Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Currently setting up a date with a hot russian girl I approached outside of a store yesterday for next week.
Now gonna be visiting family for a couple days.

How y‘all brehs doin ?

 

[Amor fati]

Currently setting up a date with a hot russian girl I approached outside of a store yesterday for next week.
Now gonna be visiting family for a couple days.

How y‘all brehs doin ?

I'm finna fix me a date with this Bangla chick for next week, but she going to some wedding, so I'm trying to get a date the week after. These women take ages just give a simple Yes or No answer.

Edit:
Question: Do you set up a date as soon as you get the number or do you engage in idle talk on text then eventually set up a date?

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Edit:
Question: Do you set up a date as soon as you get the number or do you engage in idle talk on text then eventually set up a date?

Im usually setting up a date in the conversation when I approach and ask for the number afterwards.

 

[Amor fati]

Im usually setting up a date in the conversation when I approach and ask for the number afterwards.

OK cool, and what about if you are in a rush or the girl is in a rush?

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

OK cool, and what about if you are in a rush or the girl is in a rush?

Was like that with the girl Im talking about, I just said we should meet up next week sometime but Im gonna be out of town for a couple days so Ill text u later on when I know more and well find a date

 

[LiveFromLondon]

I dance on the street but women think stripper) but I'm tryna make a switch

say what, switch to stripper

 

[The True HD]

say what, switch to stripper

Nah G, just out the dancing profession..... & Male strippers cater to females, nuh batty bwoy ting a gwaan ova here

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

Got another one today

Was getting groceries at Aldis, noticed a shorty in a checkout line a few rows down looking nice, 7/10 I'd say with the phatty n cute face. Wasn't bad enough for me to be all over her but just so happened she walked in an empty aisle next to me to grab sumn else, shot her a how ya doin and she said wassup. Comin back asked if she worked there even though I know she didnt, she said nah and after I asked if she was single, she simply said "when you finish" basically tellin me she was gonna wait for me.

I made some small talk w the ppl in line, they were saying they need to hit it big to which I interjected while rubbing my hands, " that's why I hope this bank heist goes good" n the couple n the cashier laughed. She noticed a couple lanes down n smiled ( remember social proof fellas, it's easier when she knows other ppl like n vibe with u).... she's out way before me n I almost forgot about her cause I was chatting up the cashier, but when I stepped outside she was chillin....

I was like damn there u are, she said I told u when u finish so I already know she had to be feelin me to wait.... walked her to her whip n asked what she was up to, told me she was getting supplies for an event she was in charge of, she runs a business where she does drinks for parties n whatnot... asked me what I'm into told her I'm a performer to get her mind runnin ( I dance on the street but women think stripper) but I'm tryna make a switch. So we spent a couple mins talking about business before I told her I had to jet n asked for the digits. She was like arent u gonna take out ur phone, n I pointed at my head.... so she rattles it off n I mess it up when I'm reciting it back to her. She laughed, went in her whip, grabbed a business card for me n then we hugged n parted ways..... for now

Like that she's makin moves getting her own bread, gonna hit her up to schedule sumn next week....

Dope shyt. keep us updated on this​

 

[Shabazz]

I like going out with friends but if I have the choice I'll roll dolo if I'm not going on a date... I love lone wolf game. More than confident enough to be by myself n have a good time, n connect w some ppl wherever I am. Dont gotta worry about making sure anyone else is straight, if I wanna post I can post if I wanna flex or change locations no discussions needed.

Brehs if u wanna succeed in the game of cold approach ya gotta look your best!!! Dont let the world fool u.... girls are all aesthetics. Body over clothes imo, when u look good physically u make basic clothes look fly and better clothes GQ status. Hit the gym!!! n invest in ya wardrobe, try to cop versatile pieces that can be worn in different settings. Don't go broke, but put in max effort even when u just making a grocery run or sumn simple..... step out like u might run into a piece.

Was at a pool party after party yesterday, just posted up by myself and vibed out while it got poppin.... parties nowadays are snooze fests and I'm Jamaican so I'm all about action n tryna have shorties whine on me, Nikkas be tryna look like they on Americas most wanted n bytches be there for clout on they socials so I navigate accordingly.... I knew a good amount of ppl from my neighborhood at the party n I was dapping up ppl every 10-15 mins or so as they came in. One homie gave me a cup of hen and some random breh bought me a Heineken so I was vibing off that..... anyways

1st approach was on a thick shorty standing next to her homegirls by the bar getting ready to leave n find a spot to post up.

