Just fukkbuddy status....but one of the women actually broke it down for me since she went and fukked her ex boyfriend who worked at UPS doing packages who had NO interest in having a kid from what I gathered as the child turned out to be his...from what I was told he QUIT that UPS job to work under the table doing landscaping....
This is what she said word for word
"I wanted it to be you because you had a full time job and was going somewhere in life. I gambled. I took a chance and thought it was yours". mind you she was very quick in filing paperwork to put me on Child Support and not the Ex.
Literally....and mind you I was making 50K at the time...ain't no salary to support a baby especially in the OC.
Black men on this forum who lived in Orange County know that salary is fukking peanuts to survive. Especially in the mid 2000's right when the Big Financial crash had hit.
but hey story doesn't end there. So after her child was born she acted like what she did NEVER happened.
That bothered me the most because she acted like it was a minor mistake for me...
She was really doing the most with that bullshyt man...as when she sent those papers she sent the shyt right to my work too...so my business was ALREADY out there when this was going down. I was at work minding my business on some
Dabney Coleman Cloak and Dagger shyt
but nahhhhhh she blew up the spot when that mail came in.
She reached out to me when the baby was 7 months old....Sent me pictures of the baby and wanted me to drive out there to hang out with them on the coast one weekend so I could as she said..."see the new me and meet my baby Amelia".
She thought somehow I would fall in love with her or that baby....
I was like.......
I torpedoed that shyt with a simple "No thanks I am not interested".
Never heard from the bytch again.