Child Support rant :wow:

Canon

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@marcuz aint the only one thinking BC is a cop out excuse. It's personally caused me health problems. I wouldn't ever touch that shyt again.
personal question here but you can't use any method of birth control?

:whoa:i understand if you don't want to answer
 

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I'm sure they'll :whoa: at the thought of male birth control one they'll have to submit to bi-annual prostate exams and q-tip swabs in their pee holes.

shyt, forgot to mention the mood swings from the shift in hormones.
:blessed:im ready
 

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I'm sure they'll :whoa: at the thought of male birth control one they'll have to submit to bi-annual prostate exams and q-tip swabs in their pee holes.

shyt, forgot to mention the mood swings from the shift in hormones.

I just had my annual on Tuesday lol.

Although I am not a fan of birth control, I take it. However, I stick to the low dose. I refuse to ever get a depo shot or an iud though.
 

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Some of these posts got me tight, but I'ma bite my tongue.

I'll just say this. When you have a kid with somebody it's a joint venture. If you are a women you are still responsible for your child's life, and yes that includes financially. Having a kid shouldn't be a free ride for you to enjoy an expense free life. If the man can afford to put a roof over the child's head, feed him, clothe him, pay his health insurance, but YOU need his money to do the same, then why on earth should you be granted custody in the first place?

Especially if you voluntarily left that stability for personal reasons. And if you are financially capable, but still use only the fathers money then you have a twisted view of the world. Yes it is a mans job to provide, but it is equally a woman's job. This idea that women aren't financially responsible is an archaic idea. Women fought hard for equal rights and still suffer from some societal disadvantages. But they benefit still from these archaic ideas at the same time. You can't have it both ways.

i.e. "I want equal treatment, equal status in society, equal pay, equal respect, equal standing, but still I want to be coddled by society because you know, Im a girl"

If you want all that, the same hardships men deal with come along with it. I know not all women are like this, though this modern entitlement is crazy sometimes. You want equal respect as a human being, then you will be treated as a human being not a lady; and with that comes equal responsibility. Unless there is a huge gap in income between parents (and not from voluntary unemployment) then I see no reason why raising a kid separated should not be a 50/50 venture. And more and more courts are agreeing with this sentiment.
 

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My stepdad had full custody of his kid and the court half assed getting him child support. But when it was the other way around they'd threaten him with jail and bs over it. fukked up system fingers crossed I'm never a victim
 

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People are going to be selfish, a kid won't change that.

A lot of people simply can't be good parents or create a nuclear family; it's just not in them. But they will continue to have kids anyway. You need to know yourself before bringing a life into this world.

A man shouldbe asking himself why he couldn't make a relationship work that he has to limited to seeing his kid two days a week. A woman should be asking herself why she couldn't make a relationship work to the point she damages her child's life and perhaps the fathers with the way child support laws are.
 

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I don't feel sorry for dudes that get caught up having to pay child support. I may feel sorry if it's some exorbitant amount and some broad is trying to hustle the system, but I don't feel sorry for a man being required to pay something. If you bring a kid into this world, it's your responsibility to ensure that kid is alright. It's not even about the mother at this point in time. It's about ensuring you look out for someone you brought into this world. If you want to go slanging your johnson around, then be prepared to face the consequences. If you don't want to deal with it, carefully consider the women you deal with and keep it in your pants. Choosing better applies to men too.
 

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Then don't have sex. As a man your job is to provide. If that's a problem then to me you are a bum. I don't care how much you make.

If you are dealing with a woman and benefiting from all that comes from that, then there is responsibility attached to that. If you impregnate her, there comes double the responsibility. You don't suck a woman dry and then think you can wash your hands when you get bored or angry. You don't create life with a woman, and think your only obligation is to the child and not to the woman.

Mothers and children are a package deal. Mothers and fathers are a team.

But like I said, there are plenty of women who are cool with that type of arrangement. That is not the example that was set for me, so the whole notion of complaining about making sure the woman you impregnated is okay sounds ridiculous.

That's why women shouldn't have sex before marriage. But if they want to deal with the hassle of wasting time with bums then good luck.

Thank you for being decent and respectful in your comments.
God this is some of the dumbest shyt i have read all year

Get the fukk outta here

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