Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice

MischievousMonkey

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Welp, I tried practicing again this morning.
Cold approached an older woman, mid 50's...
Talked for a while in line at Wawa and had her laughing, paid for her breakfast since I was in line ahead of her. She thanked me and I went about my way.
This was good...
I'm feeling more confident practicing with females I don't have any intention of going forward with. I think if I practice more, I won't be so nervous with a female I consider a dime. Of course, I won't be buying for any the way I did this morning. The older lady had big t*ts and a sweet personality, but she smoked so that's a no-go. I'll buy her breakfast, but I ain't playin with no addict.
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You can get better at EVERYTHING with practice, so yeah good shyt. Just talk to people man.

Don't know about this buying breakfast to strangers :dahell: but you do you:hubie:
 

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Welp, I tried practicing again this morning.
Cold approached an older woman, mid 50's...
Talked for a while in line at Wawa and had her laughing, paid for her breakfast since I was in line ahead of her. She thanked me and I went about my way.
This was good...
I'm feeling more confident practicing with females I don't have any intention of going forward with. I think if I practice more, I won't be so nervous with a female I consider a dime. Of course, I won't be buying for any the way I did this morning. The older lady had big t*ts and a sweet personality, but she smoked so that's a no-go. I'll buy her breakfast, but I ain't playin with no addict.
:usure:
You out here tricking on women your grandmother's age breh? :dwillhuh:

Nah, I'm just fukking with you breh. :heh:
 

Rozay Oro

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Cold approaching is a waste of time. It's much easier to find women with similar interests to you...

For me, that's black women that love to travel and are into fast fashion:eat:
How you find em
 

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Welp, I tried practicing again this morning.
Cold approached an older woman, mid 50's...
Talked for a while in line at Wawa and had her laughing, paid for her breakfast since I was in line ahead of her. She thanked me and I went about my way.
This was good...
I'm feeling more confident practicing with females I don't have any intention of going forward with. I think if I practice more, I won't be so nervous with a female I consider a dime. Of course, I won't be buying for any the way I did this morning. The older lady had big t*ts and a sweet personality, but she smoked so that's a no-go. I'll buy her breakfast, but I ain't playin with no addict.
:usure:
How's everything?
 

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How's everything?
Pretty cooled down.
Saw her again last week wednesday and had a convo, found out her name...Marjorie.
Went on my way.

Been feeling pretty chilled since that day...wife commented on other females giving me the look tho so, what I'm doing is working.
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How many women have you cold approached in your life and what is your %
Just to give y’all some reference I’ve cold approached at least 300 girls and I’ve fukked about 50 and hung out with another 30. Dating especially causal dating is a numbers game.

And this is me at all stages of my life from Skinny high school football player to medium build undergrad with some popularity on campus to grad school in a whole different city. When you become familiar with the cold approach on a specific type of women you can’t beat it. I don’t date white women so I don’t know how this works for them but black and Hispanics it still works.
 

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Didnt get any new girls today :yeshrug:
Just made a lil run to the store around the corner & quicky picked up some food.


Some super stuck up asian girl, a cute chick with a dog but her bf was with her & a 29 year old who just got engaged and is in the process of leaving the country with her man but was one of the best conversations with a woman I had in a long time, she was very good looking but also very smart, funny & is on her way to becoming a teacher :ehh:

Im attempting to report daily now, its not easy for a :flabbynsick: poster when it comes to typing longer texts but Ill try my best
 
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