Do You Feel Former Thots/Ho's Deserve Happiness?

[Youseenmywork]

Yep just as much as men like Kent deserve love and happiness.

Double standard alert.

After man that has that much hatred for women he is the problem. Men like that need to swallow the redpill. It make me wonder was he raised by a single mother ?

 

[SheWantTheD]

And this breh is were I HAVE to disagree. I was watching fox news at my parents house and they were saying that the AVERAGE man sleeps with 7 women in his lifetime before he gets married or something along those lines. I don't know about you but I'm usually listening to what somebody is not saying when they are speaking. When that was said my first thought was its more BETA males in the country than ALPHAS men. Which probably why the country has gone to shyt cause it's a bunch of weak nikka leading.

This also made me think like this whole double standard men do whatever and a women can't is BS. First women can have sex whenever were ever they can just give vagina out. If a man sleeps with 9 beautiful women in a week trust that took a SKILL LEVEL to do that . We're as a women can can sleep with 50 nikka in a month if she wanted to. It would be like opening up a bag of chips and eating get them one at a time..it's not impressive. Men work years on themselves to achieve a ceartin attractiveness that women for better or for worse have been blessed with and when they walk in a room Thierry beauty IS the wild card.

It usually the alpha males that's sleeping with all the beautiful women. The beta nikka just happen to get the left overs as sad as that sounds but to them they have came up. Women don't have the skill level on how to KEEP a man which is what they should be learning ...just like most guys don't have the skill level to get the women that he wants...it only a select few that do.

If we're being honest me don't really hit there stride until about 30. That why they can reach back and get the women in there 20s who they once couldn't get. No women wants to have 50-100 guys in and out of her body. If a women says this she is lying. I believe in nature any animal that operates outside of its nature bad things are sure to come. Men have been and will always be hunter gathers.

That alpha beta stuff is BS bro. The men that are the most successful with women have the tangibles that they were born with (looks, height, stature/build) and worked for (wealth, status, charisma, swag). The jocks that are naturally more athletic and bigger will obviously attract more women then skinny dudes.

Part of it is also programming, wherein a bunch of men are simps and let women boss and control them. I don't place my worth as a man on how many women I can get in bed, more so what I can create and offer this world for the better. Being able to raise my children correctly and provide for/take care of my family. That's where I hold my worth as a man.

Getting a lot of woman is a skill the vast majority of men have to work on. You think these so-called alpha dudes had all those qualities out of the womb or with their first few girlfriends? Hell no.

 

[Youseenmywork]

What are you talking about? In your post that I replied to you were basically saying that people don't change unless forced to and I told you that that isn't always the case. Where's the judgment here? Where in this thread have I judged anyone and demeaned them for their actions good or bad? This isn't even the topic of the thread. The thread is if people feel people who led sexually promiscuous lifestyles in the past deserve happiness with people who haven't.

I even said myself that I don't wish anyone unhappiness and I don't care who marries them, but I myself wouldn't. I completely understand everyone is at a certain place in their lives, and most if not all people want to do better on some level.

Women as long don't get that every guy isn't BUILT to deal with "recovering" hoes. Just like I have always said single mother need love also just not from me. I'm not built to deal with a single mother. I know who I am internally is why I say this. I know what I'm capable of and I know what I'm not capable of. She just dosent seem to get that.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

No. Straight NO.

 

[Youseenmywork]

That alpha beta stuff is BS bro. The men that are the most successful with women have the tangibles that they were born with (looks, height, stature/build) and worked for (wealth, status, charisma, swag). The jocks that are naturally more athletic and bigger will obviously attract more women then skinny dudes.

Part of it is also programming, wherein a bunch of men are simps and let women boss and control them. I don't place my worth as a man on how many women I can get in bed, more so what I can create and offer this world for the better. Being able to raise my children correctly and provide for/take care of my family. That's where I hold my worth as a man.

Getting a lot of woman is a skill the vast majority of men have to work on. You think these so-called alpha dudes had all those qualities out of the womb or with their first few girlfriends? Hell no.

