It doesn’t have to be though. I’m guilty of not having a nuclear family but that’s really all it takes. If you take two people that make 50k/year and that isn’t hard to do at all and they work together instead of working as two separate entities under the same roof, they can be worth a million in a little over a decade. Focus on paying off the family home, using equity properly to invest into a rental property or two and it’s totally possible.
I’m not even a boot strap type of dude but black people are literally trying to fight everyone with both hands tied behind our back. A lot of it is our own doing because we don’t see the value in family structure.
this is false. U may be honest and very resolute in ur desire to start a family. But if you’re really wise you’ll understand how risky it is. Ur wife can change her mind anytime and you’ll be fuccked. Learn to stand on ur own two feet.