Do you ever truly get over your first love?

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:yeshrug:I don't think so. I don't think about her much, and definitely not with the same adoration/disgust I did at one point, but literally everything that went down
with us has changed me as a person, so whether I actively love her or not, her essence is all over everything I do to this day. I think the only person who has had
a greater effect on my life is my mother.
 

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If you think you're lonely now, ohhh girl...
No. :wow:

The first love is like discovering a whole new universe with infinite dimensions and possibilities. After that love ends you're "self-aware." You're mindful that the new dimension has some really beautiful planets that seem inviting and nourishing, but internally they're falling to pieces and that the terrain hides monsters that wait to destroy you. Basically, in the back of your mind you know things fall apart. You can't go back to being unaware.

Dream said it best:

 
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i think about my ex everyday. its been 4 years.

but its weird, i dont "miss her". when i see her at mutual friends house and what not, shes not the person i loved. i miss what we had but that person doesnt exist anymore.

its like a loved one dying, imo.
everyday bruh...
 

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No. :wow:

The first love is like discovering a whole new universe with infinite dimensions and possibilities. After that love ends you're "self-aware." You're mindful that the new dimension has some really beautiful planets that seem inviting and nourishing, but internally is falling to pieces and that the terrain hides monsters that wait to destroy you. Basically, in the back of your mind you know things fall apart. You can't go back to be unaware.

Dream said it best:



:gucci:
 

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Sadly I don’t think so that’s why I’m scared to date anymore. Either I have to deal with women who are still caught up with their ex, or I’m dating women that remind me of mine.

I Was always taught people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Tough to move on when you feel that the lifetime passed.
 
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