Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice

[Amor fati]

Sup 187 I'm trying to help my little brother but I don't know how , he managed to cold approach girl, getting her number and he seems to be infatuated with her however there is a few issues the girl lives out of the country but it seems like she visits sometimes to see her parents, and secondly he wants to know how to keep up a conversation with her without being irritating or uninteresting. Any advice?

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Sup 187 I'm trying to help my little brother but I don't know how , he managed to cold approach girl, getting her number and he seems to be infatuated with her however there is a few issues the girl lives out of the country but it seems like she visits sometimes to see her parents, and secondly he wants to know how to keep up a conversation with her without being irritating or uninteresting. Any advice?

Break him out of that. Oneitis is a mf

 

[Balla]

Yeah this might be a bad case of oneitis because it doesn't sound like he does cold approach at all.

So he seems like he's gassed up off it, which isn't bad, but he needs to be chill af.

Sup 187 I'm trying to help my little brother but I don't know how , he managed to cold approach girl, getting her number and he seems to be infatuated with her however there is a few issues the girl lives out of the country but it seems like she visits sometimes to see her parents, and secondly he wants to know how to keep up a conversation with her without being irritating or uninteresting. Any advice?

 

[Amor fati]

Yeah this might be a bad case of oneitis because it doesn't sound like he does cold approach at all.

So he seems like he's gassed up off it, which isn't bad, but he needs to be chill af.

Yeah will do, yep your right it was actually his first time cold approaching the opposite sex

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Alright, Im making a new post here. Really gotta work on my laziness in updating this daily tho



How the people around you influence your mindset:


Another thing that many people gravely underestimate is the direct influence of your surroundings. To be successfull with women, your career, and basically everything else in life your mindset is crucial. If you dont take chances, overcome your fears & just do it you will not achieve anything. Women arent magically gonna ring your doorbell and introduce themselves to you, you wont suddenly get a couple million dollars out of nowhere and so on...
But most people dont really break out of their mental cage because of their surroundings. Very often the poeple around you will hold you back. It could be your parents telling you to not follow your true passion and instead playing it safe, or your homies being scared to approach and holding you back with their negative mindset like "I dont think this works, what if she rejects you blablabla". Of course you shouldnt just cut your parent off for just giving you (often times well meant) advice but in the case of freidns and people you associate with you should check yourself. If all the people you hang around with are people who get nothing done in life, who wait for the good things in life to suddenly happebn out of the blue without putting working in, if they are holding you back from actually evolving as a person and acomplishing your goals you should distance yourself. Me personally I cant even be bothered to hang around with people who give me those negative vibes, I used to do this in the past and shyt was depressing honestly. Chilling with people like this is like your energy getting drained. And by associating yourself with those guys you will defenitely be interrupted in your personal development.



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I always heard you should associate with people that you want to be like. You wanna get money. Hang around nikkas that get money, you wanna get better with women hang around dudes that are good with women.... you cant grow in negative environments either

 

[Balla]

That's cool. He needs to get at more.

What game ya avi from?

Yeah will do, yep your right it was actually his first time cold approaching the opposite sex

 

[Amor fati]

That's cool. He needs to get at more.

What game ya avi from?

It's from Groove On Fight by Atlus.

 

[ViShawn]

What about what Alpha Male Strategies says about approaching women?

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Wasnt a good day for me, basically been driving around the whole fukking day in lame ass traffic and didnt have many chances today and the ones I had I didnt get a date/number or anything. But it is what it is
Ill TRY to post daily in here now, if not a new „article, just how much girls I got a day/how many I approached, should be possible for my lazy ass

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Sup 187 I'm trying to help my little brother but I don't know how , he managed to cold approach girl, getting her number and he seems to be infatuated with her however there is a few issues the girl lives out of the country but it seems like she visits sometimes to see her parents, and secondly he wants to know how to keep up a conversation with her without being irritating or uninteresting. Any advice?

Its basically already been mentioned by the others but its the fact that he hasnt got any options which causes him to put all his energy, thoughts, emotions into just one girl. If you are a man that has got options/can meet/approach/talk to new women everyday you will be laid back because you wont put too much importance on one person.


Just for the conversation aspect: I typed this as one of the first articles in here about being real & using your weaknesses as advantages as a beginner (which he seems to be). Especially the aspect about being real is important if you really wanna have success, if you are trying to put on a fake persona, only say things to impress her etc she‘ll lose interest because of you not being an honest person/a fake.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

What about what Alpha Male Strategies says about approaching women?

I never watched his videos, what is he saying or whats different about his approach as opposed to mine ? Always interested in new perspectives

 

[SheWantTheD]

Wasnt a good day for me, basically been driving around the whole fukking day in lame ass traffic and didnt have many chances today and the ones I had I didnt get a date/number or anything. But it is what it is
Ill TRY to post daily in here now, if not a new „article, just how much girls I got a day/how many I approached, should be possible for my lazy ass

So you're cold approaching and not waiting for choosing signals?

It's kind of hard to get choosing signals when walking past a random shorty though.

A lot tend to look down, look at their phone, etc (don't know why cuz I ain't gon approach them) in my experience. But in other environments, I get lots of choosing signals.

I get choosing signals everyday, but at the same time I'm on a college campus every day.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I never watched his videos, what is he saying or whats different about his approach as opposed to mine ? Always interested in new perspectives

He doesn't really focus too much on approaching.

He says make a confident approach, don't hesitate, stay in your masculine sexual seduction frame. Don't talk to the chick like one of your buddies, don't act goofy, etc.

 

[ViShawn]

He doesn't really focus too much on approaching.

He says make a confident approach, don't hesitate, stay in your masculine sexual seduction frame. Don't talk to the chick like one of your buddies, don't act goofy, etc.

You also forgot "Be on your purpose" and "fukk these hoes to sleep".

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

So you're cold approaching and not waiting for choosing signals?

It's kind of hard to get choosing signals when walking past a random shorty though.

A lot tend to look down, look at their phone, etc (don't know why cuz I ain't gon approach them) in my experience. But in other environments, I get lots of choosing signals.

I get choosing signals everyday, but at the same time I'm on a college campus every day.

Yep
Definition of cold approach

I think much more men should do this, its so so SO fukkIN MANY chances out there you miss if you dont do it. Applies for anything else too, just go out there and get what you want.
Its also just how many women told me that they wish men would approach them, some of the most beautiful ones told me they have never ever been approached seriously