Brehs, Pick Between These FOUR Women...

[The Devil's Advocate]

I got my own place and was messing with a young chick just like that last year; she worked at Modells. Just way too immature.
On the other hand I had to curve an educated Columbia masters grad who let slip that she was 100k in debt

If I ever leave #GMB, I'd want a housewife anyway, or at least a woman who's more concerned with our kids than her career. As long as she's loyal and our combined income surpasses 6 figures, we straight.

this is what i don't think this generation of women understand

literally for all of time, up until about the 80s... and if you ask women, still till today.... men have been doing MUCH better than women in the workplace

all of time up until the 40s, men were marrying women with no jobs and no school

slowly they started getting shytty jobs... and we still married them

now they are on par and even doing better... and we are marrying them at the lowest rate in the history of time


men do not give two shyts about your money or education... just don't be a fukking dumbass

 

[Krazy K]

Twenty-somethings on The Coli.

They want their women to match their contributions and provide a minimum of 50% financially towards their home. There are multiple threads on this.

contributing to the home you live in isn't providing for the man.

with that said

type of woman doesn't want to contribute?

 

[*Angel*]

contributing to the home you live in isn't providing for the man.

with that said

type of woman doesn't want to contribute?

Contributing = helping to provide.

Which is the opposite of the comment your piggybacking off of.

Mac Brown said: ↵
You have to understand it is not in a mans nature to look at a woman as a provider. We care more about nuturing/compatibility/sexual chemistry as a whole.

And if men suddenly started caring more about that you would probably give them the side eye.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

2 BY A LONG SHOT. THERE IS REALLY NOTHING WRONG WITH 1 BUT 2 IS JUST A BETTER SITUATION FOR ME.

 

[Krazy K]

Contributing = helping to provide.

Which is the opposite of the comment your piggybacking off of.

so anytime a woman is contributing she's taking care of her man and he's looking for a provider???

I guess mine takes care of me since I handle the big purchases and we split everything else

 

[*Angel*]

so anytime a woman is contributing she's taking care of her man and he's looking for a provider???

I guess mine takes care of me since I handle the big purchases and we split everything else

Yes, she's helping you provide equally for each other. Who benefits from what y'all contribute?! The two of you.

 

[Krazy K]

Yes, she's helping you provide equally for each other. Who benefits from what y'all contribute?! The two of you.

you think contribute and provide mean the same thing fr

If my girl lost her job my life wouldn't change at all. Where I live what I drive, eat, wear, do would all remain the same. So clearly I can provide for myself


the bold is where yall got the game twisted tho

you typed that like something's wrong with it

Is a couple not supposed to do shyt that benefits the relationship? Meaning both of you?

If you only worried bout yaself then stay single.

 

[StickStickly]

I understand your frustration big dawg I do the same. I usy don't Fck w single mothers but you gotta understand circumstances

I got a cousin who is 26 w a 2 yr old daughter. They found the lil girl dad dead in his apartment while my cousin was pregnant, claiming some medical issue

Nikka's out here talking reckless like they don't want want a dead mans seed haunting them

You can almost tell how many guys just don't like kids in general. I have a friend who had a kid early. She chose not to have an abortion because she believes in life and the father was abusive as a young man. She's gorgeous funny bubbly motivated...she's never had any problems attracting quality men or a good relationship. Now she's marrying a restaurant owner.

I hope women out there realize that the life of their child, beautiful human beings who love them unconditionally, are worth more than a "hard dikk", as someone put it in this thread.

I get where men are coming from tho. I'd pick 2 if I were a guy and single. I don't think I'd date a single dad if I didn't want kids yet because dating means you build a parental relationship with your partners child. If you're not ready for kids, why would you take on the challenge of it? You're wasting your time.

But at the same time a single dad who values his love life or his dikk over his kids is unattractive.

I'm pro choice but I feel like I'm becoming more pro life and I don't even have kids. Who cares about getting some dusty Nikka's dikk if that means getting rid of your beautiful child? They're strangers but your child will always be your family.

 

[CoochieMane]

2. Kids are a deal breaker for me.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

You can almost tell how many guys just don't like kids in general. I have a friend who had a kid early. She chose not to have an abortion because she believes in life and the father was abusive as a young man. She's gorgeous funny bubbly motivated...she's never had any problems attracting quality men or a good relationship. Now she's marrying a restaurant owner.

I hope women out there realize that the life of their child, beautiful human beings who love them unconditionally, are worth more than a "hard dikk", as someone put it in this thread.

I get where men are coming from tho. I'd pick 2 if I were a guy and single. I don't think I'd date a single dad if I didn't want kids yet because dating means you build a parental relationship with your partners child. If you're not ready for kids, why would you take on the challenge of it? You're wasting your time.

But at the same time a single dad who values his love life or his dikk over his kids is unattractive.

I'm pro choice but I feel like I'm becoming more pro life and I don't even have kids. Who cares about getting some dusty Nikka's dikk if that means getting rid of your beautiful child? They're strangers but your child will always be your family.

you're almost there but not quite.. the problem is you thinking most men don't like kids... most men LOVE kids...

the problem is, most men want their own kids.. with their dna.. there is a reason in the animal kingdom, males come in and kill all the offspring if it ain't theirs. they trying to leave their own imprint on the world.

we figure if we are going to raise a child, pay money for a child, spend time, watch it grow, give all that love... we'd rather start from birth with our own. not slide in on a 6 year old.. or 10... or some shyt like 14-15 years old... he already calling another man dad... he's not yours.. he don't look like you or have any of your traits. and you gotta go ahead and build a bond that's not based on family


now am i saying anything is wrong with men who do? hell no.. i got a step dad and he loves and i love him. but there is a reason for the saying "getting treated like a stepchild" cause that 100% child, will really be HIS child.

so given a choice of the two.. men will choose the woman with no kids. this isn't even counting factors like a woman with 2-3 kids.. or having to deal with another grown man.. or not having your kids full time cause they got to go see daddy 2. or sharing their lives with him... or even if he ain't there.. you want 2 kids and she already got 3.... well she ain't trying to have 5 damn kids





it's a lot deeper than "he don't want me cause i got kids=he hates kids"

 

[Emoryal]

you think contribute and provide mean the same thing fr

If my girl lost her job my life wouldn't change at all. Where I live what I drive, eat, wear, do would all remain the same. So clearly I can provide for myself


the bold is where yall got the game twisted tho

you typed that like something's wrong with it

Is a couple not supposed to do shyt that benefits the relationship? Meaning both of you?

If you only worried bout yaself then stay single.

 

[daemonova]

Untill recently I would have picked 3 but now it's 2 all the way

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I thought I'd see a lot of #4 choices (because she's beautiful).

I suppose if she was 25 she'd rank higher.

 

[Krazy K]

 

[BigL187]

woman #2

easy.