Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice

[SheWantTheD]

Yep
Definition of cold approach

I think much more men should do this, its so so SO fukkIN MANY chances out there you miss if you dont do it. Applies for anything else too, just go out there and get what you want.
Its also just how many women told me that they wish men would approach them, some of the most beautiful ones told me they have never ever been approached seriously

I'm only cold approaching if shorty bad.

But then again I'm not chasing a chick down the street, only hollering if she's within a good distance.

And those women probably don't make themselves open to being holla'd at. Some dudes ain't gonna care though. A chick's body language could scream don't come near me and a nikka would still holla.

 

[SheWantTheD]

You also forgot "Be on your purpose" and "fukk these hoes to sleep".

Yeah, I was just talking about what he says on approaching women.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

What about what Alpha Male Strategies says about approaching women?

Approaching is beta ..be on your purpose and let the chick chase you

He says he waits for choosing signals then makes a move

 

[Benefited]

Alot of dudes approach women with low energy,then get upset by her lack of excitment.
Men do this in an effort to be "too cool for school",and to just not really put themselves out there,just in case the woman rejects them.
Women feed off of energy,and women are great at giving off good energy.
If you want to learn how to talk to women,your first move should be to watch women when they meet new women.
You need to do that,but in male form.
Over the years men have been trained to be monotone and laidback,the idea being if you show excitement you are "gassing" up the woman.
Who cares,I suggest not talking to women you aren't excited to talk too.
Of course there is more than one way to skin a cat.

 

[Balla]

How good would you say it is compared to other fighting games during that time.

It's from Groove On Fight by Atlus.

 

[Amor fati]

How good would you say it is compared to other fighting games during that time.

In my opinion, the game is pretty good I'd give it a 4 out of 5 I'd say it's better than KOF 96 and 97 and a few other 2d games(Golden Axe duel, and Galaxy Fight), the controls aren't complex it's pretty straightforward if you know how to time well you can do cool tag team combos and if your partner is knocked out you can throw there body as projectiles towards opponents. Also, there are a few Shin Megami Tensei cameo appearances.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Continuing tomorrow, just returned home. Was visiting family, had some issues to handle and wasnt active on here for a week

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[Dreamzeedream]

Continuing tomorrow, just returned home. Was visiting family, had some issues to handle and wasnt active on here for a week

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@Rose Gold
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I hope all us well bro

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

I hope all us well bro

Yeah everythings ok so far, its nothing too serious

About to post a lil thinkpiece about porn/fapping & the effect on the mindset in an hour or something

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Yeah everythings ok so far, its nothing too serious

About to post a lil thinkpiece about porn/fapping & the effect on the mindset in an hour or something

Cool, I'm waiting for it

 

[King Khufu]

I'm only cold approaching if shorty bad.

But then again I'm not chasing a chick down the street, only hollering if she's within a good distance.

And those women probably don't make themselves open to being holla'd at. Some dudes ain't gonna care though. A chick's body language could scream don't come near me and a nikka would still holla.

Alot of dudes approach women with low energy,then get upset by her lack of excitment.
Men do this in an effort to be "too cool for school",and to just not really put themselves out there,just in case the woman rejects them.
Women feed off of energy,and women are great at giving off good energy.
If you want to learn how to talk to women,your first move should be to watch women when they meet new women.
You need to do that,but in male form.
Over the years men have been trained to be monotone and laidback,the idea being if you show excitement you are "gassing" up the woman.
Who cares,I suggest not talking to women you aren't excited to talk too.
Of course there is more than one way to skin a cat.

Dope Reads.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Porn & Fapping and how it influences the mind


So since I focus on mindset very much in this thread, heres another aspect that many people underestimate. The whole no fap thing has been mentioned more & more in the last years, porn addiction gets talked about more & imo its definitely something that affects your mind, drive & success.

As for myself: Ive had certain time periods in my life were fapping & porn definitely stopped my drive & had a negative influence on my mind. If you wanna get good & successful with women of course you‘ll have to practice & actually go out and with time its gonna get a lot easier. But in order to actually go out & do it you need the drive & ambition to REALLY want it. Its basic human instinct that pushes our sex drive & makes us interested in females. However if you constantly watch porn & masturbate you dont put your sex drive & testosterone to proper use and walk around like a sedated
bull with no energy at all. You‘ll just become more & more apathetic to real females, with no will to actually conquer your fears to approach. If you can rely on stimulation & dopamine release 24/7 in the form of all kinds of porn online it WILL affect you.

