Its not right to oversexualise any young girl child before she is fully matured.

Let's children be children regardless of race.
They should be busy playing and studying
Not worrying about 'adults' sexualising them.
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Ppl call young Black girls fast when they’re just learning and exploring dating and attraction to the opposite sex. Not even actually having sex or engaging in any inappropriate behavior. Hormones start raging and that is absolutely normal. It’s natural. But many don’t have those talks or acknowledge it when it happens. They just call the girls fast.
Other races are more open about dating, attraction, etc. Hell, one of the Asian doctors in my office…her daughter is graduating HS and has been with her “boyfriend” for at least 2 or so years. They don’t call them fast for wanting a BF. They let the dude meet the family, hang out with the family, meet the kid’s family, etc.
If it works out, they are HS sweethearts. If it doesn’t, at least their daughter got dating experience under their roof before leaving for college. That’s how other groups tend to approach dating. A lot of our girls don’t have that so we are winging it when we leave the house.
That’s the common joke. When you’re 20, 22 they tell you to stay away from guys and focus on school. So of course you’re dating, but with no guidance. Then you walk in the door at 26 and they’re like “you need to get married”. You should’ve been planting that seed when your daughter was in HS/20 like the white and Asian mothers. Like we’ve acknowledged on this site, other groups send their daughters to college with the understanding that they need to find a hubby while on campus.
And don’t get me wrong, there are definitely Black folks who get it right, but culturally, we don’t guide young people in relationships like what happened in the past.
Dudes talk about how white girls get to the athletes in undergrad and have those relationships wrapped up and set before these guys go pro…well, that doesn’t just randomly happen. No one was calling them fast.