Sk3ptical
alhamdulillah
says the thotOf course it's gibberish to a moron.
Do Average Men Understand WHY Women Put Them On Child Support?
- Thread starter A Woman's Opinion
- Start date
DarkHorse23
Banned
all that gibberish.. man shut the fukk up
@bcrusaderw likes to hear herself talk
at all those phony BS numbers.
Sk3ptical
alhamdulillah
I used fair because you used fair.
So if the 2 parties either can't agree upon what the problem is
Or what would be the appropriate solution
What happens then?
We can word this however way you like. We can talk about fair we can say resolved we can talk about determining what the problem is...
What happens when the 2 parties cannot come to some form of agreement?
DarkHorse23
Banned
@bcrusaderw need to like this dikk in her mouth
Are you caucasian?
@bcrusaderw p*ssy is a black dikk free zone.
Sk3ptical
alhamdulillah
i'm black but i know how them wenches roll
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
This is not about verbiage...my point is, these types of things have to be handled on a case-by-case basis, because all cases are different.
Therefore - it is recklessly irresponsible for @A Woman's Opinion to (under the guise of speaking for all women) to in effect allege that
"men get put on child support by women overall because of ______."
@bcrusaderw need to like this dikk in her mouth
You two should fukk. With the dikkriding that just happened here it should be fun and easy for you two.i'm black but i know how them wenches roll
Sk3ptical
alhamdulillah
I've got that covered, but thanks for your concern.nah i only give females this dikk
u need a real nikka to take your virginity tho
Sk3ptical
alhamdulillah
your dildo that u use on yourself is nothing like my dikk tho
I don't own dildos, but I can almost guarantee that fake plastic beats you in every way.your dildo that u use on yourself is nothing like my dikk tho
By the way you've called me a thot and referred to my virginity all in this very thread. How can both be true? 
Sk3ptical
alhamdulillah
falseI don't own dildos, but I can almost guarantee that fake plastic beats you in every way.
and i call every bytch a thot because i'm that nikka and they love it when i call them names
Oh I agree with you that there are certainly different situations and ideally different factors that should be taken into account.
Unfortunately if two people don't agree on what those case by case factors are or their importance there won t be an agreement,
If there's no agreement then a 3rd party steps in. The 3rd party has one set of guidelines for everyone. Does it take into account every families special circumstances? No. However it is uniform.
I am sure different people have different motives for pursuing a legal order of child support. Sometimes the person who files has no option due to recieving government aid. Sometimes it's because the relationship has soured in some way.
And yes
Sometimes it is absolutely for structure.
If both parties adhere to the court order there is more structure for mom dad and baby.
Even though it doesn't seem that way to those of you who are thinking of just $$ I advise all unmarried men to head right down to the courthouse and file on yourself from day 1.
Establish paternity legally if you haven't already. You're entitled to request a dna test do so.
Get custody set up. Get visitation set up. Get cs set up.
These fly by night handshake agreements with your baby mama or ex will only fukk you in the end. Have an agreement and give her cash every week? It's not court ordered? That's a gift.
On top of that depending on the state she can go back 3 years or any number of years no matter how much you "gifted" (and no your credit card statements where you bought pampers and sneakers and a stroller don't count either)
Is there a guarantee the non custodial parent will adhere any court order? No.
Ironically visitation rights are completely independent of cs payment and are to the benefit of the NON custodial parent.
Whether you pay your support or not you cannot be denied your visitation.
Don't want to take your visitation? That's fine too.
A custodial parent who denies visitation is the strongest way that the non custodial parent can gain more or total custody.
No more baby mamma saying you can't take little Malcolm this weekend cause she saw what that other chick posted on your Facebook page. If she does call the police with your visitation order in hand.
Document it whenever she tries to interfere with your visitation time.
Drag her ass right back to court.
No she can't just willy nilly relocate to Atlanta with her new boo and take your child with no input from you.
All of these things are benefits to the non custodial parent of having an actual court order.
It's hard to get 2 people to agree to anything completely.
The family court system is not perfect, there are improvements needed
For now, it's what we have.
You can try to use the exsist system to your best advantage or howl at the moon of the unfairness of it all
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
I'm gonna stop you here, madam.
In this matter, the 3rd party in question doesn't "step in",
that third party is PULLED IN by one of the two parties.
Follow me now...the question this thread title asks is essentially
"Why does that party PULL IN the third party?"
The threadstarter says it's for one particular reason. I don't think that is true.
Do you?
