Do women actually like being treated like shyt or is it just a myth?

HabitualChiller

Enjoying a Long Night of Solace✌
Supporter
Joined
Oct 27, 2016
Messages
17,309
Reputation
4,180
Daps
54,188
Reppin
Somewhere on an Xbox
I didn't know you could type white or black. I work in a corporate environment so my writing style is largely based on how I write for work.

As far as maturity, I don't know what I'm supposed to say/do to sound more mature. I'm just providing my take on the issue. IMO, the whole women looking to be treated like crap is false. They just will accept it from a guy who has more going for him (looks/money/social skills/style), and a guy who has less of those attributes, but wants to give her the world, won't get the time of day.

I've seen this throughout my life and my age has actually given me a better perspective on this than if I was a college kid. In college the thought was that actual shi**y treatment actually caused the girl, to be attracted to you. Now that I've seen a lot more in my life, I've seen that it isn't a direct cause of attraction but just a byproduct of a woman going for the highest value dude she can get.

You get these big girls/undesirables throwing it at you, putting themselves in a position to be clowned by you, knowing that at best they will get sporadic D, whenever you need to bust a nut. But you also know fat/ugly guys that actually think they are sexy and want to take them out on real dates, but the girls are ignoring those guys because they want to get with you. This happens on a variety of levels, and it goes on until women realize that they may have to make concessions when it comes to the guy they want, which may never happen. There's a plethora of women, that will take any kind of treatment to be with a good looking successful man. And if that means they have to deal with side pieces, or be a side piece, then so be it.
:wow:
I think you niqqas are slightly misguided.

The treating them like shyt thing only kicks in when you are fukcing them like G-d fukced Mary (that was almost too vulgar for me).

Think about it. A fat stupid lookin bish with an attitude is just sad. You ignore the bish after one time of her slightly annoying you. A beautiful bish with the same attitude gets the permanent benefit of the doubt. The attractive woman would need to pull a knife on a niqqa to turn him off.

So scale that up to bedroom games and viola. If you are just okay in the sack to her, try that bullshyt if you want.

Women only put up with this treatment from a guy that fukcs them better than they ever been fukced.

Which is weird. No matter how good the sex is, if a bish crosses me, I leave her alone. Women hold on to good dikc for dear life.
Is it possible to have good dikk if you're only 6 inches(:dame:)?
 

Turbulent

Superstar
Joined
May 6, 2012
Messages
18,534
Reputation
4,448
Daps
57,424
Reppin
NULL
My brother has a girl that he treats like shyt, doesn't do shyt for and yet, she is paying his rent, car note and gives him whatever he wants. I'm just like:mindblown: because I treat women nice and still have to go out of my way to pull women and even then they don't do shyt for me.:martin:
it's because your brother fukks with chicks that like him more than he likes them while you fukk with chicks who you like more than they like you.
 

Ghost Utmost

The Soul of the Internet
Supporter
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
20,430
Reputation
8,829
Daps
74,423
Reppin
the Aether
:wow:

Is it possible to have good dikk if you're only 6 inches(:dame:)?

The G Spot is about 4 inches in.

Ever watch porn where the woman uses a dildo. They rarely have a big ass dildo unless it's for dramatic purposes. They usually just work those first few inches of the dildo.

So yeah. It's all about fit. Some women need huge dikcs and some don't like them.
 

Mowgli

Veteran
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
104,332
Reputation
14,059
Daps
246,368
My brother has a girl that he treats like shyt, doesn't do shyt for and yet, she is paying his rent, car note and gives him whatever he wants. I'm just like:mindblown: because I treat women nice and still have to go out of my way to pull women and even then they don't do shyt for me.:martin:

The fukked up thing about it is that he has his own money so he's just been saving. Dude has a nice ass job and she's so sprung that she will do anything for him. Ima keep being nice, but I'm not gonna go out of my way to do shyt for a girl.

I'm not a fake nice guy btw(saw a thread on that topic)
It's a woman's nature to test you and to try to wrestle power from you.

This is done like a chisel.

Tink
Tink
Tink
Tink

The man you are when you first start dating usually isn't the man you become after 5 years with someone.

If you don't notice this bytch found a crack in your skull and is tapping away at it you won't even notice you've been lonbotimized.

Treated like shyt, not really I'd say just fair.

If she's full of shyt she needs to know.

If she's talking shyt she needs a good rebuttal

If she's talking to much shyt she needs to be checked. EXAMPLE: shut the fukk up.

She doesn't need to be making all the decisions

She needs to be able to take your advice

If not she's going to start being subtly disrespectful and it could, depending on the female get out of hand and leave you as a spineless shell of yourself.

She might think this is how it should be. Her being fat and the boss and u being her peon just because y'all have kids but ironically this is where many relationships fail

Summary

If she don't

Cook
Clean
Obey
And carry herself like a a non whore ur good money but when she begins to stop

Cooking
Cleaning
Obeying
And dresses like a whore you're in trouble.

Part of the reason y'all are failures with women now is because you can't get or don't want women who

Cook
Clean
Obey

And every man who had these things from his woman, is happy.
 
Last edited:

Solo ✧✦✧

King of the eXoticals. "FIRsT and LAst wARNiNg"
Joined
Dec 2, 2014
Messages
7,263
Reputation
1,170
Daps
35,307
Some do and some don't. I don't care for women that respond well to negative treatment so I don't know much about how they respond to being treated like that. I don't act like that but there are women that won't put up with that "a$$hole" treatment.

