Where oh where do did I even imply that lifting a finger is all it takes? I didn't. I stated that to say don't complain if you aren't even trying to get custody. Like I just told someone else, my brother actually had custody of his kids so I know a little bit more about this than google searches and bitter men making up hypothetical situations that they've never experienced.
In regard to your comment on why I don't have sympathy for mothers because there is nothing to sympathize with. Actually, being a single mother is something that could be sympathized with because it's a difficult situation, but I have no sympathy because it's a situation she chose.
Finally, being a baby daddy to a "hoe" is not inherently a male struggle. It's an irresponsible person's struggle given the fact the child is here because you willingly nutted in that "hoe"
Maybe you quoted the wrong person then,because i gave a scenario where a man is trying to get full custody or 50/50 custody,not trying to avoid responsibilty at all,and you replied with the statement about if a man doesnt lift a finger he doesnt have a right to complain...making it sound as if the only reason men aint getting 50/50 is becauae they not trying...if it was a misunderstanding between us okay
Not sure why your one situation outweighs my research and experiences of my family members....my cousin filed for custody and lost to a chick who suffered from mental illness who didnt have a job...he didnt get custody until she took they kids and dissapeared for a year...and you already said your brother got custody because the mother didnt have her shyt together,lucky for him.
And its funny how women accuse men of fukking no good whores when they wanna blame a man for his plight....if these women are no good whores maybe men should start getting a better shot at custody.
The womans not always a lousy bytch before the relationship ends....just like theres not always signs a man will be a deadbeat before the baby comes....i could easily tell women "You shouldve known he would be a deadbeat" and that would be just as foul...you cant predict the future,and no marriage doesnt help with that...matter of fact you lkable to get hit with the double whammy of alimony and child support
is the next goal post to tell us to adopt since weve already heard celibacy

...seems like being fair would keep from holding one side more accountable than the other,but nah
