Deep down does any man really wanna be in a relationship?

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Most men want both. A Fab n Emily or Stevie J n Mimi type of situation. We want to have our cake and eat it.


We pretty much want a girl who is cool with us fukking other bytches. Problem is that shyt aint really happening. The best you can end up with is a Chrissy Jim Jones type of situation. Where you do your dirt but it never comes up to ya wifey

EXACTLY

 

[HookersandIceCream]

If you dont like relationships, I dont understand why you it bothers you that other people want to be in them. Why have a personal crusade on relationships and marriage?

 

[315]

so option one thirty dime pieces you can maintain in a rotation for the rest of your life guaranteed. they all know about each other and are cool with each other. they all give it up whenever you want and also are willing for threesomes or even moresomes. you don't ever have to commit to any of them and they'll all be cool with it. if any of them leave the rotation they're instantly replaced with another dime.

option two a relationship with one woman only that leads to marriage

you gonna chose option two huh?

this isn't reality though

 

[Kenny West]

women are becoming more educated than men. more and more men are seeking alimony

having a higher paid wife benefits men financially
Study: Marriage benefits men economically, too - USATODAY.com

if he wants kids, kids from two parent homes usually fare better

health wise
In a Norwegian study, divorced and never-married male cancer patients had 11 and 16 percent higher mortality rates, respectively, than married men.

A UCLA study found that people in generally excellent health were 88 percent more likely to die over the 8-year study period if they were single.

you might also read this
Studies Find Big Benefits in Marriage - NYTimes.com


you don't see the benefits of marriage because you aren't looking for them. it is easy to be a pessimist about things.

Since Winb already tore the second one down I might as well do the first. The simple flaw for the first is unlike women, society isn't giving out passes for a man to sit on his ass and leech off alimony all day. No matter how much he gets, chances are he'll still have to work if he ever plans on getting p*ssy again. He'll have the status of a welfare recipient, and most non ratchet college females aint wavey with the idea of that and they themselves are broke.

 

[So-Chi]

so option one thirty dime pieces you can maintain in a rotation for the rest of your life guaranteed. they all know about each other and are cool with each other. they all give it up whenever you want and also are willing for threesomes or even moresomes. you don't ever have to commit to any of them and they'll all be cool with it. if any of them leave the rotation they're instantly replaced with another dime.

option two a relationship with one woman only that leads to marriage

you gonna chose option two huh?

Well hell option one is sorta fantasy land, breh. Or Coli-land with ALL dime pieces that know each other and 3some all willy nilly.

 

[Still Benefited]

Nah man I've always liked to have a relationship...that main chick who is my chick,who I actually do like and care about...I luv comin home to my girl and my kid and it feelin like a happy home man....I still got old "friends" and I meet new chicks and have sex with them too...but never in a reckless way where it would get back and disrespect my girl....u gotta be careful out of respect in a real relationship....sumtmes I feel like u do....but I wouldn't trade that feelin I get comin home bein like "honey I'm home,what's for dinner"...my girl is really cool overall man u just gotta find the right one...that's the benefit to me,just that feelin.

 

[Grams]

You like having sex with a girl, you like spending time with that girl and form a close emotional friendship (or vice-versa), you don't want to be with anybody else, you don't want her to be with anybody else. That's why people go into relationships. It's simple nikkas

so option one thirty dime pieces you can maintain in a rotation for the rest of your life guaranteed. they all know about each other and are cool with each other. they all give it up whenever you want and also are willing for threesomes or even moresomes. you don't ever have to commit to any of them and they'll all be cool with it. if any of them leave the rotation they're instantly replaced with another dime.

option two a relationship with one woman only that leads to marriage

you gonna chose option two huh?

This nikka acting like we live in an Ancient Egyptian Concubine society

That's what's funny to me. These dudes acting like they're hugh heffner. Most of the dudes in here will not be pulling dimes when they're older. Hell, they're not pulling dimes now.

theres no benefit from serious relationships why get married so a chick can take half your bread no thank you I'm good I'd rather just mack lmfao

Why buy a car so if you get in an accident or it breaks down you have to pay a lot more for the repairs, I'd rather just walk

 

[winb83]

This nikka acting like we live in an Ancient Egyptian Concubine society

that ignores the answer to the question entirely. the point of the question is if most guys could have what they really wanted it more than likely ain't gonna be the single magnanimous relationship.

That's what's funny to me. These dudes acting like they're hugh heffner. Most of the dudes in here will not be pulling dimes when they're older. Hell, they're not pulling dimes now.

would the typical man rather have one chick of the caliber he's able to pull or many chicks of that caliber?

all i'm saying is the typical man is pressured into a relationship then marriage its not something he sets out to get nor something deep down he really wants. doesn't matter if its with a dime or a nickel. the whole commitment relationship marriage game is something women demand of him.

 

[jking23258]

You like having sex with a girl, you like spending time with that girl and form a close emotional friendship (or vice-versa), you don't want to be with anybody else, you don't want her to be with anybody else. That's why people go into relationships. It's simple nikkas

This nikka acting like we live in an Ancient Egyptian Concubine society




deff

Why buy a car so if you get in an accident or it breaks down you have to pay a lot more for the repairs, I'd rather just walk

 

[Grams]

that ignores the answer to the question entirely. the point of the question is if most guys could have what they really wanted it more than likely ain't gonna be the single magnanimous relationship.

If I can have what I really wanted I'd be a trillionaire and wouldn't have to go to school or work. How do you know guys wouldn't that want that one woman? Carmelo chose LaLa instead of "30 dime pieces" what's the problem with that?

 

[JLova]

that ignores the answer to the question entirely. the point of the question is if most guys could have what they really wanted it more than likely ain't gonna be the single magnanimous relationship.


would the typical man rather have one chick of the caliber he's able to pull or many chicks of that caliber?

all i'm saying is the typical man is pressured into a relationship then marriage its not something he sets out to get nor something deep down he really wants. doesn't matter if its with a dime or a nickel. the whole commitment relationship marriage game is something women demand of him.

Like I said, marriage isn't for everyone. It's really that simple. Some men don't want to have the deal with the stresses of fukking random women.

 

[Arrogance.]

Not I, said the kid.

Of course, this is based on my present dating situation. I tend to meet cool chicks who I vibe with, but more on a friends level... Or females with attitudes/personalities I can't stand, but still want to bone based on sexual chemistry/attractiveness. So instead of forcing it I just do me.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i wouldn't want to be in one just to be in one. my desire to be in one comes from actually meeting a woman i would like to be in my life for some time and if she feels the same towards me as well. it's one thing to want a woman but for me, if the attraction isn't reciprocated at the same level, then my desire for more from her leaves. it's pointless to want (or pursue) something from someone else if they aren't willing to give it to you. that goes for both male and females. i find that's the difference between people and ideals. that's why pursuing ideals is always the best thing. pursuing people will put you in a bad place every time you do it. especially if it's a romantic pursuit, because that's a matter where we try to pursue an ideal through a person...

 

[Drew Wonder]

Being with a woman who is truly down for you is a beautiful thing. problem is a lot of people have been burned/hurt so much that they don't wanna take the risk.

I'm at a point where I'm not actively seeking a relationship. but if I find the right woman I'm not gonna pass up on the opportunity

 

[Yuzo]

Winb is a legend, his padawan braid was cut years ago and he's now a master Jedi.

No guy really wants to be in a relationship, girls are the ones who want to settle down, guys just want to smash with no strings attached.

you dont want to have a son?