Do the men on here agree with this quote? (why or why not?)

[Ooh Marty]

There is an ongoing debate about this . Some are saying that you shouldn't treat the many women you encounter like crap just because she isn't "the one" whereas others are saying that a man can't help who he takes serious and fall for .

Do you guys agree ? If so then why? If you disagree , explain.

 

[Ooh Marty]

Bump

 

[Ashley Banks]

A man can't help who he takes serious and who he falls for? So if you dont fall for someone you have no ither choice but to treat them like shyt?

If a dude treats you like shyt, he ain't shyt. There's no other way around it. He's just a horrible person.

 

[InDePickWest]

Nope. My brother had to be held down recently when his girl left him. We all thought they were going to get married. He cheated on her and she left. He loved her so much but a thot is a thot regardless of where his heart is.

nikkas lose the one that got away everyday being hoes.

Quote is Tumblr armchair logic.

 

[Ooh Marty]

I know how the ladies feel already

I want to hear the men side tho

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

If I date you I'll treat you with respect; I've never treated a female like Shyt before. Now If I Love you I'll go the extra mile, Trust me you'll know the difference. To be honest like most of us guys here we can figure this ( who's legit wifey) out pretty quickly.

 

[Neuromancer]

I guess since these men respond the rest of us don't have to.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

A man is going to do right for the woman he has to do right for.
If I put you through some bullshyt and you still with me, Imma keep up the bullshyt

nikkas know this and that's why we can treat the woman that ain't "the one" however we want.
She fell for you first. Once you realize that, shyt is a wrap.

 

[InDePickWest]

Just realized you asked nikkas and two women answered

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

no clear cut answer
depends on the situation

i had some chicks in the past i was just smashing and wasnt into or really that attracted to
some of them knew the deal and was cool
so we actually had a good time when we kicked it

others kept trying to push it to something else like an actual relationship
trying to get me to actually go on dates and shyt
and it irritated me so much that i was mean as fukk to them
and instead of leaving me the fukk alone
they wanted to fukk with me more

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Nah, some dudes are just going to be scumbags no matter what. Sounds like an idiot made this up.

 

[Donald J Trump]

I would amend it by adding "baby girl you not woman enough to be done right by"...

 

[Ooh Marty]

A man is going to do right for the woman he has to do right for.
If I put you through some bullshyt and you still with me, Imma keep up the bullshyt

nikkas know this and that's why we can treat the woman that ain't "the one" however we want.
She fell for you first. Once you realize that, shyt is a wrap.

Most women might not agree but this is gospel

I've been on both sides of this.

I let a man run over me and he kept doing it. Until I didn't have any tears left (and smarten up) and then I left him . (He's engaged now)

 

[Penny 95]

No, I disagree. If you're going to date someone you should do right by them regardless of if they're "the one" or not. Treat people how you want to be treated. If you don't want to be with someone you shouldn't use it as an excuse or an opportunity to treat them wrong. It's sad that we live in an era that adults think its cool to mistreat people, that is crazy.

 

[Astroslik]

A man can't help who he takes serious and who he falls for? So if you dont fall for someone you have no ither choice but to treat them like shyt?

If a dude treats you like shyt, he ain't shyt. There's no other way around it. He's just a horrible person.

are you a male?