How did you decide who you would/wouldn't cheat on?
What made you decide to stop cheating?
How do you know that you won't cheat in the future?
How old were you when you stopped cheating?
Have you told any of your partners that you used to be a cheater? What happened?
Ex-cheater here.
For me it wasn't really a question of who I would / wouldn't cheat on, it was more who I would / wouldn't cheat with. Let's just get this out of the way... every woman I've met in the last... 8 or so years (with the exception of my last boss and my best friend's girlfriend) has tried to fukk me. It is what it is when you're black, handsome, unmarried, no kids, and have a little money.
So every woman that came along I literally could have fukked. Obviously, that would have been a problem so I had to choose targets carefully. I didn't cheat a lot... at least I wouldn't call it a lot. Maybe once or twice a year, just enough to scratch the itch and keep me grounded. I didn't carry on full-on "sidepiece" relationships. Funny thing is, occasionally having other women around for sex helped me appreciate how well-rounded my main girl was. I realize how bad that sounds.
I stopped cheating in 2011 (I was 32), when I started to have real-life non-sexual feelings for a woman I slept with outside of my relationship. Couple hearts got broken... it was ugly.
I won't cheat in the future because the next woman I'm with will hopefully be my wife. Cheating on your girlfriend is bad, but i don't think i could do it to my wife and because keeping up lies in a relationship defeats the point of being in a relationship in the first place.
I never told any of my partners I cheated on them and to this day I've never been caught.
for the most part.
Turned down a few though
