Coli Brehette says “Marry The Nerd”

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I think there needs to be an alignment on how you communicate your satisfaction in a relationship.

Adidas slides and dirty white socks still communicates she had a raw, visceral attraction to those types which is kind of a dusty reflection on herself. But to preface only the material benefits of being with a "nerd" kinda suggests something I don't want to label her as for the purpose of this conversation.

If I was the "nerd", we woulda had a serious conversation that night if she put this on social. It ain't the type of love I think a lot of dudes want from their lady. It's a byproduct.
True if the nerd had his bytch in check she wouldn't be yapping on the internet. She probably loves him but she makes him sound like a trick.

I wonder how shed feel if he said " these young hoes be demanding bags and shoes get a former ran through she's cheaper".
 

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True if the nerd had his bytch in check she wouldn't be yapping on the internet. She probably loves him but she makes him sound like a trick.

I wonder how shed feel if he said " these young hoes be demanding bags and shoes get a former ran through she's cheaper".

It doesn't matter what that man does.
A woman like that is not going to respect any man.

Some you just have to leave alone. That's why the negroes she slept with didn't try to keep her around. She had enough failures and decided to cling to this man who had something going on.

The internet is opening eyes on what women will really do. It ain't about anything but her ego. She is bragging about what she "had" in the past because she thinks she's safe from real consequences now.

At least years ago women knew what to never talk about.
 

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She’s admitting she married that man for money, but yall ignore that. You also don’t know if this is a conventionally attractive man, who happens to be a nerd. This is why yall don’t understand Russell, and Ciara. He’s a conventionally attractive man who happens to be a millionaire quarterback. But y’all act like him not being a thug was going to prevent him from getting an attractive black woman. He could have chosen a black woman with no children, and who didn’t date a rapper. But he liked who he liked, and he got her.

All nerds don’t turn into 6 figure brehs. And this woman is average, light skinned, and probably settled for an average looking man with money. Your fantasy of the model type woman settling with the nerdy, average looking bus driver isn’t happening in large numbers.
My guy everyone has fantasies and everyone settles believe me Holmes could've and a young baddier chick if he wants one.

This is her flexing on the internet she didn't talk about how she cooks and cleans for dude because that while being true is not a flex.

People do what they want to do if she liked adiddias slide man and he liked her he'd be with him she likes the nikka nerd so she's with him the end. If anything this proves that with effort both Men and women can't get what they want as long as they aren't delusional
 

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EXACTLY… this was the feeling/vibe I got. Like this bytch still be reminiscing and holding on to bitterness from her past and past actions.

Dirty socks nikka played her.. nerd nikka saved her and she just HAD to let the universe know.

Her nose too big to have an ego the same size.



Damn I know her personality type. This has to be a new diagnosis for the DSM. Social media creates these decent looking girls that are complete a$$holes to their men.

This too.

All this “marry nerds” and getting with legit decent/good dudes only to still be an a$$hole towards him or try to make him seem beneath her or belittlement because he’s not the dusty “hood” nikka she originally chased after.

I’ve had to say multiple times to a bytch that I am not her punching bag… then they like to see for themselves when an argument happen and she can’t lie/gaslight her way out of it.

All because that “nerd” nikka is not as stupid as she wants him to be and he has boundaries.
 

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nerds need to only marry nerds. leave these toxic women alone

Right idea, wrong delivery.

When you highlight the qualities of a "nerd" in terms of what he does for you and how he serves you.......it makes men recoil because you're basically saying "I want this geek because he will do everything for me."

You're not saying that you want him because he just inherently makes your toes curl.

It's smart for women to seek out higher quality, intelligent men....but the man has to feel like he's getting something out of the deal. An educated nerd with his shyt together is a High Value Man and he WILL look to upgrade if you're not holding up your end of the bargain.
these women dont realize nerds have standards too, and probably way more discernment than the "dirty sock" dudes
 

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These broads can't help themselves they have to emasculate black men like its some feminist tradition.
shyt wild
he the pediatrician...he's the man
yet hes the one putting the kids to bed while she the one drinking an old fashioned and kicking her feet up. she not even drinking a cosmo or some shyt

ha
 
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