Dating At 53

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The only thing that makes an older man more attractive than a younger man is $.

If a man who is 10+ years older than a woman thinks that she doesn’t want to be provided for in some way, she might as well get with a man closer to her age who she will be more physically attracted to.

As a woman striking gold is having a fine ass man with money/success who is around your age and faithful (like a good guy who comes from a successful family and you guys get married after college). Something that is more of a possibility for beautiful women (especially those with a good personality).

Whenever you go older provision is the main reason why. Unless you’re just that physically unappealing to men who are somewhat in your age range.

Using his range, that 53YO man wants someone as young as 37. Now, 37 ain’t young to a 37YO man, but you think a good looking 37YO woman can’t find a good option who is younger than 53?! :mjlol: That’s the point.


You breaking her off with some $/trips/“security” if we’re talking a 13-16 year age difference- I don’t care how old the woman is :mjlol:

What if the 52 year old looks 35? or the 35 year old looks 25? Does that factor?

I have an uncle who looks like he's in his 20s but he's in his 40s. He says it's hard for him and not the "blessing" people think it is, becuase it can be a catch 22 no matter which direction he goes to date. He's divorced.
 

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What are the LONG TERM(not sex) options for people over 35 in general? 40? male vs female?

Will they most likely end up like the man in the OP once they hit mid 30's?
 

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What are the LONG TERM(not sex) options for people over 35 in general? 40? male vs female?

Will they most likely end up like the man in the OP once they hit mid 30's?
It’s not really any different. I was 42 when I started dating my fiancé and she was 36. If both people are single it’s dating like anything else.
 

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It’s not really any different. I was 42 when I started dating my fiancé and she was 36. If both people are single it’s dating like anything else.

so everyone over 35 have lots of options for long term mating/coupling/marriage? or no? U married now?
 

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so everyone over 35 have lots of options for long term mating/coupling/marriage? or no? U married now?
I mean how do you define a lot? Does any age group have a lot of options? There might be a lot of people to engage with but doesn’t mean they are options for long term relationships.

Not yet, got engaged in September
 

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What if the 52 year old looks 35? or the 35 year old looks 25? Does that factor?

I have an uncle who looks like he's in his 20s but he's in his 40s. He says it's hard for him and not the "blessing" people think it is, becuase it can be a catch 22 no matter which direction he goes to date. He's divorced.
No one thinks about divorce, it’s as if it’s a fantasy lmao.

Unless I missed it, this man never said if he was married before or not, had kids or not, but people wanna talk shyt about him being single.

As if everyone who settles down is going to stay together.

No one can divorce or anything right?

And they want to talk about a fantasy.

:mjlol: :mjlol:
 

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I mean how do you define a lot? Does any age group have a lot of options? There might be a lot of people to engage with but doesn’t mean they are options for long term relationships.

Not yet, got engaged in September

I'm just asking for perspective, because on the coli they have this imaginary grid where every age has gauranteed packages of outcomes or lack thereof that come with each age/age group.
 

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No one thinks about divorce, it’s as if it’s a fantasy lmao.

Unless I missed it, this man never said if he was married before or not, had kids or not, but people wanna talk shyt about him being single.

As if everyone who settles down is going to stay together.

No one can divorce or anything right?

And they want to talk about a fantasy.

:mjlol: :mjlol:

yeah people have hard and fast rules they bandy about online, but not exactly translate to real life.
 

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I'm just asking for perspective, because on the coli they have this imaginary grid where every age has gauranteed packages of outcomes or lack thereof that come with each age/age group.
Reality ia that long term relationships are work not matter the age group. Because if that, I wouldn’t say there are going to be a lot of options but it’s also very possible to meet someone after 40 :manny:
 
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