Brehs and Brehettes: How do you deal with rejection?

[GodinDaFlesh]

Find someone else. It sucks, but you shouldn't want someone that doesn't want you.

 

[Phitz]

Not everybody is your cup of tea and you are not everybody's cup of tea. Yeah it hurts the pride. I accept it as a lesson and a loss for my ego. Try not to take it personal because you may reject people for reasons that they probably can't control. I rejected other relationship opportunities because I had come out of a bad one. Wasn't anything to do with the people personally. Even if it is personal, life goes on and there are bigger things going on in the world.

 

[Prince Mongo]

I'm emotionally fragile because I've seen a therapist? nikka, do you leave the house or get all of your social interaction from the internet? Apparently, I'm the first and only nikka to have seen a therapist before, so that makes me a weak nikka somehow. I've been through real shyt. You're a fakkit on an internet forum, you probably ain't ever been through shyt in your life, hoe ass sissy nikka nikka, I don't come on the internet asking for life advice or complaining about being rejected like this lame bytch that made this thread, or y'all weird ass nikkas on this website. I live in the real world, fakkit ass nikka

 

[miranda]

How are women out here getting rejected? Is it actual rejection or is it a case of you sending all those stupid signals that apparently men should be able to detect and not getting approached or giving up the p*ssy then getting hit with the ?

Anyway I've never been rejected beyond tryna drunkenly talk to girls in the club. And that's meaningless.

well there's straight up rejection: me: i like you(i was acting like a stary-eyed middle schooler) him: i think youre confused. we should cease all contact,ouch

and then there's a man trying to slide you into the "you should come through" category, now that pisses me off

 

[DarkHorse23]

Rejection is tough. I can't speak for how it affects a woman. Typically ladies always get reciprocation. For me when I was younger it didn't bother me that much. I just felt proud of myself for taking a chance and facing my fears. Now I'm older and I'm all about results, so I kinda shy away from cold approaching these days. Too much rejection can break a man's spirit eventually imo. Idk what to tell you, if you're even halfway decent looking a man will come along. You'll be ok

 

[joeychizzle]

#FDBmayne
(just replace bytch with breh if it's a dude)

 

[Princess Coco]

A bottle of wine helps...

 

[morris]

A bottle of wine helps...

Never count out masturbation as well

 

[Princess Coco]

Never count out masturbation as well

oooh ill try that.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

There are only 3 ways to get over this:

Time
Trust me.

Perspective.
Step 1 is 'take out the sting'. Imagine someone you are cool with as a friend liked you as way more but you just wasn't feeling them: you'd ultimately have to reject. You are not obliged to be attracted to/stay with/go back to anybody, ever. They have that right as well. We don't always get what we think we want, luckily. Also: even if every person you like would've liked you back, your relationship could end at one point. There are no guarantees unfortunately, life is a rollercoaster - so buckle up.

Win or learn.
Each loss is a lesson.

And do not drink/drug it away, live it away.

You got this @Coco

 

[Gold]

Rejection doesn't bother me... but that's probably because I don't get curved hard, i just get lightly turned down.
Its almost because they have a man, so I just keep it moving.

But if it "bothers' me, i'll go draw. I love drawing

 

[Gold]

I was recently rejected by someone I really liked. I've been on downward spiral and felt like shyt since then. What do y'all do to stay happy after being rejected?

You draw or write? That helps

 

[Diyhai]

u still thinking bout dude

did u ever give the backstory?

 

[Black Magisterialness]

I just keep it moving. Worst thing a girl can say is no.

 

[Coli_UnderWorld_King]

I don't get rejected....