Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice

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I like going out with friends but if I have the choice I'll roll dolo if I'm not going on a date... I love lone wolf game. More than confident enough to be by myself n have a good time, n connect w some ppl wherever I am. Dont gotta worry about making sure anyone else is straight, if I wanna post I can post if I wanna flex or change locations no discussions needed.

Brehs if u wanna succeed in the game of cold approach ya gotta look your best!!! Dont let the world fool u.... girls are all aesthetics. Body over clothes imo, when u look good physically u make basic clothes look fly and better clothes GQ status. Hit the gym!!! n invest in ya wardrobe, try to cop versatile pieces that can be worn in different settings. Don't go broke, but put in max effort even when u just making a grocery run or sumn simple..... step out like u might run into a piece.

Was at a pool party after party yesterday, just posted up by myself and vibed out while it got poppin.... parties nowadays are snooze fests and I'm Jamaican so I'm all about action n tryna have shorties whine on me, Nikkas be tryna look like they on Americas most wanted n bytches be there for clout on they socials so I navigate accordingly.... I knew a good amount of ppl from my neighborhood at the party n I was dapping up ppl every 10-15 mins or so as they came in. One homie gave me a cup of hen and some random breh bought me a Heineken so I was vibing off that..... anyways

1st approach was on a thick shorty standing next to her homegirls by the bar getting ready to leave n find a spot to post up.

HD: "What's up"
'Hey, nothin much'
"You single?"
'Yeah'
"Damn right... What's ya name?"
'Kenya'
"Kenya, like can ya handle all this ass?" While I'm lookin at it.... she died laughing.
'Yeah Haha'
"That's a city in Africa too right?" (If she woulda said no I woulda had to dub her)
'Yeah haha' (got the bytch blushing sooo hard rn, all I heard her friends comment was he's sooo tall)
"I know they make em all natural there, u all natural?"
'Yeah I am'
"Then we gonna get along real good.... what's ya #?"
BOOM. Got the digits, texted her real quick n slid back to my spot.

If you can make a joke out of her name go for it..... shows quick wits n that u dont gaf n not gonna put her on a pedestal. Easy ins.

Another baddie who had been shakin that shyt all night actually approached me towards the end of the night sayn she was watching me the whole night, invited me to an after party as we exchanged #s. Then her friend came n invited me again not knowing. That's why u gotta stay vibing, never know who's checkin u out... I slid since I was dolo but it wasn't too poppin, so I dipped n called it a night. Link with her some other time....

Bout to hit the gym then grab a couple things at the store, should find somethin that catches my eye!
 

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My shyts be long but it's all game, take from it watcha want but the cold approach is goin dead n so I'm willing to add n contribute what works for me.

Or don't take nothin at all :yeshrug:
 

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What y’all think about approaching mad bytches on campus? Since it’s an environment I’ll be in a few times a week, I try to think about not being some dude who just walks around and Hollas at bytches.

Idk how I feel about that shyt, but I legit don’t know anyone at this school at all.

I’m bout to not give a fukk and holla at some hoes.
 

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approaching to me is the easy part...whats hard is after you get the number

girls will seem down one day and then be taking a whole day to respond the next .
when thats the case its very difficult to sustain any kind of momentum...but if a girl is TRULY interested in you shyt will be seamless. dont forget that fellas. just accept youll prolly hit a home run every 10-20 at bats / girls you approach...and if thats the case youre hall of fame status
 

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Got another one today

Was getting groceries at Aldis, noticed a shorty in a checkout line a few rows down looking nice, 7/10 I'd say with the phatty n cute face. Wasn't bad enough for me to be all over her but just so happened she walked in an empty aisle next to me to grab sumn else, shot her a how ya doin and she said wassup. Comin back asked if she worked there even though I know she didnt, she said nah and after I asked if she was single, she simply said "when you finish" basically tellin me she was gonna wait for me.

I made some small talk w the ppl in line, they were saying they need to hit it big to which I interjected while rubbing my hands, " that's why I hope this bank heist goes good" n the couple n the cashier laughed. She noticed a couple lanes down n smiled ( remember social proof fellas, it's easier when she knows other ppl like n vibe with u).... she's out way before me n I almost forgot about her cause I was chatting up the cashier, but when I stepped outside she was chillin....

I was like damn there u are, she said I told u when u finish so I already know she had to be feelin me to wait.... walked her to her whip n asked what she was up to, told me she was getting supplies for an event she was in charge of, she runs a business where she does drinks for parties n whatnot... asked me what I'm into told her I'm a performer to get her mind runnin ( I dance on the street but women think stripper) but I'm tryna make a switch. So we spent a couple mins talking about business before I told her I had to jet n asked for the digits. She was like arent u gonna take out ur phone, n I pointed at my head.... so she rattles it off n I mess it up when I'm reciting it back to her. She laughed, went in her whip, grabbed a business card for me n then we hugged n parted ways..... for now :takedat:

Like that she's makin moves getting her own bread, gonna hit her up to schedule sumn next week....
 
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