tricking gene gene must activate when nikkas turn 30. 
Does the Older Man/Younger Woman Relationship Actually Work?
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Where the fukk do you live where nikkas @ 35 look old as shyt????
There's no way most dudes you see that age are so flabby and sick.
They must be drinking and are fat as hell because I refuse to believe that they are that way because they're 35.
So if he's in shape you'll let a man 35 and above hit 4 free??
I should probably mention that this is all subjective. First of all, anyone who knows me well, will tell you that I act and look nothing like my age. Most people peg me at being in my early twenties, not just because of how I look, but because of how I act. All this to say that sometimes I genuinely forget that I'm the age I am, and so when a man approaches me, I'll be like, "OMG this man is old asf why did he just approach me, ewwwww..." then it'll take someone checking me and saying, "Carmel that man was probably on a couple of years older than you." And I'm like oh yeah, damn, I forgot that I'm that age. It's so genuine bruh, I really be forgetting.
And everyone around me forgets too. Even my boss, who's 9 years older than me, forgets that I'm as old as I am. She has to be reminded on the weekly basis that I'm not that much younger than her. I blame it on the fact that around 24, I swear I went to Neverland with Peter Pan and them, and just stayed right there.So, I'm still attracted to men in the twenties age range. And I can always tell the difference between men that are still in their twenties and men in their thirties. I'm not sure why, but for some reason, I'm just not attracted to men in the thirty age range. I feel like they look their ages. It's not that they're flabby and sick necessarily, because a lot of the ones that approach me aren't, it's more like they look a little more "worn" if that makes sense. Just like yall can sense when a woman's had 3 kids, and is in her thirties because of how she's looking and her demeanor, the same can be said for these men. I have not yet met a 35 year old man that looks like he's 25, or that looks as a good as an actual 25-30 year old man. That age range is where I believe men physically look there best.
The bolded is not talked about enough on here. A lot of Coli men be on that, "just go get you a younger woman" advice, and they really got these older brehs deluded about how "easy" and "simple" it is, when the reality is that if this younger woman grew up on instagram and is attractive, you better know she is exploring all of her options, and that older men will have to bring their A game, or they'll get played and used. A lot of these older men are the very ones simping in a lot of cases, because they know the younger women that they want, are wanted by everyone else too. But we'll leave that one alone. Now if man is okay with an average/basic looking twenty something woman, it's a different story, he probably won't have a difficult time. But if a man is seeking a young and ATTRACTIVE woman to settle down with, locking her down, and having her genuinely riding with him for him? Happens, but not as often. A lot of these older/younger couples, where the woman is attractive, usually is a man with a lot of resources simping on her. (like Joe and Cyn).
One question for you though... You said you dated older. Now your dating younger. Why not just date your age? That seems like that's the best of both worlds, based on everything you just described. The older women have too much baggage and your less likely to put up with their shyt. The younger women are immature, do a a lot of bullshyt, and are tougher to lock down. My guess? The ones your age, are the ones you need breh.
Well there's gotta be guys out there that look young if you yourself say you look 24.
I think where you're at might be it because the worn look might really be from marriage and kids.
Like one poster said trey songz.
Forget the money, dude looks exactly how he looked when he first came out.
I think it's just the marriage and kids and drinking.
I think where you're at might be it because the worn look might really be from marriage and kids.
Like one poster said trey songz.
Forget the money, dude looks exactly how he looked when he first came out.
I think it's just the marriage and kids and drinking.
I should probably mention that this is all subjective. First of all, anyone who knows me well, will tell you that I act and look nothing like my age. Most people peg me at being in my early twenties, not just because of how I look, but because of how I act. All this to say that sometimes I genuinely forget that I'm the age I am, and so when a man approaches me, I'll be like, "OMG this man is old asf why did he just approach me, ewwwww..." then it'll take someone checking me and saying, "Carmel that man was probably on a couple of years older than you." And I'm like oh yeah, damn, I forgot that I'm that age. It's so genuine bruh, I really be forgetting.
