Do Average Men Understand WHY Women Put Them On Child Support?

[A Woman's Opinion]

Because hos are lazy and even when they claim they want independence, still want a man to take care of them.[/QUOTE

Take care of "them" (the mother) or help with their child?

Most of these women aren't expecting their baby daddies who make maybe 30k a year to take care of them. (Especially if she's making the same thing) she just wants consistent help with the child.

 

[Brosef]

It's simple to me. If you too lazy to put a condom on before smashing someone that's not long term material, you deserve to

A) Pay child support for 18 years
B) Contract an STD

 

[Colicat]

Them = the ho

Also, for clarity;

Ho = ?

 

[Ol’Otis]

So ur saying child support was created to provide consistency

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

She couldn't tell this guy was a vagabond when he was hitting it? Or at least make him to use a condom?

Anyway, a court order does not mean consistent payments.

No. It doesn't always mean consistent payments, but it does put visitation in black and white, and it also helps with no longer having to argue and fight with the baby father about contribution.


Less stress for the mother.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Be careful who you have a child with and most of this will not be an issue.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

So ur saying child support was created to provide consistency

No. I'm saying most women file child support as a last resort for consistency, and because they are exhausted with arguing with the father.


Most women don't want to have to get the law involved. (Most women I know)

It's a last resort.

 

[bcrusaderw]

When you consider the stats for OOW children. Black men should be incredibly grateful.

 

[YoungFlyGentleman]

Also, for clarity;

Ho = ?

Ho = the ho

Are you remedial?

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

about as great a decision as not wanting children but engaging in an activity that creates children.

Yup both sides need to stop complaining and deal with the decision they made

It can be, but again... "Moving On" should not mean moving on from your emotional & financial responsibility to your child.



A lot of men break up with the child with the mother. OR their child comes second to them courting other women and running the streets.



You know what they say...


"dead beat fathers make the best stepfathers."

I've seen a lot of these situations too and it's not as one-sided as the man moving on and switching up all of a sudden. He usually had deadbeat traits way before a child was in the mix.

 

[Ol’Otis]

When you consider the stats for OOW children. Black men should be incredibly grateful.

Our women tend to protect us
Damn shame some black men refuse to do the same for them

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

She couldn't tell this guy was a vagabond when he was hitting it? Or at least make him to use a condom?

Sometimes, NO, you can't.


Men will lie to a girl, lead her on, and sale her a dream to sleep with a woman.

(You guys have joked about doing this on this very site, as well as the PICK UP ARTIST site.)


Then, when responsibility comes, or the woman believes him and is in love or wants commitment, respect, the man CHANGES and becomes someone else after LYING.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

It can be, but again... "Moving On" should not mean moving on from your emotional & financial responsibility to your child.



A lot of men break up with the child with the mother. OR their child comes second to them courting other women and running the streets.



You know what they say...


"dead beat fathers make the best stepfathers."

There's some bitterness in this statement, but moving on. I've never really seen a father just say goodbye to his kid before. Is it possible? Sure! Has it happened? Probably so. But I doubt it's the majority.

Your statement about men running the streets is an indictment on the people YOU may roll with. That's not the average for us black men. Figure I get that in there.

Lastly I never heard of that statement " dead beat fathers make the best step fathers". That statement doesn't make sense; unless I'm not catching it correctly.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Yup both sides need to stop complaining and deal with the decision they made

I've seen a lot of these situations too and it's not as one-sided as the man moving on and switching up all of a sudden. He usually had deadbeat traits way before a child was in the mix.

True.

 

[Cat piss martini]

Outside of alot of nikkas just being
dead beat peices of shyt who shouldnt be
allowed to stand up to piss let alone raise
a damn child.


1# new p*ssy.....a baby mama figures that
he cant spend much on the new p*ssy if she's
hitting them pockets threw child support.

2# jealousy.....you can hold your kid down 200%
but let her see you come up in any way.
(new car/crib/furniture etc.) she's gonna look
at it like youre gonna attract new p*ssy and
call in for a increase......

3# female friends/family members/pastor in her ear.
expect females to throw salt on you when youre not
with her......(not because youre a bad guy) but because
their dealing with bullshyt and misery loves company.
pastors will get their stabs in with the evenly yoked/
why wont he marry you/you should be giving more
to the collection plate bullshyt.

I can go on for fukkin ever.