#4 is a good option if you are rich.
You'd have the finances to put up with and support her. But a background check will still be needed.
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Brehs, Pick Between These FOUR Women...
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You'd have the finances to put up with and support her. But a background check will still be needed.
StickStickly
Superstar
I get what you're saying completely. The drama from parents alone is enough to make me not want to deal with it. Don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those people who think real men take care of a single mom's kids. I wouldn't expect any man or woman to want to raise someone else's kids. It's completely natural for you and the other guys here to feel that way.
But what I was speaking on is the language used which gives hints to liking kids in general, like for example the way a person would who becomes a nanny or a nursery worker. They speak on children like a burden, like they're some devil spawn from a horror movie that will spew bad attributes from their fathers onto them. They view kids as Baybay kids- just being bad and needing whoopings instead of naturally seeing kids as sweet playful innocent beings who need love. They lack the nurturing gene that a lot of women and some men have that allow them to become caregivers. So kids that aren't theirs are nonentities, annoying, shrewd, etc. I understand that's probably biologically related too, but in the same breath I'd say that's why single moms (and dads) don't need to worry about strangers' opinions of their kids' existence. If they don't have the ability to love them, they don't matter. if I was a single mom the opinions expressed in this thread wouldn't hurt me at all. I wouldn't feel bad about giving my child life over if some rando dude wants to sleep with me or not.
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Nah, women know exactly what men want. Frustration is not to be confused with shock, which is what it is, frustration. Higher education and a lucrative career are things that women pursue for their own benefit. They pursue those things for a sense of independence which is fair enough. It becomes unreasonable when you start acting as though those things were done to attract a potential partner or that we should value those things over our other wants.
It is common knowledge that men don't look for a provider when looking for a woman. We're simply not going to place as great a value on a woman's career and level of education. Being blunt, we place more value on a woman's ability to nurture.
Wow. If I took this to LSA they would be surprised how many of y'all picked 2.
We really don't know what y'all want.
Nah, women know exactly what men want. Frustration is not to be confused with shock, which is what it is, frustration. Higher education and a lucrative career are things that women pursue for their own benefit. They pursue those things for a sense of independence which is fair enough. It becomes unreasonable when you start acting as though those things were done to attract a potential partner or that we should value those things over our other wants.
It is common knowledge that men don't look for a provider when looking for a woman. We're simply not going to place as great a value on a woman's career and level of education. Being blunt, we place more value on a woman's ability to nurture.
DirtyMoney
Banned
2 ro 4
sayyestothis
Free the guys
2 or 4.
Easy
Easy
Cabbage Patch
The Media scene in V is for Vendetta is the clue
I know what you're trying to do, but the execution is off.Men of The Coli. I need your honest opinions about this. You guys often say that women don't know what men really want. I'm trying to get an understanding.
Now, I know for a lot of you these situations wouldn't be ideal,but this is if you had NO OTHER CHOICE.
I want to hear from men... Which one of these women is the better choice?
Woman #1:
A 30 year old woman has a masters degree in nursing. She works as a nurse.
She Owns a home. Drives a decent car.
She is single with 3 kids, by 2 deadbeat men who don't help her.
She's average looking.
Woman #2:
A 30 year old woman has not graduated from college, but has a HS diploma.
She has had the same job in customer service for 8 years, and makes about $20 an hour.
She drives a decent car. She has no kids.
She lives with her mom.
shes pretty.
Woman #3:
A 30 year old woman has a bachelors degree in accounting. She usually works seasonally, and is always between jobs.
She has 1 child (a son), and his father contributes. They have a "healthy" relationship.
She rents a two bedroom apartment & drives a decent car.
She's pretty, but slightly overweight.
Woman #4:
A 30 year old woman. She never graduated high school.
Her car is barely running.
She has no kids & Works as a bartender at a strip club. Has no other career plans.
Lives with a roommate.
She's beautiful.
Talk to me brehs...
jwonder
Superstar
Out the choices I'll take #2 to date seriously and #4 would be for fun
#2, but I wouldn't mind #3
You do not need a degree to be successful and educated. There are people without a degree who make 10x more than what you do, simply because they learned how to educate themselves. Unless you wanna be a doctor, or work in any other field that REQUIRES a degree, you don't NEED it.
Hard Times Nakamura
Banned
None. Go abroad. And here's why:
Woman #1:
A 30 year old woman has a masters degree in nursing. She works as a nurse.
She Owns a home. Drives a decent car.
She is single with 3 kids, by 2 deadbeat men who don't help her.
She's average looking.
Woman #2:
A 30 year old woman has not graduated from college, but has a HS diploma.