.....and I'm saying to you it can be LEARNED. That confidences from being a Renaissance man leakes in to other areas of there life's and it makes them want to address why aren't they good with women. No I don't think a guy just rolls out of bed and know HOW to talk to women. It's learned one way or another. Trail and error. I never said that mans value is based on how many women he has beded we both know it's other things that make a man breh. We talking women thoe

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I wouldn't wife them; however I'm not going to knock the next man that does. Your business is your business.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

If a man deserves a good sweet woman after being a ho than so does a woman.

If you think not than you're a hypocrite

No. Men cannot be hoes. Y'all hoes say the stupidest shyt

 

[Crayola Coyote]

...but what is MALE promiscuity considered?

There is none. that is why women want to be us

 

[SheWantTheD]

I'm generally not sure why people are so obsessed with body counts plenty of hos are decent people. plenty of "good" "conservative" women are generally terrible people, though the concept of people deserving happiness does seem a bit pretenious

That may be true but every characteristic of a woman is all encompassing when it comes to marriage, as is a man's. And if you don't understand why people are concerned about someone's sexual past when it comes to marriage then I don't know what to say.

And most people that live sexually promiscuous lifestyles have underlying issues. That lifestyle is not so pretty under the lust.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

....and the question still remains IF a women didn't have a vagina or her LOOKS how else would she get a man ? It's just a question

Her personality

 

[Colicat]

What are you talking about? In your post that I replied to you were basically saying that people don't change unless forced to and I told you that that isn't always the case. Where's the judgment here? Where in this thread have I judged anyone and demeaned them for their actions good or bad? This isn't even the topic of the thread. The thread is if people feel people who led sexually promiscuous lifestyles in the past deserve happiness with people who haven't.

I even said myself that I don't wish anyone unhappiness and I don't care who marries them, but I myself wouldn't. I completely understand everyone is at a certain place in their lives, and most if not all people want to do better on some level.

You misunderstood my original post then...not once did I say "people change only when they are forced"

I asked what other things are catalysts to change...

There is judgement behind your statement when you juxtapose wild college girls: one changes after graduation and the other changes further down the line (one can argue that both are forced changes). You are insinuating that one change is better than the other...

The whole thread is judgmental you are asking if a former hoe deserves to have a nonhoe as their partner...

If the nonhoe (who can me female or male) is aware of the situation and is fine with it, what difference does it make if we think their relationship is right or wrong?

Especially if you don't care?

This thread is here for a reason

 

[Londilon]

Is there another time in which people are supposed to change?

If it is working, why change it?

Sometimes it takes being broken in order for you to realize that you need to be fixed...

Inherent in your statement is that some people are perfect and don't have to make mistakes in order to grow...

Not everyone is raised or wired the same... Some folks have to learn the hard way in order to get better... Good luck to those who are working to improve their morality, station in life, education, income, health, or any kind of skill set. They deserve internal happiness, external happiness, and someone who is working just as hard to improve...

No one is perfect... Even the folks who you think have it all together and have done it the right way

A lot of these people who change when they are no longer able to get their way will revert back to how they used to be once they get a sucker who believes they have changed for the better.

At the end of the day I am not saying these people aren't allow to change. But at the same time I can choose who to allow in my life and who to exclude.

Former hoes aren't going to be held up aa a queen, wifey, wife, partner in my eyes because I do no desire to have them in that place. They are still human and I will give them respect but I will not compromise myself for their comfort or approval. Just like they didn't compromise when they wanted to be hoes and thots. Some women want to be hoes but do not want to receive hoe treatment. You reap what you sow.

 

[EndDomination]

No one deserves anything.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

You deserve what u work for and that's generally what u get.

A lot of men and women play victims but you kinda do reap what u sow generally.

Thankfully the great thing about life is its ability to surpass limitations tho. It's both a great thing and a bad thing that oftentimes we get what we deserve and sometimes we dont.
Call it luck, grace and mercy. Whatever. But a lot of us would be a hell of a lot worse if we actually got what we deserved...

 

[DrX]

You deserve what u work for and that's generally what u get.

A lot of men and women play victims but you kinda do reap what u sow generally.

Thankfully the great thing about life is its ability to surpass limitations tho. It's both a great thing and a bad thing that oftentimes we get what we deserve and sometimes we dont.
Call it luck, grace and mercy. Whatever. But a lot of us would be a hell of a lot worse if we actually got what we deserved...

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