Funny how that never crosses their minds, like they're incapable of being curved
you screen them out by the first few interactions - again, a profile isn’t going to tell you everything. Plenty of well built profiles to only find out the person isnt on the app often or said one thing while having opposite intent.my nikka if you are continuously complaining about low effort folks and are unable to screen them out, then maybe that environment isn’t for you. Folks are more comfortable in complaining about a problem than fixing it
Back to the OG point, Hinge and Tinder are seen by the majority as hookups apps. You can complain and bytch all you want, but that’s what they are
If you want a serious relationships, relying on apps will have you looking stupid.
I agree. Both parties should evaluate their view of the opposite sex, how that view may hinder their ability to be in a relationship, and more importantly — what they’re looking for.
first few interactions such as FaceTime/Phone Calls and texting? Do these people not pay attention to the urgency in setting up a first date, or the courtesy of apologizing for a late text?
If that’s the case, why are you complaining if it’s just part of the arsenal?
What is a few matches if you got a date lined up with someone in your cycling club or book club.
Meanwhile this ideology is impacting black people while companies like TikTok are getting paid from it. The same with music and entertainment and people are still buying into the same game. Sad cause we don't learn shyt. Last, I talked to women who dated white men. Many realize they did it out of curiosity than being into them.
A "femininity coach" cursing up a storm, that's a sugar baby on the side...
Literally can't make this shyt up...
$100
If you see people happily couples from apps, why would you not complain you’re meeting wack ones? I mean it’s like you want to throw human nature out the window. No different than anywhere else people meet - school, work, bars, etc, some folks will spark a serious relationship from that and others will meet people who waste time in various ways.first few interactions such as FaceTime/Phone Calls and texting? Do these people not pay attention to the urgency in setting up a first date, or the courtesy of apologizing for a late text?
There will forever be misses in dating, but this notion that folks are getting swindled with every interaction removes agency from themselves.
If that’s the case, why are you complaining if it’s just part of the arsenal?
I keep repeating this and you’re not understanding: these dating apps are primary for hook-ups/short term dating.
These people are not serious if they are CONSTANTLY complaining about not being taken serious on an app that’s ecosystem screams casual sex
What happily couples are being uplifted from apps?
Human Nature is humans actually meeting each other face to face, not engaging in pointless emojis and “what are you looking for” questions and tweeting “the dating pool has pee in it
” after four matches failed.
Um, im not on apps…I met my mate thru an app tho and have at least 8-9 close friends who got married to someone they met on an app, never mind all my various coworkers who met their spouse or s/o online…so yes, people can use them and have the right to complain about the bullshyt on them just like they complain about the BS of meeting at a bar or other places where people frequent to meet someone…but I guess these people I know who have had success - folks who went to Harvard, Stanford, ucla, Duke etc and all have careers earning 150k+ aren’t “serious” people, whatever “serious” is meant to meanWhat happily couples are being uplifted from apps?
To act like they can’t happen is foolish.. to expect them to be the standard (which you are) is even foolish
Human Nature is humans actually meeting each other face to face, not engaging in pointless emojis and “what are you looking for” questions and tweeting “the dating pool has pee in it
this entire conversation, you’ve prompted up platforms that were frowned upon no less than 15 years ago as this great alternative.. even when these platforms have a commonly known stigma of quick sex.
you’ve also removed any agency from “serious” women and have not once stated — maybe they shouldn’t be on the app… maybe they’re accepting matches based on physical appearances, maybe she’s using this app as her only source of obtaining Men.
the average person will find their spouse in-person. You can continue to believe Hinge will take us all to the altar.
A bar? Where folks get drunk, watch sports, and usually dance? That’s the place a person would complain they can’t find a serious partner? Lmaoooooooooo
why did you equate romantic success to education level & income?
