go all in at first glance. Also they just started dating it's too soon for this shyt. Why must the man be at fault for something that he never created?!

 

[Ashley Banks]

So you just missed that whole decade of the Tyler Perry saga?

Naw yall ass been notified yall don't have to accept anything

I'm talking to the op, since he thinks she shouldn't have left him.

 

[Bigblackted4]

Man why do you have to love someone as fast as they love you people are humans and take longer than others to get there. If he didn't like her and she loved him that's different but this sounds like bad advice and impatience all in once. How long where they together.

 

[SheWantTheD]

A lot of assumptions are being made from that short ass thread. I don't know what we can actually take from the info there. It doesn't seem to be enough to really make any observations from it.

I will say that communication is key. If you don't think you're on the same page, at least talk through it. I don't know whether that happened in this case or not, but it's a general rule for me.

That's what I'm saying, she didn't give enough info. Just that she likes him more than he likes her.

Which is retarded.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Why must the man be playing a game?! Maybe he's hesitant to let himself get deeper involved... It's not about putting anyone in a woman's shoes... sometimes a man grows in deeper love with time. Most men arent willing to go all in at first glance. Also they just started dating it's too soon for this shyt. Why must the man be at fault for something that he never created?!

I guess this is where we pretend that men never play games and always have the best of intentions when dating someone they don't like that much. Maybe you're right, maybe he's going to move up to really liking her after a few years of dating, then she might even get an I love you after 10 years.

also, why should she trust a man that's hesitant to get deeply involved with her? maybe she's hesitant too but decided to end it before her feelings got too strong and he finally realized he doesn't want her?

 

[1thouwow]

I've actually done this before

 

[ORDER_66]

I guess this is where we pretend that men never play games and always have the best of intentions when dating someone they don't like that much. Maybe you're right, maybe he's going to move up to really liking her after a few years of dating, then she might even get an I love you after 10 years.

You sound ridiculous... Women always waiting for the man's words instead of observing his actions as well...
You're hopeless... Would you understand WHY a man would be hesitant in a new relationship to not be open upfront???

 

[The Mad Titan]

Unless its drastic, its silly to leave someone because you THINK you like them more than they like you.

Even if you do sometimes it takes time for feelings to even out, and its always a up and down thing someone will always be in there feelings a bit more than the other and you see-saw off that. I mean if its a trash dude or chick ok leave... but leaving a good guy or chick because you feel like you like them more than they like you is terrible advice. Its slim picking out here when it comes to people with there head on straight.

 

[CinnaSlim]

What's most important is do you like him more than you like yourself? People train others on how to treat them. We only accept the disrespect we tolerate from ourselves.

If you are with someone who doesn't like you as much as you like them, is it because you do not believe you deserve or can attain more? Have you asked for what you want?

 

[The Mad Titan]

What's most important is do you like him more than you like yourself? People train others on how to treat them. We only accept the disrespect we tolerate from ourselves.

If you are with someone who doesn't like you as much as you like them, is it because you do not believe you deserve or can attain more? Have you asked for what you want?

You should write books.

 

[CinnaSlim]

You should write books.

I get most of my wisdom from books lol

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

That's actually a pretty good reason to break up with someone. But this is the coli and any woman that breaks up with a guy, no matter what the reason is, is dumb.

I firmly believe some women bite their nose off to spite their face
What if the man in this situation really, truly likes her but is scared of getting that work like last time?
nikkas do have emotions and feelings. We not outchea on 10, trying to be gangsta and playas all the time.
Society teaches men if you show any emotions you are simp, sucka and no woman will respect you for it but then back door with this logic and it's supposed to be acceptable..
Man fukk all that
How about you sit down with your potential mate and have a real conversation about what your feeling and if you feel that person can't give you what you want/need then you proceed to move on..
people outchea breaking up with people arbitrarily or off some bitter ass friend advice..
shyts ridiculous

 

[Critical Distance]

What if the man in this situation really, truly likes her but is scared of getting that work like last time?

Then he shouldn't be in a relationship.