Break Up With Your Man Cause You Like Him More Than He likes You Brehettes

[The Mad Titan]

I firmly believe some women bite their nose off to spite their face
What if the man in this situation really, truly likes her but is scared of getting that work like last time?
nikkas do have emotions and feelings. We not outchea on 10, trying to be gangsta and playas all the time.
Society teaches men if you show any emotions you are simp, sucka and no woman will respect you for it but then back door with this logic and it's supposed to be acceptable..
Man fukk all that
How about you sit down with your potential mate and have a real conversation about what your feeling and if you feel that person can't give you what you want/need then you proceed to move on..
people outchea breaking up with people arbitrarily or off some bitter ass friend advice..
shyts ridiculous

Fax's

If a dude really likes a chick off the rip and shows it most chicks are going to be like


While telling they girl

"He's just way more into me than I am him, its kind of weird and something must be wrong."


I mean they are levels if a nikka saying he love you or trying to get married or move in with like the 1st couple of months then yeah. But it doesn't take anything close to that to spook a woman.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Then he shouldn't be in a relationship.

So how do you work on that with someone without being in a relationship?

Its not something you can really take care of dolo

 

[Critical Distance]

Its not something you can really take care of dolo

It definitely is something you can work on yourself, by learning to value yourself and not placing so much importance on how others view you. If you're "not afraid of getting that work" you'll accept that a chick isn't feeling you and move to greener pastures.

 

[The Mad Titan]

It definitely is something you can work on yourself, by learning to value yourself and not placing so much importance on how others view you. If you're "not afraid of getting that work" you'll accept that a chick isn't feeling you and move to greener pastures.

ehh sure on the surface level if your dating thats true, but at some point no matter how much confidence and and value you have for yourself you not trying to get burnt again when it comes to actual love.

Confidence and self value don't matter a lick when love starts to get involved. Its not about an image at that point and about feelings.


Thats something that takes time in a relationship with the person you want more from. Its like training for a boxing match after betting beat up by a boxer randomly. The only way you really going to get better is by getting in the ring and training with other boxers.. not at home training in the backyard or a gym working on technique.

 

[Critical Distance]

you not trying to get burnt again when it comes to actual love.

See, the point is you shouldn't worry about getting burnt because you can't control how others feel, ultimately. No matter how much "training" you do.

 

[BlackDynamite310]

David ruffin- walk away from love.

Should answer everything in this thread

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Then he shouldn't be in a relationship.

Lets keep it a buck..
Everyone has fear in a relationship..
People fear rejection, vulnerability, loneliness in multiple stages throughout the duration of any type of relationship..
Nobody(and I'm in the most healthy relationship I've ever been in) stops having those doubts from the past.
The human brain is a tricky devil..
But this is were open communication comes into play..
This is were you have weekly talks about how things are going and how each other feel, so nobody is blindsided by the bullshyt..
If you are in the early stages of dating and you pull bullshyt like this...
How are you going to differentiate/sustain a serious relationship without even speaking to a person about your concerns in the first 6 months
Nah, that's that bullshyt and it shows no responsibility or growth in this young lady..
Stand on your square and speak the truth..
Give the person a chance at least to defend themselves(unless they are cheating/abusing you) and make your decision then before tossing a potential mate to the bushes.
A lot of people miss out on opportunities not knowing it's right in their face..
And if you can't differentiate between settling/potential..
Yo ass need to stay out them dating streets because you contributing to the fukkery that is the dating scene

 

[Hey_zeus]

The reality is that this is how relationships go to a degree. Someone is always more into the other person. Even at the love stage. I don't think it's a bad thing necessarily.

 

[Critical Distance]

Everyone has fear in a relationship..

Everyone has fear, but letting it control so you don't display affection and love is not the way to go.

Yeah, not really defending the poster in question actions, since the original thread was vague as hell. She could have brought it up to the dude though.