Cheaters & Ex Cheaters of the coli...

[Giselle]

OP can you answer those same questions first please

I am not a cheater or ex cheater, so I can't answer those questions.

like most girls she will never cheat, she hates cheaters

 

[Killer Instinct]

How did you decide who you would/wouldn't cheat on?

You dont. It either happens or it doesn't.

What made you decide to stop cheating?

Moraility...Right & wrong...blah blah blah.
I'm tempted almost daily but besides flirting, I haven't crossed the line yet.

How do you know that you won't cheat in the future?

I don't.

How old were you when you stopped cheating?

This is the first relationship I've been in that I've made a conscious effort to not stray.
I'm 23.

Have you told any of your partners that you used to be a cheater? What happened?

Why don't you just pour rat poison into the water supply you drink from while you're at it?

 

[Giselle]

Makes sense.


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Who knows what the future holds? According to the coli ladies I'll never be done...I'm a Pisces.

I know that I'll never cheat, so why don't you know about you. It sounds like you might when you say "who knows what the future holds". You don't plan on doing it, do you?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You would have to tell her if she asks.

How old are you now?

I'm 30 something

It's usually the women that pushes men to cheat

 

[Mass]

This is a sad thread.

Carry on.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I know that I'll never cheat, so why don't you know about you. It sounds like you might when you say "who knows what the future holds". You don't plan on doing it, do you?

It's a realistic perspective.

I'd bet that 0% of women went into their marriages expecting to cheat on their husbands, but we all know that shyt happens.

 

[Giselle]

Ex-cheater here.

For me it wasn't really a question of who I would / wouldn't cheat on, it was more who I would / wouldn't cheat with. Let's just get this out of the way... every woman I've met in the last... 8 or so years (with the exception of my last boss and my best friend's girlfriend) has tried to fukk me. It is what it is when you're black, handsome, unmarried, no kids, and have a little money.

So every woman that came along I literally could have fukked. Obviously, that would have been a problem so I had to choose targets carefully. I didn't cheat a lot... at least I wouldn't call it a lot. Maybe once or twice a year, just enough to scratch the itch and keep me grounded. I didn't carry on full-on "sidepiece" relationships. Funny thing is, occasionally having other women around for sex helped me appreciate how well-rounded my main girl was. I realize how bad that sounds.

I stopped cheating in 2011 (I was 32), when I started to have real-life non-sexual feelings for a woman I slept with outside of my relationship. Couple hearts got broken... it was ugly.

I won't cheat in the future because the next woman I'm with will hopefully be my wife. Cheating on your girlfriend is bad, but i don't think i could do it to my wife and because keeping up lies in a relationship defeats the point of being in a relationship in the first place.

I never told any of my partners I cheated on them and to this day I've never been caught.

I was asking will you tell your future partners that you used to be a cheater if they ask you.

You dont. It either happens or it doesn't.



Moraility...Right & wrong...blah blah blah.
I'm tempted almost daily but besides flirting, I haven't crossed the line yet.




I don't.



This is the first relationship I've been in that I've made a conscious effort to not stray.
I'm 23.

Why don't you just pour rat poison into the water supply you drink from while you're at it?

So if they ask you, you're going to lie?

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I was asking will you tell your future partners that you used to be a cheater if they ask you.

Funny thing is, I've already zeroed in on the girl i wanna marry and I've already told her about my past. So, yes.

 

[DrunkenNovice]

I know that I'll never cheat, so why don't you know about you. It sounds like you might when you say "who knows what the future holds". You don't plan on doing it, do you?

How old are you? And your longest relationshiop?

No i dont plan on it.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah so if your husband becomes a paraplegic, confined to a wheelchair, sex life diminishes. Doesn't call you beautiful anymore you go to work and some idris elba looking nikka is chatting you.up, you still gonna remain faithful?

For better or worse in sickness and in health

I know that I'll never cheat, so why don't you know about you. It sounds like you might when you say "who knows what the future holds". You don't plan on doing it, do you?

 

[Giselle]

I'm 30 something

It's usually the women that pushes men to cheat

I'm not even going to argue with you about this. Just ... ugh

It's a realistic perspective.

I'd bet that 0% of women went into their marriages expecting to cheat on their husbands, but we all know that shyt happens.

I don't think so. Cheaters (male&female) know that they're cheaters. They know that they're going to cheat. Hoes/cheaters get married all of the time.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I don't think so. Cheaters (male&female) know that they're cheaters. They know that they're going to cheat. Hoes/cheaters get married all of the time.

So it's your assertion that every person who's cheated during marriage went into that marriage with no intention of fidelity, huh?

So... umm... what is your age if I may ask?

 

[Giselle]

Funny thing is, I've already zeroed in on the girl i wanna marry and I've already told her about my past. So, yes.

How does she feel about it? Does she think that you might cheat on her?

Yeah so if your husband becomes a paraplegic, confined to a wheelchair, sex life diminishes. Doesn't call you beautiful anymore you go to work and some idris elba looking nikka is chatting you.up, you still gonna remain faithful?

For better or worse in sickness and in health

Some men in wheelchairs can still have sex. They can buy legs too. I would stay with him if his dck still works. I would never cheat, I would just get a divorce.

Would you leave your wife or cheat on her in that situation?

 

[MikelArteta]

Some men in wheelchairs can still have sex. They can buy legs too. I would stay with him if his dck still works. I would never cheat, I would just get a divorce.

thecoli.com

 

[Giselle]

So it's your assertion that every person who's cheated during marriage went into that marriage with no intention of fidelity, huh?

So... umm... what is your age if I may ask?

No, you said 0% of women go into marriage with intentions of cheating. I'm saying that is false. Some people get married knowing that they are going to cheat. Go back and read.