Brehettes say that a man isn't a real friend if he refuses to help a woman because she has a bf

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Deuterion

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It’s a lame thing to say and he admitted it. Like I said the best way to say it would be “sorry I have xyz to, I can’t.” In terms of payment…who pays friends for that stuff? Like I said normally you just offer food and drinks in exchange. But that’s for her to figure out with her female friends.

I don’t care what a lame dude admits to or not. He gave the right answer but apologized because he wants to stay in the “simp sunken place”. You’re calling the honest answer lame and recommending he lie...that’s lame.

Also I have no problem paying friends for help with things I would pay others to do. But in this situation they are not really friends in the first place because she ignored him when he asked to hang out time after time and when she finally reaches out it’s to ask to help her paint.

She’s trash, he shouldn’t have apologized, and saying what you honestly feel is always better than lying. Her reaction shows him that they are not real friends, when she doesn’t get her way she’s quick to blast him out for the whole world to see
 

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No. The boyfriend is the first call.

If a child ask one parent if he can go to a friend’s house, the parent confirms with the other parent.

Asking what’s up with the boyfriend is just logical. He may want to do it on a Sunday and she wants it done on Saturday and now she’s dragging you into a situation that doesn’t involve you and is just her going around her boyfriend.
Y’all obviously didn’t read. The woman DOES NOT HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!!


Dude was so in his feelings about not linking up for a date he was trying to friendship his way into, he never even asked if she wasn’t single. He just threw it out there on some passive aggressive hurt shyt. Then followed it up with the over the top simp apology. So he can leave the friend door open to keep trying to get that “I didn’t mean to do this” p*ssy.


Dude is fake and phony. And any man who even plays a friend, is the same. Either step to her and make your intentions known off top. Or shut the fukk up about her man and be a real friend. I tell women straight up, I am not your friend, you know why I’m here. I remind every single time I hear the word, cause I don’t want it ever misconstrued that I’m not trying to pipe you, if I am. And if I’m not, then me and her man cool anyway. Cause that’s my friends partner. A real friend would have her man introduced and none of this would be an issue. But nikkas know better. Cause they trying to fukk

Time hoes
 

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Y’all obviously didn’t read. The woman DOES NOT HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!!


Dude was so in his feelings about not linking up for a date he was trying to friendship his way into, he never even asked if she wasn’t single. He just threw it out there on some passive aggressive hurt shyt. Then followed it up with the over the top simp apology. So he can leave the friend door open to keep trying to get that “I didn’t mean to do this” p*ssy.


Dude is fake and phony. And any man who even plays a friend, is the same. Either step to her and make your intentions known off top. Or shut the fukk up about her man and be a real friend. I tell women straight up, I am not your friend, you know why I’m here. I remind every single time I hear the word, cause I don’t want it ever misconstrued that I’m not trying to pipe you, if I am. And if I’m not, then me and her man cool anyway. Cause that’s my friends partner. A real friend would have her man introduced and none of this would be an issue. But nikkas know better. Cause they trying to fukk

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You right. I just read the first tweet.

While I agree trying to purposefully back door into a relationship is lame, then she and he aren’t friends if he doesn’t know basics of her relationships(family, boyfriend, some other friends).

So asking some rando dude she barely knows to do something for her is still lame on her part and to try and frame it as a friend not helping unless he is getting in her pants.

it’s just a creep being a creep
 

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This is what happens when you friend bytches you tryna fukk, I got a bunch of female friends I have no interest in fukking and that I’m genuinely friends with lol

If my homegirl asked me to help her paint a room or something I would definitely help if I had the time. If she asked me for money and had a bf I would say the same “don’t you got a bf? :huh:“. If she didn’t have one at the time and it was really urgent I got her for anything under $100 USD :manny:
That’s it lol .


My homeboy asked me to fix his sons bed and help paint the room .

Imagine me saying don’t you have a wife :russ:.


If someone is a friend they will either say yes or no they are busy or make something up .
 

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Man y’all don’t help your friends :what:.


The internet is strange I promise I don’t get y’all .

Right!

I dont think it is that complicated. Either you have the time and will help. Have the time and wont help. Dont have the time but will find it. Or dont have the time and wont make it. If it is a true friend and they need the help, I would figure it out if I could and help.

I have female friends who I helped move, strategize with, etc. all while having a gf (who is now my wife). As long as your intentions are right, what's the problem.




Though, if she had a man, I'd ask if he would be there too. Dont want nighas getting the wrong idea.
 

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Right!

I dont think it is that complicated. Either you have the time and will help. Have the time and wont help. Dont have the time but will find it. Or dont have the time and wont make it. If it is a true friend and they need the help, I would figure it out if I could and help.

I have female friends who I helped move, strategize with, etc. all while having a gf (who is now my wife). As long as your intentions are right, what's the problem.




Though, if she had a man, I'd ask if he would be there too. Dont want nighas getting the wrong idea.
Simple !!!!
 

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That’s it lol .


My homeboy asked me to fix his sons bed and help paint the room .

Imagine me saying don’t you have a wife :russ:.


If someone is a friend they will either say yes or no they are busy or make something up .


I would help you too @ThiefyPoo :mjgrin:
 

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Seeing this fake sounding text. This whole scenario most likely never happened and she just made this up for clout.


It sounds fake,but on the other hand nikkas talk real safe/scripted from that friendzone:lolbron:

Wouldnt doubt he came through with the fake apology,your back in the game champ:russ:

I know for a fact if one of her girlfriends asked her this ,it wouldnt be an issue
 
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