Do Average Men Understand WHY Women Put Them On Child Support?

[360dagod]

A good portion of women only put nikkas on child support after they get their feelings hurt..

Then they use the child as collateral...

Also if a nikka on the streets getting money, putting him on child support is pretty much a fukk u anyways..If he was in the street life why you were involved, you already knew what time it was...

I know quite a few single mothers and they admit(in their own way) they fukked with aint shyt nikkas and deal with the consequences..
They dont ask the baby father for anything and get their hustle on...

Also if a nikka is working and doing the best that he can, putting a nikka on child support is gonna leave the nikka pockets empty to the point where he says fukk the job...But if you knew the nikka was barely making it, then you knew what time it was...

In saying that, there should be child support in place...But there are many variables to the story...

One of my barbers takes care of his son and dosent even bother with the BM...Yet the Bm still tries and scheme from time to time to somehow get some bread for her while using the son...

Once again, yes there should be child support in place, but every story is different and should be treated as such

 

[QuavoFlow]

regular DUMB nikkaz dont know how to work the system

my bm begging to get back together. thanks to my lawyer and my research i can easily take her to court RIGHT NOW and get full custody with the shyt i got on her

 

[skokiaan]

"Bu Bu but I Iz dA SCRoNG InDePENDENT WimiNz N dONT NEeDz dA MANz"

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

because they want a new weave

 

[Another Man]

Great decision having a baby with a man who isn't consistent eh

The types of women who let loser ass nikkas bust in em tend to never have any self accountability. They seem to never give a shyt about any of dude's negative character traits until after they get knocked up.

 

[desjardins]

my bm begging to get back together. thanks to my lawyer and my research i can easily take her to court RIGHT NOW and get full custody with the shyt i got on her

Uh so why don't you?

You got dirt on your BM that's so bad she would lose her kid yet you still let her raise your kid?

This exactly what I'm talking about. Nikkas want it both ways, they don't want to pay child support AND don't want sole responsibility of raising the kid
Yet bytches supposed to be left holding the bag after taking the L of pushing your offspring out they dusty puzzy ?

NOPE....government got a solution for that

 

[QuavoFlow]

Uh so why don't you?

You got dirt on your BM that's so bad she would lose her kid yet you still let her raise your kid?

This exactly what I'm talking about. Nikkas want it both ways, they don't want to pay child support AND don't want sole responsibility of raising the kid
Yet bytches supposed to be left holding the bag after taking the L of pushing your offspring out they dusty puzzy ?

NOPE....government got a solution for that

my daughter is living with me now you fukkin idiot

she wanted to put up a fight when i said i was moving her in with me and i shut her down simple as that

 

[Rawtid]

Great decision having a baby with a man who isn't consistent eh

I bet he was consistently over there getting the p*ssy though. Maybe she just found out too late.

 

[Youngblood Priest]

I could go the fukk in, but I won't.

 

[desjardins]

my daughter is living with me now you fukkin idiot

she wanted to put up a fight when i said i was moving her in with me and i shut her down simple as that

I don't believe you, but ain't no way for me to disprove. Unless you're married sole custody goes to the mother in every state. So you just took her child and strong armed her out of custody without a hearing cause she too scared.

k, nikka


either she a trifling bytch who will give her kid up without a fight or you lying
either way a L , but props on having ur kid brother

 

[360dagod]

The types of women who let loser ass nikkas bust in em tend to never have any self accountability. They seem to never give a shyt about any of dude's negative character traits until after they get knocked up.

All the women that i know are guilty of this always ask themselves what were they thinking

One of the single mother chicks broke it down to me that basically she thought she was the shyt after a certain age and ran wild on the streets...Her mother and Father were both in her life, but she said basically after a certain age, you couldn't tell her nothing...

Most of these women come from big families where they are seeing negative influences from a younger age without proper attention being paid to them or from a smaller family where the main parent is basically running the streets themselves

They then get caught up in the streets and pay a hefty price..

By the time they hit 30, it all comes together for them....But the market is very much thinned....

