Brehs let me tell y'all what happened with this chick after work this evening.

[SheWantTheD]

After reading everything, she was just being friendly. It happens

The security people fukked up my work badge and of course, everything is in separate buildings at separate locations, none of them I can access because of the badge issue

Chick who was working on my incident scooped me and we do the whole drive and wait bullshyt. We chop it up, she DOES mention her family but it’s brief. She even buys me lunch. We exchange numbers and thats it. Only time I have spoke to her since has been about issues with my things working

So imo, she was being nice. I wouldn’t think too deep into it

And you already did a background check on the chick. If her family is mostly integrated with white folk, definitely dont assume it was anything more than her being friendly because you had a charger

Not true.. most women are not direct even when they feeling you.

They’ll do some passive aggressive sh like walk by you slowly and hope you get the hint. And if you don’t, oh well onto the next.

I’ve experienced these two instances.. they either mention their man to see if you’re still down or won’t mention him at all.

I’ve told plenty of women with a man if they are down to have a friend just to see what they would say and they all said yeah

And if it wasn’t anything more, why would they refuse to give me their number but say give me their IG?

 

[NYChase718]

Coli breh interacts with woman outside in real world, immediately thinks she wants to fukk because she exchanged words with him


The the the coli dot com

 

[badboys11]

You took that as arguing?

You seem like you want to argue.

This one right here won't stop

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

So if you were in her situation you wouldn’t mention your husband or kids at all?
I have female acquaintances I wouldn’t touch with a ten foot pole and they bring up their bf’s (like I was tryna hit anyway ) to let it be known they taken when a nikka just being friendly.

Plus, if you’re an attractive man, if you so much as say hi to a woman the entire world assumes there’s something there

im not in her situation... i don't have an iphone, a stupid car, or a husband or a kid. i would have called a lyft (possibly through a laptop) after 30 mins
but i read your prior post so i could see you think any attention is on some freaky shyt.... "look at her wearing makeup and looking at me... shewantheD "

 

[Mowgli]

This one right here won't stop

Just trying to make it clear.


Do you want to argue?

 

[badboys11]

Just trying to make it clear.


Do you want to argue?

No go away

 

[Mowgli]

No go away

Yea, thats what i thought.

Knew u was p*ssy.

 

[badboys11]

Yea, thats what i thought.

Knew u was p*ssy.

This Indian chick gotta be the bytch from hell we need pics

@Mowgli over here ready to crash out over this one and we don't even know what the chick look like

 

[SheWantTheD]

im not in her situation... i don't have an iphone, a stupid car, or a husband or a kid. i would have called a lyft (possibly through a laptop) after 30 mins
but i read your prior post so i could see you think any attention is on some freaky shyt.... "look at her wearing makeup and looking at me... shewantheD "

 

[Atlrocafella]

It's nice to see brehs finally jump off the porch and learn that what I've been saying about women for years is true.

If you play your cards right, OP, you could smash. One of my women friends is married and tryna smash a dude at work right now. This is normal behavior for most of them.

That’s why you gotta keep a roster ready, whether you’re in a relationship or not. You can decide if you want to activate or not activate the roster, but have one nonetheless

 

[Atlrocafella]

This thread delivers though, good shyt op @jadillac

 

[jadillac]

Were you looking down at the ground the entire time?

Were you still sitting in the parking lot when you typed that long ass opening message?

Was this supposed to be funny?

What's going on? I notice you been jabbing at me in threads over the past year or so. I don't say nothing back. Thought we were cool. I come on here to have fun.



You good, crodie?

 

[jadillac]

your freaky ass done cyber stalked her but it aint that serious
i post where i want too

but its whatever, you can have your safe space back.

Funny how you kept editing your post over and over. Because you're adding stuff in I never said or alluded to.

I post on here for fun. People like me helped make these boards what they are the past 15 yrs by sharing funny stories, adding entertaining content, not just running in to attack others to gain daps & attention

I'm here for fun. This board has gone downhill bc everybody wants to run in and try to flex. But hey, if you derive self-fulfilment from a message board, do what you need to do.

 

[Ripp]

Say brehs...

So I'm walking out of the office this evening, and I walk thru the glass security opening gate and this fine-ass Indian girl several feet away waves me down. She's talking to the security guy at the desk also, and ask me "do you have an iPhone charger?" I said No, sorry, (y'all know I'm team Droid gang )

So she says, "well, my phone is dead and I cannot get in my car or start it for the past hour or two" , I said oh ok, you have a Tesla? She smiles/laughs and says, Yes. Fast forward, I said, well my friend is coming out behind me, she may have a iPhone charger. So my friend comes out, and then I ask her if she has a charger and we get ready to walk to her car in the garage to check. Security guy then says he has someone on the phone with charger in the next building over. But the chick decides to go with us. Turns out my friend doesn't have a charge cord in her car after we looked...so I say, Wait (duh) , my car has a wireless charger, so I can charge android or apple. So me & ol girl walk from the 3rd floor down to the 1st floor to my car. All while she's telling me how she's the lead IT apps manager on the floor under me etc. She's a big deal. So we get to my car, she hops in passenger seat with no hesitation, I put her phone on my charger and we talk for like 35-40 mins non-stop! Her Phone was charged enough to get in her car after 5-10 mins. Mind you she's Indian-Indian like raised in India, accent and all, and so I expected her to be more standoffish towards me having just met me. She's adding my name in her work phone Instant Messenger (main phone was off charging). She's completely comfortable.

She tells me about her life, her whole fam, and it feels like a date. Literally from what she's saying & doing alludes to her being single and interested. Questions she's asking me, the staring, the laughs, etc.

My female friend even texted me later and was like, "did you get her #, she's hot!" So after 30-40 mins she took her phone off my charger, powered it on, I then drove her up to her car, we said bye, she got in and left.

I got curious and looked her up on Facebook a few mins ago. This chick has a whole ass family….a husband, a kid! Literally NOTHING she said or did in my car at any point alluded to this. And again, we talked about damn near everything. Mentioned Brother, sister, parents other family, where she stays...NO even slight mention of a husband, or kid. Her profile doesn't say Married, but the husbands page does.


I feel like she will hit me up tomorrow morning, but I'm just like

Always ask. A couple of years ago I was talking to a chick for about a month and a half before finding out she had a kid. He lived in DR. She legit never mentioned having a kid. And when I told my homey about it he told me I should've asked.... bottom line always ask what you wanna know

 

[Braman]

In far too many years on dating apps in the DMV I learned a lot and one thing is: conversation amongst 2 professionals is effortless. It very well could mean nothing. A professional adult has to talk with people of the opposite sex all the time and it’s very easy to go thru the motions. And it’s a murky line between romantic interest and general collegiality

I’ve witnessed it on both ends pause, I’ve met women who I’m not into but in my sleep I can get thru the motions conversation wise for an hour of drinks. And I’ve had dates where I thought we vibed only to not get a 2nd date

Now it’s a double edge sword bc that murky line is also how ‘work husbands’ can smash…we’d really have to be in it to call it but I don’t think she’s ready to risk her career and family over you breh just a hunch