You are a rapist, attempting to lecture me about emotional intelligenceHad you worked on your emotional intelligence like I advised,none of this would have happened.
Its real easy to be a big shot and passionately threaten to beat up posters,threaten gun violence on black men. But I guess showing your woman more affection than a dog,and letting your guard down is difficult
But we support you in your journey here on NuColi. If you cant find it in yourself to do so,dont worry. Women will often find a companian at work,or at the gym to fill that passion void that energizes their heart chakra. You can still handle all the thug loving duties within the household#TeamWork
There’s a customer support line for your questions, this thread is about mine.I assume you have the answer to this question
Burger king as potential to be goat fast food but the quality of the restaurants as a whole always sub par what's the deal with that.
Had you worked on your emotional intelligence like I advised,none of this would have happened.
Its real easy to be a big shot and passionately threaten to beat up posters,threaten gun violence on black men. But I guess showing your woman more affection than a dog,and letting your guard down is difficult
But we support you in your journey here on NuColi. If you cant find it in yourself to do so,dont worry. Women will often find a companian at work,or at the gym to fill that passion void that energizes their heart chakra. You can still handle all the thug loving duties within the household#TeamWork
Ahhh, I see. I think she doesn't feel heard. Sometimes when some women complain, they aren't looking for solutions so much as they want to someone to talk to them and let them comment on their issues. In the end it's all about feelings.She could be upset because she’s been having issues at her job and she feels like I’m not listening to her complaints about said job.
We had a discussion about it, she mentioned the issues at her job and I told her she should quit.
I even offered to give her a job until she can find something better. Her father did too (they’re Igbo and run a bunch of African food marts here in DFW).
But at the same time, I don’t know what she expects me to say when she keeps complaining about the same shyt over and over again and I’ve already offered her a solution.
Thanks, I owe you rep but it says I gotta wait.Ahhh, I see. I think she doesn't feel heard. Sometimes when some women complain, they aren't looking for solutions so much as they want to someone to talk to them and let them comment on their issues. In the end it's all about feelings.
When she complains about her job, provide less in the way of solutions (as crazy as that sounds), and instead dig more into why the issues bother her. If she really is vexed by her job, then I'd wonder:
What does she want to do about the issue with her job? How does she feel about it (does she dread going to work)? How does she feel about the solutions offered to her? How does she expect it to realistically resolve? What is stopping her from taking all the advice gives to her?
I wouldn't be direct with these questions but it is something good to know to figure out where her head is at, if that is the issue.
Ultimately she probably doesn't feel heard and by extension, appreciated (women have a tendency to equate one thing for another, even when they aren't really related). Helping her to feel heard or appreciated is a step in the right direction.
U answered your own question dude.She could be upset because she’s been having issues at her job and she feels like I’m not listening to her complaints about said job.
We had a discussion about it, she mentioned the issues at her job and I told her she should quit.
I even offered to give her a job until she can find something better. Her father did too (they’re Igbo and run a bunch of African food marts here in DFW).
But at the same time, I don’t know what she expects me to say when she keeps complaining about the same shyt over and over again and I’ve already offered her a solution.