A nikka with no kids just trying to be friends and hit whenever possible

The only thing that's really left are nikkas in the same predicament as them

But at that point, she belongs to the game

And some of them are actually not hoes...they just made a couple of crucial mistakes...And it changed the trajectory of their mindset to the point where they will prolly never have a monogamous relationship again

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

I RESPECT YOU FOR BEING HONEST RIGHT NOW, EVEN THOUGH A LOT OF THESE GUYS ARE PLAYING STUPID RIGHT NOW.


I ALSO APPRECIATE YOU NOT INVOLVING CHILDREN.

Yeah my uncle said some great shyt a few year back with all of the OOW children running around by the young adults

"Man I don't know what y'all boys be doing. You can go out and do what you do but YOU AINT GOT TO BRING HOME NO BABY"

I'm sitting there like

 

[QuavoFlow]

I don't believe you, but ain't no way for me to disprove. Unless you're married sole custody goes to the mother in every state. So you just took her child and strong armed her out of custody without a hearing cause she too scared.

k, nikka

yea i did nikka don't care what you believe or not

got family with degrees and careers in law one piece of information and she gets 2 years minimum

 

[Mr. Jiggy Fly]

The paragraph itself is highlighted ignorance. Why should one parent alone be solely responsible for feeding and housing a child, with no help from the other parent?


Do you know how much a child eats? What formula cost? Diapers? How your one bedroom apartment may have to become a two bedroom? (Rent) bills are higher with kids running around using water and electric. Putting more gas in your car, to drive the kid to school. Pay for schooling expenses. Child care. UNFORSEEN expenses.

Have you ever had to take care of a child every day? Lol



No, one parent should not be solely responsible for I highlighted in your post. The father SHOULD contribute financially to the child's daily eating and extra curricular activities.

First of all, I didn't suggest all the kid's food should only be paid for by the mother. I said the mother should be in a financial position where if she had to do it herself (a lot are in this situation), she could at least feed the kid basic-ass food so that the kid can, you know.....continue being alive and shyt. Plenty of single mothers out there doing that very thing, struggling with kids, little food and no child support but somehow they still doing it....yet you think that shouldn't be a requirement for the mother?

Secondly, there is no way in hell a man should automatically be expected to pay ANYTHING for rent/home expenses like the water and electric bill. That is the woman's home and the woman's problem. What, you expect the nikka to pay for your furniture and car note, too? Let him pay for all your expensive-ass clothes/shoes too, since mama can't be naked when taking the kids to school? Where the fukk does the foolishness end?

If a mother can't at least....my God, at fukking LEAST....contribute her own damn money to pay for her own home/rent/water/electricity....then she has no business having custody of ANY kid, let alone her own

Now diapers, formula, school expenses, half amount of groceries which would be designated FOR THE KID (not all the damn groceries ), medical expenses FOR THE KID, extra clothes FOR THE KID, a little extra gas money for transportation FOR THE KID....all are fair requests since they're....wait for it........wait for it....FOR THE GODDAMN KID

Do you realize there are women out there paying child support, too? Are you saying those women should pay for their baby daddies' rent/water/electricity on top of everything else, including their own bills at their own home......when the child is living with a grown-ass man who can work and at least pay that shyt, instead of sitting on their ass and letting the mother pay for every damn thing? NOW do you get it?

The custodial parent has to pay for SOMETHING exclusively. Jesus Christ.....ladies, child support is not for all YOUR bills and expenses. When will you learn

 

[bcrusaderw]

It seems like all you have is stats and not real life examples, I wonder why?

Are you even around black men or black people in general?

The average person knows max 150 people at any given time. Let's be crazy, and say that I knew 150 different people every single day of my life, and let's be even more crazy and say that they were all black. The life expectancy for an American black woman is 78 years. That means that in my lifetime I'd know 4,273,425 black people. That's slightly more than 10% of the American black population. As that scenario is highly unlikely, and the average person will only know a few thousand people (at least well enough to ascertain the status of their children and everything involving them) I will continue to use data that describes ALL of the situations surrounding people and their children.