Brehs and Brehettes: How do you deal with rejection?

[Biddap]

Simple:

Move on with your life and on to the next one


I've been rejected hundreds of times in my life and the more women reject mi the more confidence I build as a man. Not everyone in the world is going to be attracted to you but there will be some one out there for you.

No disrespectful to any ladies on this forum but most men know how to deal with rejections better than women.

Like I said I simply move on to the next one.

That maybe the case for you but for many people repeated rejection = low esteem.

I don't see how repeated rejection lets u build confidence as a man, its like that pain is love crap

 

[Prince Mongo]

It's a beautiful day, no need to be negative

I ain't even being serious like that but fr though, it's people going through fukked up shyt and you're complaining about a nikka not wanting you? That's wack af. Some real "first world problems" type of shyt

 

[The Mad Titan]

How you handle rejection is based on a few things

Most people here are either cold and cynical or cold hearted badasses

From a guy that neither and usually doesn't even attempt to ask a chick out unless I like her alot rejection sucks.


I've been rejected before and its never a good feeling, I dont think it will be something I'll ever get use to...nor do I plan on


Before everything, its not your fault

but

1st you have to accept that not everyone is going to like you like you like them....even if your cool and vibe. Sometimes people just dont feel you like that, or heavy like you might be feeling them.
2nd you have to realize that its not personal, just because someone aint feeling you doesn't mean most dont or everyone wont.
3rd Keep it moving, forget about it and dont look back
4th Hobbies and staying busy or engaged in things that make you think or physical activities.


At least you got straight up rejected and they didn't leave you wondering or string you along. imo thats much worse.

 

[Weaver31]

Keep moving. You have to appreciate the curve because in the long run it lets you know they wouldn't have been there anyway. Just appreciate that it allows you to eventually find someone you are compatible with.

I'm appreciate of all my past curves because looking back and looking present I came our on top

Real shyt....I look at it now. I appreciate the curves because now I realize that it would've been hell trying to keep that person happy. I would've been miserable with the people who curved me. They actually helped me but I didn't realize it then.

 

[Biddap]

Best way to deal with rejection is looking at what is looking at you 1st and work from there.

if you don't like what you attract, then you need to work on yourself or tailor yourself to whatever it is you're trying to attract.

 

[ZoeGod]

 

[LEEeveryday]

All you can really do is change your perspective.

Change it from..."Is it something wrong with me"... to "It's something wrong with them and it's better off I didn't take that path because something better is on the horizon"

Take it as a challenge to be the best you, that you can. Take it as a challenge to be happy with yourself.

Just my 2 cents...

 

[全能の神]

You should kill yourself. The fact that you're in your feelings enough to make a thread about a nikka rejecting you means you should kill yourself frfr. You must be an emotional weak ass motherfukker, you sound fukking pitiful, I can't even lie to you

suicide though?

 

[Max Power]

How are women out here getting rejected? Is it actual rejection or is it a case of you sending all those stupid signals that apparently men should be able to detect and not getting approached or giving up the p*ssy then getting hit with the ?

Anyway I've never been rejected beyond tryna drunkenly talk to girls in the club. And that's meaningless.

 

[Prince Mongo]

suicide though?

Yeah, if somebody not wanting you gets you in your feelings you should kill yourself. It's infinitely worse shyt you could be going through. You live an easy ass life if that's your biggest issue

 

[ndthentherewasx]

I wait, feel sorry for myself for a while but then eventually say and on to the next one. However long it takes to find her.

I would think it easier for a woman than a man to get over rejection.

As men we're always on that chase and competing with the 800 motherfukkers in your inbox.

Social media

Giving shy pussies access to p*ssy

 

[Diyhai]

women saying they never got rejected is laughable
fragile egos
they know they got ignored by someone they liked
and would have got shytted on if they approached

 

[全能の神]

Yeah, if somebody not wanting you gets you in your feelings you should kill yourself. It's infinitely worse shyt you could be going through. You live an easy ass life if that's your biggest issue

That casting judgement on the next person shyt is a good way to get your ass beat where I'm from

I walk with God, so I don't cast judgement on people

 

[Prince Mongo]

Your point?

 

[Aufheben]

get some ass shots/fat transfer and you won't have to deal with this again