Brehettes say that a man isn't a real friend if he refuses to help a woman because she has a bf

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  1. Mr. Jack Napier

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    Point. Blank. Period.

    Some women tend to want those same privileges without being the actual girlfriend. And some have the nerve to get upset when you tell them no.
     
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    I think it is simply rude for people to ask others to help them with a home improvement project and not offer any money. That goes for friends & family.

    Friendship doesn't guarantee that people gonna say yes to every favor asked. Friends gonna accept no or maybe another time. Sometimes, a,friend may not get back to you in a timely manner. Gotta be flexible with friends.

    I don't trust anybody who always expect shyt for free! Smh..
     
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    :hubie:sorry but friendship is one sided with women.

    they get attention, favors, and other bullshyt. its like a girlfriend without the sex. What do we get out of it?
     
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    if she was a real friend, she wouldnt be using the internet against him.

    anyway, everybody needs boundaries. he could have said it in a more tactful way, but opposite sex friends do need to be aware of significant others and the spaces typically occupied by them. women also need to be aware of what they are asking men to do. some things you really need to have enough sense to not be asking for, like things that are expensive or labor intensive. some things he really should only be doing for his lady.
     
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    You're spot on. Everytime I've helped with "labor" work with family they would usually break us off a little bread and/or feed us. And I would do the same if I was to ask my family or friends for labor work.
     
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    Anything can work with logical thinking people
     
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    Yep.
     
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    Why do women see male friends as "You're supposed to do stuff for me" kind of people?
     
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    Lmao!
     
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    A man's job around the house is to either help with the housework or hire someone. it's a fair question to tell her that the man should do it. You aren't supposed to be blurring the lines of what a man is supposed to do and what a friend is supposed to do.

    She went off.... on Twitter... in public... Some friend :mjlol:
     
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    That’s my bad and I apologize!:damn:

    I will make it up to you :mjcry:
     
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    There was no man around the house cause she doesn't have one... Y'all keep reserving this bullshyt for WOMEN and it's obvious. If your homeboy asks you to come help him out with some shyt, I'm 50000% sure you don't hit him with the "a man's job......." speech. Get all the way the fukk out of here. You either say yes or no or state your stipulations. If he asked you to swing by and bring him some food when you swing by, you wouldn't be like "Oh brother, don't you have a woman at home to cook cause that's her role" You'd either swing by Popeyes or not nikka.

    The real issue I see with most of you is you don't actually want female friends. Just like you shouldn't have to say black baseball player. You shouldn't even have to say female friend. You should be treating her just like you treat your nikkas cause she's your friend. Do you ask your day ones "What am I getting out of this?" Do they have to offer you money anytime they ask a favor? Do you need to check what's your role as a man when you do shyt with them? Do you have to ask your girl before you ask them things? No... cause they are FRIENDS

    Y'all want to blur the lines and make up new rules when p*ssy is in the air. My friends would help me with WHATEVER. As I would do for them. Sometimes they offer, sometimes I ask, sometimes I can't, sometimes it's free. It's a friendship. When they are low, I look out. When I'm low, they look out. But suddenly, when it's a woman. nikkas got to do calculus, to determine the limits of the friendship, as it relates to her relationship status and who she fukking..
     
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    That's a lot of words for you to still be wrong.... Whether you like it or not when people are in a relationship there are roles around the house. if she has a man he has responsibilities and she has some on her end. Housework is something that you are going to expect your partner to be apart of..

    So with that it's absolutely the right question to ask. You don't want to be stepping into another man's role. Now you say well she doesn't have a man.. so what.. the question should be asked and if they aren't close enough to even know whether they have S.O.'s or not then again painting is also not a task for an acquaintance.
     

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