We need a baby momma bootcamp. Drop ya'll on an island where you gotta eat lizards and roaches and drink piss to live. So you come back with an appreciation for the difficulties of life and self reliance. Too much princess mentality when it ain't reality. 1st world America being raised as a princess to be worshipped is a LUXURY not a god given right.
Try playing both roles one time. Try waking up at 5, feedin your kid breakfast changing all the diapers, bringin him to the park, feed him lunch, bath him, go buy clothes, put him down for a nap, teach him some lessons, cook him dinner, do the dishes, do the laundry clean the kitchen, vaccuum the living room, try to find time to eat for yourself, drive him to a babysitter a half hour away so he can be watched til his mother is out of work.
THEN go into a job where you stand on your feet for 8 hours, get home at 1 in the morning, only to do it all again tomorrow...then get told by your baby mother you ain't doing enough