The situations with those Jay Zs or anything like that...Tiger Woods blonde bytch..ultimate come up. Demanding six figures a month for child expenses? HAHAHAHAHA. I would of never ever let it go that far. No way this ever sees the light of court.
Do Average Men Understand WHY Women Put Them On Child Support?
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UncleTomFord15
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Supercoolmayo
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A Woman's Opinion
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I actually don't have kids. So there is no "bitterness" coming from me.
I am actually engaged to be married to a man (the date is June 4th.
) who is the single father of a child who has a dead beat MOTHER. (I have spoke about this before on this site if your familiar with me)"Deadbeat fathers make the best stepfathers..."
It is an old saying that women use for men who break up with their children, when they break up with the mother.
These men tend to "Move on" with another woman, and take better care of her kids (that aren't his), than he does his own children, because he's sleeping with their mother.
A Woman's Opinion
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Outside of alot of nikkas just being
dead beat peices of shyt who shouldnt be
allowed to stand up to piss let alone raise
a damn child.
1# new p*ssy.....a baby mama figures that
he cant spend much on the new p*ssy if she's
hitting them pockets threw child support.
2# jealousy.....you can hold your kid down 200%
but let her see you come up in any way.
(new car/crib/furniture etc.) she's gonna look
at it like youre gonna attract new p*ssy and
call in for a increase......
3# female friends/family members/pastor in her ear.
expect females to throw salt on you when youre not
with her......(not because youre a bad guy) but because
their dealing with bullshyt and misery loves company.
pastors will get their stabs in with the evenly yoked/
why wont he marry you/you should be giving more
to the collection plate bullshyt.
I can go on for fukkin ever.
I don't even know where to begin with all of this.
it absolutely does when the court is garnishing the father's wages, forcing him to pay what he owes off top, and putting a warrant out on him for failure to pay.
the other reason courts are so diligent about child support, is so single parent families have less of a reliance on the welfare system.
the financial care of a child should be the responsibility of the mother and father, not the mother and the government.
Cat piss martini
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I don't even know where to begin with all of this.
If you cant relate to my post props and good job.
what i posted is pure gospel with broads that i know.
they are damn jackals about their paper and the children
are a damn afterthought in the big scheme of things.
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
FOR CONSISTENCY.
Before we start this, I'm not talking about rich men like Diddy or Jayz.
I'm talking about regular men, who work regular 9-5 jobs (or don't work) who have children by women who are regular, and work 9-5 jobs too.
(You can't really "come up" off a man like this)
For most women with children by AVERAGE men, child support and court orders is their last resort with a man they cannot communicate with, or gain consistency from.
Example...
*The man Commits to a financial obligation (like buying the child a pair of shoes for school, or bringing diapers)
Then...
- Don't show up.
-curse the mother out anytime she ask for something.
-Shows up with HALF of what he promised.
-simply won't answer his phone when the mother calls out of fear she will ask for help.
HE'S NOT DEPENDABLE.
*He Commits to Keeping the child for a certain period of time.
Then...
-He Won't show up
-He keeps the child longer.
-bring the child back sooner.
-Or try to take the child on a weekend, or at a time when the mother has already made other plans with the child.
All of these things create stress/confusion for the mother who HAS to have a physical and financial routine in order to be the child's primary care giver.
Too many AVERAGE men seem to think baby mothers file child support for a check, or money to get their hair done. This is ridiculous.
Most women file for child support from AVERAGE men, not for a come up, but because the father is inconsistent, not dependable, and she is just flat out exhausted with arguing with him, and begging him for help.
It's a relief to let the judge set the child support and visitation. So she won't have to argue with him anymore. Even if the judge sets less than what she thought was fair. (I have seen this)
Men get very resentful after this. Why?
Let's presume what you're saying is correct.
If so:
- so a mother is allowed to have hardships in caring for her child, but the father isn't?
- please tell me you don't think the mother thinks she'll "never have to argue with him anymore" about fiduciary matters
by filing papers on him. I hope you don't think that.
- Baby mothers do "file child support for a check". The check is what they want "consistently", right?
Mr. Jiggy Fly
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I really didn't want to comment in that other thread about the child support argument, since that argument seemed disrespectful to the dead mother and child that the thread was initially about.....
But I did read some opinions in there that had me like
Example: there are women out there who apparently believe the baby daddy should be contributing to her rent/mortgage even if she has her own income
Look here: child support is for the fukking CHILD. All mothers should be able to provide their kids with the following three things without the baby daddy in the picture at all: basic food, basic clothes, and a stable roof over their head. Every other child-related expense else you can lean harder on the baby daddy for....and I'll even ease up off food and clothing for the following point:
If a woman can't AT LEAST provide her child with a stable roof over their head in some way without the baby daddy, and yet the baby daddy can do it without her.....then primary physical custody should automatically go to the father barring any SERIOUS, CONFIRMED doubt in his parenting skills or ability to keep a stable home environment....period. Once the mother gets back on her feet and is able to provide a home, have a judge review who should have custody....
