Depends on the peer group. I grew up around the shiit. Girls were pregnant in 6th grade. They was running a train on a girl when I was in 5th grade. Every Friday was "Freaky Friday" and they played catch a girl get a girl after school. Everybody walked home that day. School buses were empty,So you think black girls from 11-13 from good protected homes are sexual and fast en masse![]()
They fail to realise the oversexualisation of black children stems from slavery
Or they are just being obtuse
Because as a young black woman I watched this movie and understood 2 things immediately
1. Black children especially are not allowed to just be children innocently
2. My father would kill anyone that puton me
White or Black
Don't call them FAST explain to them the consequences of actions
So you saw this a few times and want to apply to it young black girls being called fast as a whole.Depends on the peer group. I grew up around the shiit. Girls were pregnant in 6th grade. They was running a train on a girl when I was in 5th grade. Every Friday was "Freaky Friday" and they played catch a girl get a girl after school. Everybody walked home that day. School buses were empty,
I don't know young black girls as a whole. Especially not now. But back then my peer group, all the people that existed in my reach of the "world" the majority of them were indeed fast.So you saw this a few times and want to apply to it young black girls being called fast as a whole.![]()
Nope it’s used to described girls who are over sexualizing themselves and putting themselves in bad situations over they need for the male attentionI have a son and a daughter and I would never allow anyone to call my daughter “fast” or call my son a YN or any variation of the word nikka. Most of the time it’s used to blame children for harm being brought against them, such as discrimination, assault and rape. Love your kids and teach them appropriate boundaries. Never let anyone label them. Especially if they’re being labeled by adults who are mistreating them or blaming them for being assaulted.
Yes.So now we acting like people call teenagers fast to "protect" them?![]()
But this is what we are talking about.Nope it’s used to described girls who are over sexualizing themselves and putting themselves in bad situations over they need for the male attention
Like sneaking out the house to be with a boy
Wearing revealing clothing to get attention
Skipping school for a boy
Ect.
I had a ex girlfriend that I bushed who got picked up from school by her new boo that had a full beard shorty said he was 25. My shyt didn’t even connect till I was 30.That's not the point, tho.Those same middle age women chased older men in high school.Only to turn around and try to demonize it once they reach replacement age.I doubt the sincerity of their "concern".Been around too many chicks.Most of them hate & backstab each other.
They call them hoodlums and thugs, no good, bad boys, mannishBut this is what we are talking about.
What do you call the boy in those situations?
If the girl is sneaking out to meet a boy, 99% chance he asked her to sneak out, not the opposite.
He asked her to skip school, not the opposite.
And I’m not saying that she had to say yes or that that was a smart move, but if you call her fast, what do you call the boy?
What do you call the guys who pressure girls for sex?
There is no term because society says he’s just “being a boy” or “being a man” and the onus is on the girl to ignore the attention, not want attention, etc.
There’s no where near the same amount of pressure or responsibility placed on the young men to be chaste and not pressure girls for sex.
I appreciate the female point of view but imagine how weird it would be if a Coli Incel just DM’ed women and expected them to come to the house?But this is what we are talking about.
What do you call the boy in those situations?
If the girl is sneaking out to meet a boy, 99% chance he asked her to sneak out, not the opposite.
He asked her to skip school, not the opposite.
And I’m not saying that she had to say yes or that that was a smart move, but if you call her fast, what do you call the boy?
What do you call the guys who pressure girls for sex?
There is no term because society says he’s just “being a boy” or “being a man” and the onus is on the girl to ignore the attention, not want attention, etc.
There’s no where near the same amount of pressure or responsibility placed on the young men to be chaste and not pressure girls for sex.
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I heard all these someties in the same sentence,You are right
That is why when we were growing up we were told 'Sit like a lady' or 'that is not lady like'
As opposed to
You are acting/dressing FAST