Brehettes say that a man isn't a real friend if he refuses to help a woman because she has a bf

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  1. Agree

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  2. Disagree

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  1. The Hierophant

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    Also what's the trade off? Can I ask her to help me cook a meal?
     
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    I mean he’s not your friend
     
  3. DatBoiHawk

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    Appropriate response to a woman with a bf asking you to help PAINT for FREE....
     
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    The womans post comes across as contrived and made up.

    Anyone who has done painting knows its a process and can take all day.

    What grown adult has that sort of time or energy to spend?
     
  5. I'm Blackman

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    Why a bullshyt reason? Why not just tell her no, lol?
     
  6. OVER

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    I mean I agree but also why would you need a male friend to do a task when you have a man? Are you my female friend if I can't call you up to get me lunch if I have a wife at home who could do the same?

    Also context of the friendship and favor matter. Like if the female and her male friendship is based around them studying and she asks him are they still studying tonight and he goes "don't you have a bf who could help" I'd say he was in the wrong but if she asks her study buddy to help paint a room, yeah she has a boyfriend who can do that and is trying to take advantage of her male friend.
     
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  7. thedevilyouknow

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    Or maybe her man is on some lazy shiftless gorilla pimp brush her off dikk her down vibe so she’s looking for a simp to get it done
     
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    Or maybe she made this all up?
     
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    It’s a lame thing to say and he admitted it. Like I said the best way to say it would be “sorry I have xyz to, I can’t.” In terms of payment…who pays friends for that stuff? Like I said normally you just offer food and drinks in exchange. But that’s for her to figure out with her female friends.
     
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    Painting is like moving. Even if I'm your friend I really dont want to do that shyt. If you got a nikka and ask me to do that shyt :hhh:
    Out your rabbit ass mind
     
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    I don't believe none of these shyts. Probably had her home girl text her that when she wasn't getting the response she wanted lol
     
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    She thought homie was a simp who would jump at her request.
     
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    She talking about real friends but all it took was a response she didn't like to blast her "friend" all over twitter :heh:
     
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    Kinda sounds like some high school ish, her talkin bout "real friends"

    The way i see it: You may not invite your married female coworker to accompany you and your buddies to hit the night life on a weekend... but the days you're running late to work or fukkin up, she may be the one who covers for your ass so no one notices.

    i.e. She has your back just off the friendship yall built within the boundaries of work. And vice versa. That example of friendship is real enough imo and can just be left and respected at that, in that domain.

    "..well if doesn't also come over and help me do laundry then she's not a real friend..!" lol like, nah mayne..
     
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    Would a man with a whole gf ask her to come over and cook up dinner? What would her reply be?
     

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