Brehs and Brehettes: How do you deal with rejection?

[Fani Willis fan]

thats what i hate about being religious other dumb ignorant nikkas make me look stupid with their hypocrisy.

 

[ndthentherewasx]

How are women out here getting rejected? Is it actual rejection or is it a case of you sending all those stupid signals that apparently men should be able to detect and not getting approached or giving up the p*ssy then getting hit with the ?

Anyway I've never been rejected beyond tryna drunkenly talk to girls in the club. And that's meaningless.

Hate women like that. They be like, you didn't know? Couldn't tell..

NO

Be more obvious

 

[4fossa]

I take the L and move on.


If you a man and can't handle rejection, you lost.

 

[New Username]

Rejection hurts you because you feel like it's your fault

You think stuff like if you wasn't "_____" you wouldn't have gotten rejected

Self confidence goes a long way

you're only hurting yourself, keep it moving.

 

[onthereal]

fukk a bytch

 

[Princess Coco]

Yeah, if somebody not wanting you gets you in your feelings you should kill yourself. It's infinitely worse shyt you could be going through. You live an easy ass life if that's your biggest issue

 

[Jimi Swagger]

Such is life. Hasn't bothered me since high school. Probably just need some time for things to pass or invest in self help books or do positives things to uplift yourself. If it gets too bad you may need to seek help. You are important. The rejection may have triggered something subconsciously that you are holding in.

I say this because I had a friend experience a divorce and she felt it was because she wasn't pretty enough, didn't help that her husband remarried a skinny woman. My friend used to be thicker and has a nice body (NEVER gains waist weight, her mom is like that) but struggle weight (not obese like JHud more like Beyonce when she is off tour or young Janet Jackson). Shes just a thicker gal by nature. When she was modeling she got super skinny to the point where we were forcing her to eat. Could see every bone in her body. Anyway she finally got help but as beautiful as she is and all of the high quality dudes that approached, she still saw herself is the fat kid in gymnastics and her divorce triggered this 10+ years later.

 

[richaveli83]

I keep it moving. It's her loss.

 

[BooksnCookies]

I don't get rejected. I do the ALL the rejecting.

















only to protect myself from the heartbreak. Dudes out here ain't loyal.

 

[richaveli83]

get some ass shots/fat transfer and you won't have to deal with this again

 

[全能の神]

only to protect myself from the heartbreak. Dudes out here ain't loyal.

who hurt you?

 

[SAINT]

I usually take the L and laugh at myself

Then When I remember I'm a handsome, fly,cool funny ass nikka. I laugh at them for their horrible decision making

Me and my boys always talk about getting curved when we chilling. My nikka once said,"man i don't give a fukk if a hoe curve me, cause I'm in atleast 5 different other bytches DM's and shyttttt if they all curve me, I'm beating my shyt going to sleep then hitting up 5 more hoes first thing in the morning"

 

[Mac Brown]

I don't even make the effort to get rejected


I gotta protect my cold black heart

 

[Black Magisterialness]

I usually take the L and laugh at myself

Then When I remember I'm a handsome, fly,cool funny ass nikka. I laugh at them for their horrible decision making

An ability to not take yourself too serious is key to being a happy, "sane" individual.

 

[richaveli83]

I usually take the L and laugh at myself

Then When I remember I'm a handsome, fly,cool funny ass nikka. I laugh at them for their horrible decision making