If the man for whatever reason refuses to have primary physical custody, then let him sign some shyt in court reflecting that, in the process handing over custody to the mother....THEN you factor in a FAIR amount for rent in his child support so mother and child can have a place to live, since his stink ass won't man up and share his home with the child despite having the resources
But ain't no damn way a man should automatically be working and paying for his own home AND the baby mama's home....y'all done lost y'all damn minds
But I did read some opinions in there that had me like
Example: there are women out there who apparently believe the baby daddy should be contributing to her rent/mortgage even if she has her own income
Look here: child support is for the fukking CHILD. All mothers should be able to provide their kids with the following three things without the baby daddy in the picture at all: basic food, basic clothes, and a stable roof over their head. Every other child-related expense else you can lean harder on the baby daddy for....and I'll even ease up off food and clothing for the following point:
If a woman can't AT LEAST provide her child with a stable roof over their head in some way without the baby daddy, and yet the baby daddy can do it without her.....then primary physical custody should automatically go to the father barring any SERIOUS, CONFIRMED doubt in his parenting skills or ability to keep a stable home environment....period. Once the mother gets back on her feet and is able to provide a home, have a judge review who should have custody....
If the man for whatever reason refuses to have primary physical custody, then let him sign some shyt in court reflecting that, in the process handing over custody to the mother....THEN you factor in a FAIR amount for rent in his child support so mother and child can have a place to live, since his stink ass won't man up and share his home with the child despite having the resources
But ain't no damn way a man should automatically be working and paying for his own home AND the baby mama's home....y'all done lost y'all damn minds
BlackManLiveFromLondon
New God
Thats what Im saying
Talkin about they want consistency ?????
Wanting consistency from a man who wants nothing to do with you???
They file because they want a check. They want money. Its as simple as that
These aren't shots, just facts. This aint me calling any woman a gold digger but it is what it is.
Oh yeah, Im having problems with the father of my child - lemme put him on child support
that'll fix things 
A Woman's Opinion
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A Woman's Opinion
All Star
I really didn't want to comment in that other thread about the child support argument, since that argument seemed disrespectful to the dead mother and child that the thread was initially about.....
But I did read some opinions in there that had me like
Example: there are women out there who apparently believe the baby daddy should be contributing to her rent/mortgage even if she has her own income
Look here: child support is for the fukking CHILD. All mothers should be able to provide their kids with the following three things without the baby daddy in the picture at all: basic food, basic clothes, and a stable roof over their head. Every other child-related expense else you can lean harder on the baby daddy for....and I'll even ease up off food and clothing for the following point:
If a woman can't AT LEAST provide her child with a stable roof over their head in some way without the baby daddy, and yet the baby daddy can do it without her.....then primary physical custody should automatically go to the father barring any SERIOUS, CONFIRMED doubt in his parenting skills or ability to keep a stable home environment....period. Once the mother gets back on her feet and is able to provide a home, have a judge review who should have custody....
If the man for whatever reason refuses to have primary physical custody, then let him sign some shyt in court reflecting that, in the process handing over custody to the mother....THEN you factor in a FAIR amount for rent in his child support so mother and child can have a place to live, since his stink ass won't man up and share his home with the child despite having the resources
But ain't no damn way a man should automatically be working and paying for his own home AND the baby mama's home....y'all done lost y'all damn minds
Pure ignorance.
Mr. Jiggy Fly
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A Woman's Opinion
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Thats what Im saying
Talkin about they want consistency ?????
Wanting consistency from a man who wants nothing to do with you???
They file because they want a check. They want money. Its as simple as that
These aren't shots, just facts. This aint me calling any woman a gold digger but it is what it is.
Oh yeah, Im having problems with the father of my child - lemme put him on child support
THEY WANT A CHECK, TO HELP SUPPORT THEIR CHILD.
A CHECK TO HELP WITH THE KID.
A WOMAN HAS A RIGHT TO WAJT CONSISTENCY FROM HER CHILDS FATHER.
SHE HAS TO CONSISTENLY GET THAT CHILD UP ABDCTO SCHOOL EVERY DAY.
FEED THE CHILD DAILY.
DO HOMEWORK.
UNFORSEEN EXPENSES.
BILLS ARE HIGHER WHEN YOU HAVE A CHILD.
YES, SHE WANTS A CHECK TO HELP WITH A CHILD.
SHES WRONG FOR THAT?
