Cheaters & Ex Cheaters of the coli...

[wet landscapes]

fukk cheaters
liars
cowards

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Maybe, maybe not. People can be any age on the internet. But what's the problem with it if you were/are?

It's not really a problem, it's just a matter of perspective.

I wouldn't normally have that conversation with a 19 year old for the same reason I wouldn't hire a 19 year old to run my company. Your lack of experience means that we have wildly different perspectives. At age 19, you've had 1, maybe 2 relationships. And they're high-school relationships; puppy love kind of stuff. Believe me when I tell you that adult relationships are much more complex and intricate, and the things I tell you probably have no applicability to where you're at in your dating life, just like the things that you're just now learning would be old news to me at my age.

The other thing about you being 19 is that you think you've got it all figured out. We all did at that age, but (no offense) you don't know shyt yet. It's not a dig, it's just a lack of experience.

 

[Soundbwoy]

I would say at some point you don't over value p*ssy anymore and you realize you could loose a good thing over a quick nut

 

[Giselle]

It's not really a problem, it's just a matter of perspective.

I wouldn't normally have that conversation with a 19 year old for the same reason I wouldn't hire a 19 year old to run my company. Your lack of experience means that we have wildly different perspectives. At age 19, you've had 1, maybe 2 relationships. And they're high-school relationships; puppy love kind of stuff. Believe me when I tell you that adult relationships are much more complex and intricate, and the things I tell you probably have no applicability to where you're at in your dating life, just like the things that you're just now learning would be old news to me at my age.

The other thing about you being 19 is that you think you've got it all figured out. We all did at that age, but (no offense) you don't know shyt yet. It's not a dig, it's just a lack of experience.

I am in my 3rd yr of college at a uni.

I know that I am not going to cheat. I don't need any experience to know that. I've seen other people cheat and I know that I do not want to do it.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I am in my 3rd yr of college at a uni.

I know that I am not going to cheat. I don't need any experience to know that. I've seen other people cheat and I know that I do not want to do it.

And you very well may not. But let me bless you with some knowledge. Cheating isn't black and white like you think it is. It's not something you just wake up and decide to do. It can be a very gradual process... insidious in many ways. It might start off innocently enough, and before you know it... you're having feelings for someone else in an emotional affair. That's cheating. Cheating without intent to be sure, but you say "I will never" so matter of factly when I guarantee there will be times you will be tempted, even conflicted. It doesn't mean you're bad, it just means you're human.

With that said, I envy you. You are at the beginning of the journey. Have fun out there.

 

[Killer Instinct]

You're going to tell her that you've never cheated and hopefully you'll get a girl like this

Ignorance is bliss.
If she's smart, it'll never come up.

(I'll post it when I find the thread, but the girl used to be a big hoe and moved to another town to exscape her hoe past. She lied about her number and her whole past life. He has no idea according to her. She told him she'd only been with 3 people and was a nice/sweet/quiet church girl all of her life. I hope you get one of those since you're a liar)

3 people?
Sounds like he was a sucker.
She hit one hell of a lick.

In any case, the bold?

I'm disappointed in you.

 

[Giselle]

And you very well may not. But let me bless you with some knowledge. Cheating isn't black and white like you think it is. It's not something you just wake up and decide to do. It can be a very gradual process... insidious in many ways. It might start off innocently enough, and before you know it... you're having feelings for someone else in an emotional affair. That's cheating. Cheating without intent to be sure, but you say "I will never" so matter of factly when I guarantee there will be times you will be tempted, even conflicted. It doesn't mean you're bad, it just means you're human.

With that said, I envy you. You are at the beginning of the journey. Have fun out there.

You're talking to me like I'm slow. I know about emotional cheating. I've even talked about it on here before. & yes some people do wake up and decide that they want to cheat then go out (or log on) and search for people to cheat with. Idk why it's so hard for you to understand that. Just because your cheating experience was a "gradual process" doesn't mean that everyone elses was.

Some guys like going after "new pssy" even when they're in a relationship just because they can/want to.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

You're talking to me like I'm slow. I know about emotional cheating. I've even talked about it on here before. & yes some people do wake up and decide that they want to cheat then go out (or log on) and search for people to cheat with. Idk why it's so hard for you to understand that. Just because your cheating experience was a "gradual process" doesn't mean that everyone elses was.

Some guys like going after "new pssy" even when they're in a relationship just because they can/want to.

Nobody said you were slow, you're just young.

The reason I'm trying to get you to understand the grey area is because you said...

I would never cheat, I would just get a divorce.

Newsflash: The point at which you decide to leave your husband for someone else, you've already cheated. You don't divorce someone for someone else unless you're already involved in an emotional affair. Betrayal is betrayal physical, emotional or otherwise.

 

[Giselle]

Nobody said you were slow, you're just young.

The reason I'm trying to get you to understand the grey area is because you said...



Newsflash: The point at which you decide to leave your husband for someone else, you've already cheated. You don't divorce someone for someone else unless you're already involved in an emotional affair. Betrayal is betrayal physical, emotional or otherwise.

Yes that is cheating, but I didn't say I would leave my husband for someone else. If I felt like I was missing something or wasn't happy in a relationship, I would just leave it, not cheat like others would do.

& You are still talking to me like I am slow. Assuming that I didn't already know these things because of the age that you think I am.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Yes that is cheating, but I didn't say I would leave my husband for someone else. If I felt like I was missing something or wasn't happy in a relationship, I would just leave it, not cheat like others would do.

& You are still talking to me like I am slow. Assuming that I didn't already know these things because of the age that you think I am.

ok

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

I don't consider it cheating but I like to be in 2 relationships at a time. I like the differences 2 separate women can bring to my life.

 

[karim]

I don't have daddy issues. You don't know wtf you're talking about. I know both of my parents and have always known them. I used to live with both of them. I don't like either of my parents that much, both of them have issues. My dad is more stable/sane than my mom though.




Stfu
I know right from wrong just like everyone else my age. I know what I will and won't do, and I will not cheat.

i'm sorry to tell you this, but you're going to cheat

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

never cheated

 

[Birdie]

I use to cheat up until I turned 19(never got caught). But eventually I stopped cheating simply because I became tired of having to lie. It also didn't help seeing women flip out on other guys for leading them on. So I just decided I would let women I was dating know(especially if they asked) that I don't like dating one woman and if you can't accept me for who I am than you can leave. Surprisingly a lot stayed and even the ones that claimed they didn't like that most would come back. With how flaky women are anyway it make sense to me to have more than 1.

 

[Giselle]

I don't consider it cheating but I like to be in 2 relationships at a time. I like the differences 2 separate women can bring to my life.

i'm sorry to tell you this, but you're going to cheat

No I'm not. You don't know me.

I'm not sorry to tell you this, you're going on ignore.