She has had the same job in customer service for 8 years, and makes about $20 an hour.
She drives a decent car. She has no kids.
She lives with her mom.
shes pretty.
Woman #3:
A 30 year old woman has a bachelors degree in accounting. She usually works seasonally, and is always between jobs.
She has 1 child (a son), and his father contributes. They have a "healthy" relationship.
She rents a two bedroom apartment & drives a decent car.
She's pretty, but slightly overweight.
Woman #4:
A 30 year old woman. She never graduated high school.
Her car is barely running.
She has no kids & Works as a bartender at a strip club. Has no other career plans.
Lives with a roommate.
She's beautiful.
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Now the average Coli nikka will pick one instead of doing the right thing. The reality is they all have deal breakers and red flags.
Woman #1:
A 30 year old woman has a masters degree in nursing. She works as a nurse.
She Owns a home. Drives a decent car.
She is single with 3 kids, by 2 deadbeat men who don't help her.
She's average looking.
Woman #2:
A 30 year old woman has not graduated from college, but has a HS diploma.
She has had the same job in customer service for 8 years, and makes about $20 an hour.
She drives a decent car. She has no kids.
She lives with her mom.
shes pretty.
Woman #3:
A 30 year old woman has a bachelors degree in accounting. She usually works seasonally, and is always between jobs.
She has 1 child (a son), and his father contributes. They have a "healthy" relationship.
She rents a two bedroom apartment & drives a decent car.
She's pretty, but slightly overweight.
Woman #4:
A 30 year old woman. She never graduated high school.
Her car is barely running.
She has no kids & Works as a bartender at a strip club. Has no other career plans.
Lives with a roommate.
She's beautiful.
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Now the average Coli nikka will pick one instead of doing the right thing. The reality is they all have deal breakers and red flags.
- It's all about strikes. Her being age 30 is a huge blow that leaves no room for error over some of the other items. The older a Woman gets the more immaculate her other game has to be.
- Basically if you're 30 with a kid you're automatically out - fukk only.
- 30 with no career you're out. Come on now your eggs are halfway dried up plus you not bringing money to the table? fukk that if we want a broke bytch we'll just get a young THOT and re-mold her. At your age you can't be taught anything yall think you know everything. Even if the dude already has kids and don't want any more it's still a problem because you will just be another dependent.
- Beauty isn't the biggest deciding factor here if we are discussing long term.
- Hands down along with the age the biggest thing is the contradictions. How the fukk do you have a degree in accounting and do seasonal work? My aunt is 50 has an Associate's degree in accounting and has worked with the same employer for 30+ years. There is no reason a Woman with an accounting degree should not be able to find a stable job. Employers love Women in accounting because they usually are comfortable not moving up at all and just value consistency.
- Your last example the Woman is 30 years old working in a fukking strip club. What was she doing the first 10 years ??? Unless she is a manager or co-owns the place with others hell no she is not even a consideration. I might be able to respect a Woman who worked her way up from a stripper to an owner in 10 years. But 10 years and she is still a bartender? That's even worse than being a bottom bytch because it shows no ambition.
- Also that customer service example for 8 years and still live at home while making $20/hr a LOT of American Women do that shyt and honestly they are the worst. They basically are doing nothing and waiting for a nikka to sweep them off their feet while doing absolutely the bare minimum. $20/hr (with low student debt or 4 years at home for her to pay it off) is enough to live on your own VERY COMFORTABLY in most Mid-Western or Southern cities. And it's not hard to make that after 4 years in customer service if you are making strategic moves and playing the game correctly. She should be a call center director by now who manages groups, training and compliance etc. If she still manning the phones after 8 years she is incompetent and there's no way she's fit to be the mother of my children.
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how is this surprisingWow. If I took this to LSA they would be surprised how many of y'all picked 2.
We really don't know what y'all want.
? there are only two choices without kids and out of those two, one is obviously past her prime and still trying to skate through life based on her looks 
by 35 her lifestyle will have caught up with her and she is going to look like a 
prostitute. no man is going to choose a woman with kids if there are other options. and if we want to date bartenders, we choose the ones in their early twenties, not the one who is thirty and still didn't get her life on track 
what exactly is wrong with that?
Perfectson
Banned
Woman #5:
A 26 year old woman has a masters degree in nursing. She works as a nurse.
She Owns a home. Drives an A7
She has no kids
She's beautiful
And has a coli poster who prowls around in her hedges every night waiting for her to slip into her negligee , so he can take pictures of her in his cracked galaxy s5
at nikkas picking number 2.She 30 and lives with her mom
She been working the same job for 8 years which means she has no ambition
She pretty but not wifed up which means that bytch crazy or got a std.
