Do you think this is disrespectful?

[Mindfield333]

Op you gotta turn down the logic and turn up the emotional IQ in times like this… unless you want her to leave.

 

[Living Bait]

Talk less.

With women, less is more . . .

They are more attracted to mysterious, distant men, than over emotional / spill their guts types. . .

Get drunk and zooted then spout that shyt to your friends if you have to. . . But in your meats best interest make her feel like a queen and treat her like a prostitute

 

[num123]

You’re supposed to show her, not tell her...

 

[ThrobbingHood]

“Never write if you can speak; never speak if you can nod; never nod if you can wink.”

Words to live by.

 

[Umoja]

One day, people are going to learn to leave the tough Internet gems on the internet.

What you said would be hurtful to most. Saying it to your girlfriend shows a lack of consideration for how she feels, which is disrespectful.

 

[Giselle]

Bro just imagine telling a woman about a time you were going to cheat. But luckily she called and reminded you that you had a girl

I would dump a guy for this. Almost cheating is just as bad as cheating

 

[MajesticLion]

Feeling like they're being needed is the only true power most women have in this Babylon, so of course they'll feel a way when they hear otherwise


All else is marketing.

 

[WaveGang]

You sound like me after a drink or two

 

[old pig]

I mean anyone would feel disrespected being told by the person they love that they don’t need them and don’t care about losing them especially the man that’s supposed to protect and provide for you, you could be getting murdered and he’s just sitting there like “I don’t need her” and just let you die.

It would definitely make me second guess the relationship.

that’s over the top but hilarious af !!!!!!!

 

[old pig]

as it was quickly stated in here, you’re not “wrong” in your stance but neither is she in her reaction…many ppl can’t handle that level of pragmatism tho

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

I mean you were honest with her but its all how you say things. I told my girl something simlar a long time ago. The only thing we need are money clothes food water and shelter.

But on the flip side...I want to be with her because she enhances my life in all aspects and she is the only person that I want.

Yeah it seems harsh because since we were kids we have been basically been sold a lie about relationships being some kind of fantasy. From 90's r&b songs, to tv shows to books. People get caught up heavy in romanticism..."ill die without you"...yeah that sounds good and all but it isn't true.

 

[Turbulent]

The statements you made aren't "wrong" if that's how you feel. But it seems like you kinda baited her into that convo. On some passive aggressive tip.

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

I mean you were honest with her but its all how you say things. I told my girl something simlar a long time ago. The only thing we need are money clothes food water oxygen and shelter.

But on the flip side...I want to be with her because she enhances my life in all aspects and she is the only person that I want (and vice versa). Those same Tyler perry shows she watches im going to assume that the women on there have mentioned that they don't need a man either

Yeah it seems harsh because since we were kids we have been basically been sold a lie about relationships being some kind of fantasy. From 90's r&b songs, to tv shows to books. People get caught up heavy in romanticism..."ill die without you"...yeah that sounds good but it isn't true.

I said it but I also explained to her why I feel like that. She not really mad but she said it's disrespectful.

My mom taught me to always be prepared to take care of myself. My daddy taught me that sometimes shyt don't work out like we want them to. Can't take care of anyone else if I can't take care of myself.

This is 100% facts and the only people that truly realize this are the ogs because they've been through it before.

 

[old pig]

You’re supposed to show her, not tell her...

 

[old pig]

I firmly believe women rather be told lies instead of the truth

agreed but it’s not just women…it’s ppl in general…a lot of ppl love/prefer to be lied to as long as it’s what they want to hear as opposed to what they need to hear