Brehettes, what the hell is wrong with some of y’all? :dahell:

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She literally told you directly what she wanted. You used it as an excuse to insult her and disregard her feelings.

I broke up with the last dude who did that to me. Keep it up and she'll eventually do the same.

It's crazy how you speaking to your significant other with kindness is too inconvenient for you. But you probably still asked for p*ssy later though.

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Man, you ladies have given the straight facts with no chaser!
 

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They are Nigerian, so she respects her father and caters to him a lot and in return he seems to spoil her. But she is a good chick so I think she deserves it..

I'm cool with both my parents, though as an adult I can't spend too much time around my mother.
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Does she cater to you ?
Does her catering come at a price ?

She’s use to certain treatment…


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Ma dukes too judgmental?




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None the less the dynamics are interesting between the first female you ever seen in your life and the first male she seen in her life
 

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OP done fukked up and did not have the “love language” convo with his girl. Gotta get that shyt out the way early. Especially if you already described yourself as not affectionate.

I don’t wanna pick sides (hers) but I already went thru this with my girl and although it doesn’t come naturally to me I make an effort to make sure she feels loved the way she wants
 

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It seems like someone would appreciated a spouse who's crazy about a pet. It should automatically indicate they're more crazier about them. When my ex fell in love with my dog, it really turned me on, and showed me what a big heart she had. And she didn't even like dogs all that much.

Personally, I could never get jealous of a girlfriends dog or cat. I'd probably spend too much time playing with them like they were my own.
 
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WTF :dead:


I never in my life heard a Black man talk to an animal or child in that goofy ass tone women and cacs use to talk to pets and kids!

You need to write a rule book because I got called white on here for saying something was 'pretty cool':stopitslime:

That's just unfair:smh:

@The Burger King you gonna apologize? You kinda snapped at her with the line about talking to her like a dog:heh:
 

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What that 🐕 do for you that your girl don't
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I bet you rub her belly and call her a good girl, ask her if she wants a treat
Try it on your lady sometime and report back to us
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Why are you trying to get this man hurt then run to thecoli and post a "RIP he was a good breh :mjcry: "


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She literally told you directly what she wanted. You used it as an excuse to insult her and disregard her feelings.

I broke up with the last dude who did that to me. Keep it up and she'll eventually do the same.

It's crazy how you speaking to your significant other with kindness is too inconvenient for you. But you probably still asked for p*ssy later though.

:heh:
I don’t have an issue speaking to her, or anyone really, with kindness.

The “actual bytch” comment wasn’t me calling her a bytch, it was the opposite.

My point was and still is, I treat my dog a certain way because while I care about my pet, I still view my her as beneath me.

So the dynamic between my dog and my partner will obviously be different.

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Does she cater to you ?
Does her catering come at a price ?

She’s use to certain treatment…


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Ma dukes too judgmental?




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None the less the dynamics are interesting between the first female you ever seen in your life and the first male she seen in her life
Yes she caters to me and no it doesn’t come at a price other than my personal time and attention.

My mother isn’t judgmental but she can be overbearing. She is the youngest of 10 siblings and only two of her siblings still keep in contact with her.

Part of the reason why is because she’s the most successful out of all 10, but another part of it is because she is bipolar and that is tiring to deal with after awhile.

My dad and my older sister are the only ones who know how to deal with that.

What do you mean by the bolded?

You need to write a rule book because I got called white on here for saying something was 'pretty cool':stopitslime:

That's just unfair:smh:

@The Burger King you gonna apologize? You kinda snapped at her with the line about talking to her like a dog:heh:
I didn’t mean to, but I’m going to meet with her tomorrow after work to talk about it. I was off today but she wasn’t.
 

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What do you mean by the bolded?
She grew up being spoiled by her father
and getting attention from him (not a bad thing at all) she’s a daddy’s girl that seeks a men to be attentive to her.


I don’t know if as a child your mom was overbearing but if so you may be annoyed at times and feel like you need a women that can respect your space and your alone time.

:yeshrug:
 

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She grew up being spoiled by her father
and getting attention from him (not a bad thing at all) she’s a daddy’s girl that seeks a men to be attentive to her.


I don’t know if as a child your mom was overbearing but if so you may be annoyed at times and feel like you need a women that can respect your space and your alone time.

:yeshrug:
This is actually a great analysis of the situation breh, I never thought of it like that. :ehh:
 
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