Acting like that is corny if you're not that type of guy. It's possible to show love and kindness in a relationship without being screwed over eventually and can lead to a much better relationship for both involved. That type of relationship with one person being an "a$$hole" to the other sounds like an empty relationship to me.
 

Zpektro

Pro
Joined
Jan 16, 2017
Messages
473
Reputation
20
Daps
802
Reppin
Nw ldn
Beech is isecure with mental instability once he show deep emotions towards her she'll dump him and look for another challenge. If you gotta play bad to get them then you gotta keep your act up.
 

StickStickly

Superstar
Joined
Nov 13, 2013
Messages
6,858
Reputation
1,641
Daps
19,957
I wouldn't say "treated like shyt," but they don't respond well to being worshiped. If you live your life by your own pace the pieces that are meant to fit, find a way to fit.
Being worshipped feels fake mainly because it's like the guy sees you as a doll or prize whose personality is a mix of all the women he idolized in the past. Women want to be treated like people. We know we are flawed and don't want you to think that flaws are unnatural, it seems naive and selfish to expect a person to be on a pedestal all the time because the pedestal serves you not her. (i.e. Fit your standards). Another thing about men who idolize women is that they seem to overcompensate and are hiding something about their personality. It feels like manipulation if he's bombing you with all these good things so you won't see a side he thinks you won't like. It's like insecurity "imma buy her chocolates everyday so she won't have a reason to dislike me". Once they get in their first legitimate argument he'll be like "but I bought you chocolates everyday!"

Let's say a woman tells you that you are the most perfect man. She does shyt for you and writes on your fb page that she loves you twice a day. She does all the things that she's supposed to do for a perfect man. Then one day you lose your job, and she stops thinking you're so perfect. Next you gain some weight or lose your car and you become a loser in her eyes. She's not allowing you to be a human. You were an object to fit her needs to find perfection to cover her own understanding of the world.
 

GrindMode

All Star
Joined
Feb 24, 2017
Messages
4,428
Reputation
-2,510
Daps
11,304
If you not laying wood like a log cabin on em that a$$hole shyt won't last long you gotta dikkmatize em first. Females like direction and decisiveness. An a$$hole personality is unwaivering so it's pretty much lite work. This doesn't go for all females though some women's introduction to relationships was dysfunctional due to the dudes her mom brought in and out of the house(I'm talking about crazy dudes). So some of think that's actually how relationships are supposed play out.
LISTEN TO THIS MAN HE GETTING bytchES
 

King Poetic

God’s Favorite Grandson
Supporter
Joined
Feb 15, 2013
Messages
106,538
Reputation
22,655
Daps
518,781
Reppin
Los Angeles County, California
if they ghetto that's all they know that they are a piece of shyt cause they dealing with shytty a$$hole nikkas 90% of the time ....

a lot of them escape that shyt after kids or after 35 when they see fellow co workers who have good quality men and actually do things in life besides the typical being treated like shyt hoes are being treated by leroy
 

Larry Lambo

Superstar
Joined
Sep 5, 2015
Messages
8,814
Reputation
1,720
Daps
30,680
Being worshipped feels fake mainly because it's like the guy sees you as a doll or prize whose personality is a mix of all the women he idolized in the past. Women want to be treated like people. We know we are flawed and don't want you to think that flaws are unnatural, it seems naive and selfish to expect a person to be on a pedestal all the time because the pedestal serves you not her. (i.e. Fit your standards). Another thing about men who idolize women is that they seem to overcompensate and are hiding something about their personality. It feels like manipulation if he's bombing you with all these good things so you won't see a side he thinks you won't like. It's like insecurity "imma buy her chocolates everyday so she won't have a reason to dislike me". Once they get in their first legitimate argument he'll be like "but I bought you chocolates everyday!"

Let's say a woman tells you that you are the most perfect man. She does shyt for you and writes on your fb page that she loves you twice a day. She does all the things that she's supposed to do for a perfect man. Then one day you lose your job, and she stops thinking you're so perfect. Next you gain some weight or lose your car and you become a loser in her eyes. She's not allowing you to be a human. You were an object to fit her needs to find perfection to cover her own understanding of the world.

The difference is that most men would just tell the chick that she's going too hard, and to take things slow. He wouldn't evaluate her dating worthiness on the fact that she may have put him on a pedestal early on. He evaluates her on who she is, and if she's being a little extra, then he makes an attempt to at least let her know the issue and see if she can adjust

Whereas, when a woman is in the scenario, dude is in the bushes or saved in their phone as "free meals". From what I see, woman's attraction is so finicky (at least when they have a ton of options) so they can disregard a dude if he engages in any behavior that she doesn't find appealing, even if one simple conversation would eliminate the behavior.
 

Londilon

Superstar
Joined
Dec 8, 2012
Messages
12,563
Reputation
1,325
Daps
45,755
Reppin
NULL
not all women think or like the same so if you want to make things work with a woman you have to actually communicate, observe, and get to know the woman before you make assumptions. Women are just like men in the fact that they are individuals, they have brains, and personalities, likes and dislikes, etc. While one woman might like being treated like shyt, another woman will leave your ass and never look back if you treat her like shyt. Be observant.
 
Joined
Mar 23, 2013
Messages
12,988
Reputation
2,393
Daps
31,360
Before I watch this.
are there any pix of his so called hitlist he dogged and if so what do these females look like.


Art Barr



No he talks about what turns a man into dog. It's a good video has a ton of good videos thoe.
 
Top