Elle Driver
Veteran
@marcuz aint the only one thinking BC is a cop out excuse. It's personally caused me health problems. I wouldn't ever touch that shyt again.
Child Support rant :wow:
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@marcuz aint the only one thinking BC is a cop out excuse. It's personally caused me health problems. I wouldn't ever touch that shyt again.
yea, cus birth control is only thing that trumps the venus flytrap p*ssy. no checks getting cut when you on BC and y'all know itBirth control. No thank you.
SouthernBelle
#Feyonce
Maybe you quoted the wrong person then,because i gave a scenario where a man is trying to get full custody or 50/50 custody,not trying to avoid responsibilty at all,and you replied with the statement about if a man doesnt lift a finger he doesnt have a right to complain...making it sound as if the only reason men aint getting 50/50 is becauae they not trying...if it was a misunderstanding between us okay
Not sure why your one situation outweighs my research and experiences of my family members....my cousin filed for custody and lost to a chick who suffered from mental illness who didnt have a job...he didnt get custody until she took they kids and dissapeared for a year...and you already said your brother got custody because the mother didnt have her shyt together,lucky for him.
And its funny how women accuse men of fukking no good whores when they wanna blame a man for his plight....if these women are no good whores maybe men should start getting a better shot at custody.
The womans not always a lousy bytch before the relationship ends....just like theres not always signs a man will be a deadbeat before the baby comes....i could easily tell women "You shouldve known he would be a deadbeat" and that would be just as foul...you cant predict the future,and no marriage doesnt help with that...matter of fact you lkable to get hit with the double whammy of alimony and child support
is the next goal post to tell us to adopt since weve already heard celibacy...seems like being fair would keep from holding one side more accountable than the other,but nah
I quoted the right person. You quoted a person who quoted me about not having sympathy for baby daddies on child support.
Also, your statement didn't say the man was TRYING to get custody. You simply stated "what if the man WANTS custody." Your desires don't mean anything if you aren't actually trying. My statement definitely implies that if a man isn't trying then he doesn't have the right to complain. If you aren't doing anything about your situation, why the hell are you complaining. However, that statement does not at all imply that the only reason that men don't have custody is because they aren't trying. My statement doesn't even address actual fathers who are trying and fighting on behalf of their children.
I used the word hoe because that is how the man in the video described his baby mama. She was likely a hoe when he was nutting in her, but now he wants to cry and stomp because of a decision HE made. Also, so your cousin's baby mama just all of sudden turned crazy and into a bum with no job? Were they married? If not why did he choose to impregnate a woman that wasn't his wife and that he wasn't committed to for life?
You can't predict the future, but there are often signs that we choose to ignore. Having unprotected sex and getting pregnant out of wedlock (unless it was a planned child) is irresponsible. There is no other way of slicing it, and people need to start dealing with the consequences of their actions like adults.
Also, the vast majority of men are not made to pay alimony.
Finally, celibacy isn't necessary. Safe sex works. I know too many people who have made it year after year without producing an unplanned child.
Elle Driver
Veteran
SouthernBelle
#Feyonce
They honestly just don't give a damn because they aren't taking it or having foreign objects stuck inside of them.
I'll rue the day you become a baby father.
that's not funny.
the idea of paying child support while having offspring being raised by a single mother is terrifyingwhy would i care? it's y'all bodies. i'm not down for having my period for a month because i took bc so my bf can nut in me
my mom's bone density is fukked because of bc, I know so many of my gfs that have had issues with bc from depression to having two month periods...it's not good. no matter what way you spin it.
have fun with your male birth control
Elle Driver
Veteran
that's not funny.
I'm not laughing.
Maybe you can file for full custody though.
#SOG_soldier
New York knicks and phoenix suns stan
my bad thot.
jwonder
Superstar
This 20 times! You nutting up in these bytches. Scratch that. You nutting up in these WRONG bytchES. You know this bytch going to put you on child support.
It's true though. A lot of nikkas who take care of their children still get put on child support. Just for not wanting to be with their BM, or moving on.
The solution though is tI stop giving bytches babies and just use condoms,
MooseMouthMthafuga
Veteran
Same thing it means when some women say it,its always ambiguous unless you know the people involved personally.
just throwing some money,or just spending a little bit of time by choice or by force aint neccesarily taking care of your kid....and neither is living off welfare,collecting child support and spending alot of time with the kid.
if yall both poor and not together chances are both of yall are not taking care of your kid completley
True shyt.Sometimes, even the custodial parent is neglectful.Just collecting child support, but not providing anything of substance for the kid.Glorified babysitters, basically.
They put on a front.Kids dressed in nice outfits & jordans, but looking sickly because all they eat is hot cheetos, and little debbie snack cakes all day.
Parent on the phone, internet, watching TV....just letting the childen do whatever the fukk they want.
But when it's time to go to a birthday party, this parents kids will have on the flyest/most coordinated outfit.
The "material cover up"...fooled by the hocu pocus, people will point and say "Ooh he/she take care of his/her kids!!
"Not knowing the kids are dolled up, but not getting properly taken care of at home.It's smoke & mirrors "parenting"
I've also seen cases where the so called "broke/ ain't shyt" parent was more nurturing than the so called "good parent"
Casual onlookers/passer by's normally think the parent who's providing the most material shyt is the "good" parent.
They don't see who's there doing homework, cooking nutritious meals, and reading bedtime stories.
But since he/she don't have a job, they ain't shyt
SouthernBelle
#Feyonce
my bad thot.
How clever
I'm sure they'll
at the thought of male birth control one they'll have to submit to bi-annual prostate exams and q-tip swabs in their pee holes.shyt, forgot to mention the mood swings from the shift in hormones.