Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice

[1-8-7-Skillz]

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thanks breh, I forgot all about my own thread, damn
My posting consistency is WOAT


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[Macallik86]

Finna get it cracking in 2019 and see what happens.

 

[Balla]

U been still approachin ?

thanks breh, I forgot all about my own thread, damn
My posting consistency is WOAT


Any questions or specific topics I should touch in future write ups ?
Lets make this a bit more interactive






@neotheflyingone
@Dreamzeedream
@GrindMode
@LiveFromLondon
@Rose Gold
@G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

U been still approachin ?

of course
What bout u breh ?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

what u know about brehs in relationships still approaching women? I believe every man should still approach chics, even if you don't have the intention to cheat or anything. Just keep your mouthpiece sharp.

if you stop approaching and get in a relationship for several years and things go bad and u find yourself single again, sometimes it will mess you up and you'll find that you lost your nerve to approach

happened to one of my brehs... it was a sad sight watching this man try to regain his mojo after having been married for several years.... my dude legit forgot how to talk to chics

Ive never been in a real relationship like that so Ive never been "out the game", but Id definetely recommend it. Its always important to keep your social skills & mouthpiece tight. I also known a couple dudes who legit forgot about their own lifes and just focused on a relationship, neglecting everything else. When those relationships were over tho

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Huh

 

[The Message]

what u know about brehs in relationships still approaching women? I believe every man should still approach chics, even if you don't have the intention to cheat or anything. Just keep your mouthpiece sharp.

if you stop approaching and get in a relationship for several years and things go bad and u find yourself single again, sometimes it will mess you up and you'll find that you lost your nerve to approach

happened to one of my brehs... it was a sad sight watching this man try to regain his mojo after having been married for several years.... my dude legit forgot how to talk to chics

this is razor sharp

when i'm in a relationship, i make it a point to stay flirting, hitting the clubs, and still cold approach. i never took it further than that but i wanted to stay on point. i never wanted to fall the fukk off and be a what i call a "home depot nikka"

you seen em...go to home depot on a saturday afternoon and look around at all the defeated husbands. tshirt, baseball hat, cargo shorts, new balance sneaks with white socks, and his nuts screwed off and left on the living room shelf.

i wanted to stay sauced out in a relationship, it keeps your chick on point when other girls are choosing. relationships can break bad at any time. if youre unprepared, youre right back in the game, not knowing which way is up.

stay like floyd...even in retirement the nikka stayed in ring shape

 

[Balla]

of course
What bout u breh ?

Just clubs. Still bytching out on cold approaching during the day lol, that shyt so difficult and awkward for me.

I wanted to do it for years, but it's hard for me. Now it seems that might be one of the only options to get bytches besides the club where they flake a lot at.

 

[Brandsdale]

tbh cold approaching is always a good strategy for finding women, but my nikka its 2019. You better hop on an app or in some DMs or you're gonna overwork yourself

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Just clubs. Still bytching out on cold approaching during the day lol, that shyt so difficult and awkward for me.

I wanted to do it for years, but it's hard for me. Now it seems that might be one of the only options to get bytches besides the club where they flake a lot at.

Then get started now
Once you get some experience its easy as hell

 

[Balla]

U right man. I just worry now cuz I ain't got my shyt together yet.

tbh cold approaching is always a good strategy for finding women, but my nikka its 2019. You better hop on an app or in some DMs or you're gonna overwork yourself

 

[Balla]

How should I start out ?

Then get started now
Once you get some experience its easy as hell

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

How should I start out ?

The only way to get started is to just approach. Thats the only way to get experience and step your game up.
Also dont focus on the outcome too much (especially at the beginning), the first few times will be a bit awkward & you may end up being a bit uncomfortable but that will soon go away.

 

[Balla]

U think there's an age limit to this shyt? I'm talking about day time approaching only.

I wish I started at 18 and now I feel so old and I'm worried that I'll be trying to make up for lost time when I should have been doing this since 18.

And I say old because I noticed a lot of women that I see single and alone most of the time are in malls, and they're mostly 18-21 if that.

I just feel like it's easier to do it when you're a young ass dude because if she's 18 and you're 18 or 22 it ain't that bad, but if you're mid 20s or older just feels weird.

Plus when you're that young you get away with much more.

Maybe I'm in my head too much ? If so let me know.

The only way to get started is to just approach. Thats the only way to get experience and step your game up.
Also dont focus on the outcome too much (especially at the beginning), the first few times will be a bit awkward & you may end up being a bit uncomfortable but that will soon go away.