HD: "What's up"
'Hey, nothin much'
"You single?"
'Yeah'
"Damn right... What's ya name?"
'Kenya'
"Kenya, like can ya handle all this ass?" While I'm lookin at it.... she died laughing.
'Yeah Haha'
"That's a city in Africa too right?" (If she woulda said no I woulda had to dub her)
'Yeah haha' (got the bytch blushing sooo hard rn, all I heard her friends comment was he's sooo tall)
"I know they make em all natural there, u all natural?"
'Yeah I am'
"Then we gonna get along real good.... what's ya #?"
BOOM. Got the digits, texted her real quick n slid back to my spot.

If you can make a joke out of her name go for it..... shows quick wits n that u dont gaf n not gonna put her on a pedestal. Easy ins.

Another baddie who had been shakin that shyt all night actually approached me towards the end of the night sayn she was watching me the whole night, invited me to an after party as we exchanged #s. Then her friend came n invited me again not knowing. That's why u gotta stay vibing, never know who's checkin u out... I slid since I was dolo but it wasn't too poppin, so I dipped n called it a night. Link with her some other time....

Bout to hit the gym then grab a couple things at the store, should find somethin that catches my eye!

Kenya’s a country.

 

[The True HD]

Forgot about a shorty I casually bagged, not too interested but every girl can be a network of some sort.....

I play in a basketball league, we had a game Tuesday that was cancelled but I didn't find out till I got there. I left my whip at crib cause it was overheating n took the bus, so in having to wait I got rained on.... N my grandpa passed in the afternoon so my mood was just all the way fukked up....

There was a woman w a phatty who had a hoody on, she got off at the same stop n was waiting for the same connecting bus but I really wasn't interested with my g'pa passing n all..... I was a distance from her, just dancing a lil & did a few pushups on the sidewalk just tryna kill time while the bus came....

Before we got on I asked if she was single n she said yes, she had a bottom row of golds n I could see she was heavily tatted, I'm thinkin she hood as fukk n must be a dancer.... so why the fukk she on the bus? Anyways, get on n give my bus pass to someone getting off n sit a few rows behind her. Someone in front of her got off n I went n took their seat....

"So whats ya name"
'April'
"Like next month?"
'Yeah' w a chuckle..... ' so why were u doin pushups n jumping jacks, u gotta lot energy'
"Oh so u already tryna plaaay me, u ain't see me doin no jumping jacks.... nah my g'pa died today so I was just tryna keep my mind off that"
'Sorry to hear that'
"Its cool, its life.... so what u a dancer, personal trainer.....?"
'I used to dance...... how old r u?'
"24..... what about u?"
'I'm 38'

"That's wassup, I like em older.... how come I never seen u, I'm all around the city"
'I never seen u either, where u be at?'
"Ima dancer I be all around here, u prolly seen me n didnt even know it"
'U gotta Instagram or sumn? Lemme see if I've seen u' while handing me her phone. Added myself n she got off a few stops later....

Prolly won't pursue too tough if at all, haven't hit her up yet. Test myself to see if I can get all types but hood bytches up in age like that done been thru a lot so they got hella game n need drama to survive, she might be past that but who knows...

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[The True HD]

Kenya’s a country.

Glad she ain't know

 

[Redguard]

@1-8-7-Skillz



I have always had somewhat a fear of rejection and would freeze up occasionally on cold approaches. Most of the women I have dated were from mutual friends.

I tried the dating apps and online dating but I wasn't having much success.

Then this past week I just said "fukk it" and took your advice in this thread and I'm getting results.

 

[Bumblebreh]

Currently setting up a date with a hot russian girl I approached outside of a store yesterday for next week.
Now gonna be visiting family for a couple days.

How y‘all brehs doin ?

Breh if anything happens to you.Just know that the coli will have your back.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Then this past week I just said "fukk it" and took your advice in this thread and I'm getting results.

THIS IS WHAT I WANNA HEAR

More people need to get their shyt together and actually become Men again, sometimes I feel like an anomaly in this anti social generation.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Breh if anything happens to you.Just know that the coli will have your back.

@topic: you also on your cold approach grind breh ?