Brehettes say that a man isn't a real friend if he refuses to help a woman because she has a bf

[Neuromancer]

Also what's the trade off? Can I ask her to help me cook a meal?

 

[NatiboyB]

I mean he’s not your friend

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Appropriate response to a woman with a bf asking you to help PAINT for FREE....

 

[BaggerofTea]

The womans post comes across as contrived and made up.

Anyone who has done painting knows its a process and can take all day.

What grown adult has that sort of time or energy to spend?

 

[I'm Blackman]

Hold on fam, there's zero way I'd help either. I'm just saying I would have simply came up with a bullshyt reason because I know she got girlfriends who can help. I don't help anyone with "house shyt" (moving, painting, etc) unless you're family, a family friend (like an elder), or a good friend who I owe it to. Female friend who I know has multiple options to help her with something? Hell no.

Why a bullshyt reason? Why not just tell her no, lol?

 

[OVER]

I mean I agree but also why would you need a male friend to do a task when you have a man? Are you my female friend if I can't call you up to get me lunch if I have a wife at home who could do the same?

Also context of the friendship and favor matter. Like if the female and her male friendship is based around them studying and she asks him are they still studying tonight and he goes "don't you have a bf who could help" I'd say he was in the wrong but if she asks her study buddy to help paint a room, yeah she has a boyfriend who can do that and is trying to take advantage of her male friend.

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

He played it safe. Her man might feel slighted with her asking another man to do shyt like that.

Or maybe her man is on some lazy shiftless gorilla pimp brush her off dikk her down vibe so she’s looking for a simp to get it done

 

[Neuromancer]

Or maybe her man is on some lazy shiftless gorilla pimp brush her off dikk her down vibe so she’s looking for a simp to get it done

Or maybe she made this all up?

 

[Piff Perkins]

It's not weird at all. A man is supposed to be a protector and a provider so the platonic male friend is basically asking: "Don't you have a provider that should be handling these duties?" It's a fair question and how I feel about these situations myself. Why would a woman give herself to a man who is so inept that she herself has to enlist other men to accomplish everyday life tasks? Shouldn't he be the one facilitating the painting and either hiring someone or calling his homies up to do it with him? Why is she giving p*ssy to this nikka when he can't even do something so basic? She trifling for even asking another dude to even do something like this without offering cash or some other incentive. She is simply being a user and trying to guilt trip the dude and since he's weak, he fell for it and apologized.

It’s a lame thing to say and he admitted it. Like I said the best way to say it would be “sorry I have xyz to, I can’t.” In terms of payment…who pays friends for that stuff? Like I said normally you just offer food and drinks in exchange. But that’s for her to figure out with her female friends.

 

[The Villain]

Painting is like moving. Even if I'm your friend I really dont want to do that shyt. If you got a nikka and ask me to do that shyt
Out your rabbit ass mind

 

[315]

nikka is a clown(if it’s real). Smh.

I don't believe none of these shyts. Probably had her home girl text her that when she wasn't getting the response she wanted lol

 

[Jaylen Tatum]

She thought homie was a simp who would jump at her request.

 

[3rdLetter]

She talking about real friends but all it took was a response she didn't like to blast her "friend" all over twitter

 

[Primetime]

Kinda sounds like some high school ish, her talkin bout "real friends"

The way i see it: You may not invite your married female coworker to accompany you and your buddies to hit the night life on a weekend... but the days you're running late to work or fukkin up, she may be the one who covers for your ass so no one notices.

i.e. She has your back just off the friendship yall built within the boundaries of work. And vice versa. That example of friendship is real enough imo and can just be left and respected at that, in that domain.

"..well if doesn't also come over and help me do laundry then she's not a real friend..!" lol like, nah mayne..

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Would a man with a whole gf ask her to come over and cook up dinner? What would her reply be?