There were dark time periods in my life years ago were I fapped multiple times daily to porn and it took a toll on my mental state & really stopped me from actually pursuing women for a long time. I can absolutely confirm the apathy & lack of energy I had. Seeing hot women outside and instead of actually trying to get to know them going home, fapping & feeling like shyt afterwards is something I remember too much


Now Im not saying you should never fap again in your life, but avoiding porn completely and limiting the masturbation to not make it the number 1 (or only) sexual expression in your life is something you should definitely understand & do.
If youre not approaching women yet stop fapping COMPLETELY until you actually make progress. Just be serious with yourself and focus on getting the next nut with a real female. In my experience this is one of the best strategies for beginners to actually get their ass up and start.


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[1-8-7-Skillz]

So Im doing another post here, and I wanna urge some of the brehs tagged in here to take action if they arent already doing it. I been wanting to do a report/typing out of my approaches in1 day but I been on the posting, my schedule is still very fukked up, got a lot of private stuff to work on, business-wise, staying on my workout grind as well etc etc so im mainly lurking and commenting in threads here & there.

But the next few days look more relaxed so
tomorrow im finally doing that shyt, typing my stuff out AND i wanna use this as motivation for y‘all to start taking action. If you arent already doing it Ill give some „starters advice“ now, I hope it makes you look at the approaching part more relaxed and start with it TOMORROW & report back here as well


So a few things to make the start easier and help yall:


1. The wall:

What I call „the wall“ is a psychological problem/the actual fear of approaching an unknown person on the street or anywhere else. Im sure y‘all have experienced it, you see an attractive woman and you think about how fine she is & how youd like to get to know her but then you get this uneasy feeling, you freeze up & cant actually walk up to her and introduce yourself. You are afraid of her reaction, what she/or the other people around might think, the possibility of not knowing what to say to her and all kinds of scenarios that could happen. In the end you just walk past her and immediately regret it. The big problem in my experience is that the more time passes after you leave the house, the more girls you dont approach that walk past you the worse & seemingly more impossible to break through your „wall“ gets.


The key to make the wall easier to break through is to get your first approaches in AS SOON AS POSSIBLE after you leave your house. The first attractive women you see, you just walk up to them immediately. DONT think to much about the outcome, the first few approaches will be just a „warmup“, theres a good chance you wont give an amazing performance, be lost for words, talk too fast, get nervous and so on. But after a couple approaches it will immediately become easier, you‘ll be more relaxed in the conversation, the words will flow more naturally and you‘ll recognize that its not that bad/difficult at all. Its all about becoming used to the process, if youve never done it before it may feel like something „unnatural“
but the more you do it the more common & non threatening it becomes


So I wanna see some of y‘all post something tomorrow as well, I hope this way this thread will gain some momentum brehs




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@Dreamzeedream
@GrindMode
@LiveFromLondon
@Rose Gold
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[Dreamzeedream]

So Im doing another post here, and I wanna urge some of the brehs tagged in here to take action if they arent already doing it. I been wanting to do a report/typing out of my approaches in1 day but I been on the posting, my schedule is still very fukked up, got a lot of private stuff to work on, business-wise, staying on my workout grind as well etc etc so im mainly lurking and commenting in threads here & there.

But the next few days look more relaxed so
tomorrow im finally doing that shyt, typing my stuff out AND i wanna use this as motivation for y‘all to start taking action. If you arent already doing it Ill give some „starters advice“ now, I hope it makes you look at the approaching part more relaxed and start with it TOMORROW & report back here as well


So a few things to make the start easier and help yall:


1. The wall:

What I call „the wall“ is a psychological problem/the actual fear of approaching an unknown person on the street or anywhere else. Im sure y‘all have experienced it, you see an attractive woman and you think about how fine she is & how youd like to get to know her but then you get this uneasy feeling, you freeze up & cant actually walk up to her and introduce yourself. You are afraid of her reaction, what she/or the other people around might think, the possibility of not knowing what to say to her and all kinds of scenarios that could happen. In the end you just walk past her and immediately regret it. The big problem in my experience is that the more time passes after you leave the house, the more girls you dont approach that walk past you the worse & seemingly more impossible to break through your „wall“ gets.


The key to make the wall easier to break through is to get your first approaches in AS SOON AS POSSIBLE after you leave your house. The first attractive women you see, you just walk up to them immediately. DONT think to much about the outcome, the first few approaches will be just a „warmup“, theres a good chance you wont give an amazing performance, be lost for words, talk too fast, get nervous and so on. But after a couple approaches it will immediately become easier, you‘ll be more relaxed in the conversation, the words will flow more naturally and you‘ll recognize that its not that bad/difficult at all. Its all about becoming used to the process, if youve never done it before it may feel like something „unnatural“
but the more you do it the more common & non threatening it becomes


So I wanna see some of y‘all post something tomorrow as well, I hope this way this thread will gain some momentum brehs




@neotheflyingone
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I'm off today,Thanksgiving and Friday. So this weekend while I'm out try to do some approaches. It's a been a minute so I gotta see what works and dont works. But Let's all contribute tho

 

[Dreamzeedream]

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