Brehs and Brehettes: How do you deal with rejection?

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One day @Spotlessmind will realize she made a huge mistake


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I hit the punching bag and spar at the gym.

Getting mad at rejection is not a bad thing. Yes just wiping your shoulders off and moving along is good, but rejection is a can be a great motivator if you know how to channel that energy/aggression into something positive
 

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You came to the right place.

Never ask women as most cannot relate as they are not built for that life.

Accept the rejection. Don't overthink it. Maybe he already has someone in his life or you don't fit his bill. Getting d*ck is easy for women. Getting a man's heart--->way different. Did you stake everything on this guy? How long were you scoping him? How did he reject you?

Take your time but remember that you have to get back on that saddle. Hope this does not deter you from hunting--though women are not really that. Life is a big oyster for young women. it's not until they reach their 30s that they begin to realize what a nightmare life is.

By that age, men are vets at it.:sas1:
 

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Atleast you tried. Better than just wondering and regretting it as time goes by. You don't know how much I wish I was more outgoing and approaching when i was your age. I think you around 20 if I recall. Anyways you have plenty of time and it likely won't be your first rejection. I've had plenty of girls that I've regretted over the past. Either by not approaching them or girls i knew that I didn't express my interest fully in them. Whether or not i would've been rejected, who knows. But i could've atleast tried. Note I've just learned to say fukk it and forget about the ones I had an interest in the past. Just recently I finally gathered the courage to tell this girl I knew that I was interested in her and she told me she was seeing someone. Sure I was hurt for a day or so but I got over it and moved on. It's the only thing you can do. I wasn't fully invested in her so there was no reason to let it get to me. There should be no one on this earth that you can let hurt you by rejecting you. Too many people out there. Focus on yourself, your health, and your wealth. You'll be ok. I get rejected constantly or get told that they have a boyfriend or husband but i don't give a damn. I think back and be like, damn it's that easy and i could've been approaching women years ago but was too afraid. I get rejected by one, and another is standing around the corner.

Besides if you need to deal with the hardships of rejection, then alcohol can help make you forget your problems. But only a little bit and when you're 21. I'm not trying to be responsible for any underage drinking. :whoa:
 

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lol no, I've never seriously dated a white guy and I don't exclusively date out of my race. My ex is black and my first bf was biracial. My dad hates it, he thinks I should only date black men, my mom doesn't care as long as he's good to me. The rest of my family doesn't really care either.

and no, most people out here are used to interracial couples so it's not a big deal.
Im pro interracial as well
I'm dating a sista at the moment ...so this is all knew to me but I'm getting used to it
 

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I'm old enough to realize that rejection comes with life. Ur not for everybody and everybody aren't for u. People are judgemental so it's hard to fit their criteria and expectations. It hurts ur self esteem and confidence but we gotta move on

I listen to music, drink, get high, talk to others who I feel can give good advice, etc.
 

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I was recently rejected by someone I really liked. I've been on downward spiral and felt like shyt since then. What do y'all do to stay happy after being rejected?
You should kill yourself. The fact that you're in your feelings enough to make a thread about a nikka rejecting you means you should kill yourself frfr. You must be an emotional weak ass motherfukker, you sound fukking pitiful, I can't even lie to you
 

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You should kill yourself. The fact that you're in your feelings enough to make a thread about a nikka rejecting you means you should kill yourself frfr. You must be an emotional weak ass motherfukker, you sound fukking pitiful, I can't even lie to you
It's a beautiful day, no need to be negative :smile:
 

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Keep moving. You have to appreciate the curve because in the long run it lets you know they wouldn't have been there anyway. Just appreciate that it allows you to eventually find someone you are compatible with.

I'm appreciate of all my past curves because looking back and looking present I came our on top
 
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