Coli, was I being a bytch to my date? Story/texts inside..
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She's telling the truth cac
Ivy League Grad too
Ask @GinaThatAintNoDamnPuppy!..he got a chance to sniff her hair
ok I guess you have the right to call him boring. A lot of women who complain about boring dates never come up with any ideas on their own. I can't hate.
LOL. One of the reasons I don't eat at chili's because its somewhat low budget and it makes my stomach hurt. The last two times I have eaten there I have had horrible experiences.
But as for your question, the restaurant do not have to be super expensive. It could be a nice casual restaurant or it could even be at a bar.I love to shoot pool so a pool hall would be nice as well.
Why are you asking me all these questions?
Lmao I only asked 2-3. Because I wanted to know if it was chili’s itself or if you only wanted to go to expensive places.
colicolicoli
Droid Gang
If this is being a bytch then I'm on a whole other level.
I wouldn't have waited on him at the restaurant and if I did it wouldve been to cuss him out then make him pay.
Matter fact, ppl going in on you for using him for free food and you paid for your own damn meal...tf
I wouldn't have waited on him at the restaurant and if I did it wouldve been to cuss him out then make him pay.
Matter fact, ppl going in on you for using him for free food and you paid for your own damn meal...tf
NAW. It was Chili's itself, but then again I will not settle for any ole thing either. If a guy ask me out to dinner I feel like he should pick a decent enough place to impress me. It don't have a 5 star fine dining restaurant, but I refuse to settle for Chili's, Applebee's, Red Lobster, IHOP, or any other low tier restaurant as a 1st date. The link below is a good example of what I am talking about. It's not too fancy, but it's a nice causal restaurant that's affordable.I go there myself once in a blue moon, and chill at the bar
The Majestic Grille - Dinner
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
I didnt say that but i think they came to that conclusion because she sounded like she had intentions on a free dinner date but ended up having to pay for herself. Women sometimes test men by acting like they are about to pay to see if the man will say "no" and pay for it. Once he didnt respond to her question, she got frustrated because she knew now that she had to pay; which wasnt the intention.
(I cant speak for all the coli brehs but thats what it sounds like they think)
Uchiha God
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How does a man inviting me out TO EAT TWICE turn me into looking for a free meal?
And I’m not gonna say it again, the first time we met was diff he looked rough but I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Now on the “date” is when all these things really shone through.
OK to answer your last question, no you don't give him a chance.
You clearly don't like him. Don't waste your time or his.
MajesticLion
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These kinds of threads always end up being instructive as hell.
That part.
What u learn my nikka?
So I went out Sat evening to dinner. Mind you, the guy asked me out, the first time we met we went to Starbucks and chatted. It was whatever, I decided it'd be okay if he took me out for a formal date. So here's strike .5 (See text messages):
So I passed, and then he hits me up again this Saturday to go out TO DINNER. He picked Chili's in *** at 7, so I'm like okay cool, I'm confirming with him to make sure that still works as I was less than 10 mins away by car.
I get to Chili's at 7:02, he's nowhere in sight - I text him I'm here and then call as it was crowded so I wanted to know where he was (figured he was already there). He calls me back and says he was there earlier but ran an errandand would be back in 15 mins. I order a drink and wait at a table, he strolls in at 7:30.
I told him he should've just said something instead of me having to contact him for his whereabouts for a time HE picked.
Anyway, we order, and I'm noticing that he makes shyt eye contact, literally looking everywhere as he talks like a child.
Finally after finishing our food I pull out my wallet and ask "So how do you want to do this? Are we splitting it?"
He pretty much didn't say anything. Bear in mind my salad was 11.99 and my drink was $9.
So I paid my part and he gets up to walk me to my car, tried to put his hand around my waist and I smacked it away like
Then I told him in the parking lot that he could get a handshake instead of a hug and that wasn't a date because I paid my own way, he starts juelzing about how he was gonna pay but he's had experiences before where a woman was just using him for food blahblahblah I didn't gaf so I told him nah it wan't a date.
He wants another chance. Should I let him make it up or am I being a bytch for deading him?
I'm usually the type to think to give a guy/girl one date to feel each other out. I've been surprised by a lot of women I wasn't really feeling but it worked out after the first date and I've had women say the same thing about me.
But all this said, it sounds like he's a bit too inexperienced/jittery for you and you aren't feeling him too much. It might have been the location as for a first date, I don't like to go to crowded places either because there are too many things to "watch for" and you can't focus on what you need to be focusing on.
Its your life, but unless its an entirely different type of date, it doesn't seem worth the time.