So, I'm still attracted to men in the twenties age range. And I can always tell the difference between men that are still in their twenties and men in their thirties. I'm not sure why, but for some reason, I'm just not attracted to men in the thirty age range. I feel like they look their ages. It's not that they're flabby and sick necessarily, because a lot of the ones that approach me aren't, it's more like they look a little more "worn" if that makes sense. Just like yall can sense when a woman's had 3 kids, and is in her thirties because of how she's looking and her demeanor, the same can be said for these men. I have not yet met a 35 year old man that looks like he's 25, or that looks as a good as an actual 25-30 year old man. That age range is where I believe men physically look there best.
African Peasant
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The bolded is not talked about enough on here. A lot of Coli men be on that, "just go get you a younger woman" advice, and they really got these older brehs deluded about how "easy" and "simple" it is, when the reality is that if this younger woman grew up on instagram and is attractive, you better know she is exploring all of her options, and that older men will have to bring their A game, or they'll get played and used. A lot of these older men are the very ones simping in a lot of cases, because they know the younger women that they want, are wanted by everyone else too. But we'll leave that one alone. Now if man is okay with an average/basic looking twenty something woman, it's a different story, he probably won't have a difficult time. But if a man is seeking a young and ATTRACTIVE woman to settle down with, locking her down, and having her genuinely riding with him for him? Happens, but not as often. A lot of these older/younger couples, where the woman is attractive, usually is a man with a lot of resources simping on her. (like Joe and Cyn).
One question for you though... You said you dated older. Now your dating younger. Why not just date your age? That seems like that's the best of both worlds, based on everything you just described. The older women have too much baggage and your less likely to put up with their shyt. The younger women are immature, do a a lot of bullshyt, and are tougher to lock down. My guess? The ones your age, are the ones you need breh.
Maybe, but I have yet to meet a man that looks significantly younger than his age. For some reason I meet hella woman like this, but rarely meet men like this. I'm not sure if it's the hairline issue, or just men not taking care of themselves the same way women take care of themselves.... But, unfortunately, I haven't met a man that looks as youthful and attractive at 35 as he did, a decade before. Trey songz and celebrities have the money to keep up with their appearance, and they better look good for their age, they have the money and resources to continue looking good. It's no surprise. But I'm talking about the average overworked american male, that is in his mid thirties and older. Again, this is all subjective. I'm giving you my personal experiences.
Tell me where ya'll live where all these BM in their 30s and 40s look like they are in their 20s. I live on PG county. There are tons of BP and I never met a dude that meets the criteria above. I know plenty in great shape but a 40 y/o in great shape still looks like a 40 y/o in great shape.
Looking good for your age and looking young are not the same
Looking good for your age and looking young are not the same
GnauzBookOfRhymes
Superstar
depends on what you consider "working"
if you're an older man who just wants some young in house pu55y and your girl/wife wants to be taken care of, and dont care about anything else then sure it can "work"
if youre looking for a lifelong relationship 7-10 years is MAXIMUM age difference and even then it has to be people who met later in life
a young chick like that will never work out - she's gonna need to "find herself" and will get jealous at seeing her friends being able to hop on dycks at their own leisure
I mean it's not rocket science. That man was talking about older and younger as if those are the only options, neither one of his descriptions of his experiences sounded even remotely appealing.... I read that, like damn... It's never dawned on him to date his own damn age?
ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
What's your age sista?
So what are you going to do when you start to look older??
Are you gonna still mess with 20 something men or open up to 30s that u don't find attractive?
Are you gonna still mess with 20 something men or open up to 30s that u don't find attractive?
Why? You got a plug on these unicorn men?
Exactly... It's actually strange when I think about it too, because I meet hella women that look good for their age, or younger than what I thought(almost always BW), and have met men that look good for their age, but never men that look YOUTHFUL or the same way they did a decade before. It's very strange that people are pretending as if women are the only ones that physically age. It's not very likely that a 35 year old man looks 25. Just like it's not very likely that a 25 year old woman is more attracted to a 35 year old than she is to the men in her own range, who are at their physical and sexual best.
So you're just looking 4 youth?
So you picking the out of shape 20 something year old over the in shape 40 year old?
So you picking the out of shape 20 something year old over the in shape 40 year old?
I never stated what I like. I am just looking for these young looking 30/40 y/o. I just want to observe them in the wild.
