Dont have kids, dont get married

[Contrefaire]

i spent 12 years with her then my son died, her pops died and she quit on life. So Im dropping jewels outchere. Sorry you lost your queen though. But most nikkas here wknt get a 17 yr queen. And itll still most likely end in heartache.

So your wife (who I assume was previously solid) experienced back-to-back devastating losses, is out of her mind with sadness + grief and has given up on life, but your main takeaway is fukk marriage and fukk having kids?

Sounds like a lot of unresolved, unaddressed trauma, grief and depression is going on here but your specific situation doesn't feel like a great example of why people should never marry or have kids point blank. And to be clear, I'm very much aware that most marriages can't and don't survive long after the loss of a child, but to take that experience and try to use it as a means to convince other men to never marry or procreate at all is weird as fukk.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

This thread has depressed me even more.

 

[The Don]

requirement for divorce proceedings. The govment is making me do it. But I also didn’t want to get divorced in the first place. So in short, Im clearly better than all of these people

Sounds like you fit right in with the crowd you described

 

[Loose]

i spent 12 years with her then my son died, her pops died and she quit on life. So Im dropping jewels outchere. Sorry you lost your queen though. But most nikkas here wknt get a 17 yr queen. And itll still most likely end in heartache.

Sounds like thats tough on her mental health

 

[Mr.bocario]

I think marriage and children are a beautiful thing, but the amount of men I see struggling financially/mentally with them is concerning

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Marriage worked in the past for archaic reasons…

People don’t really live that way anymore

thus a divorce rate well over 50% and COUNTLESS people who decide to stay together but are unhappy

marrige is archaic

how y’all feel about this?I know it’s been talked about before but we got some level headed brehs in here.

I wanna see what some y’all say regarding this
Wish it had its own thread to see the responses given

 

[Absolut da poet ®]

I've been married

I agree with the premise

If you found a partner that you absolutely cannot live without them. .. Then definitely marry that person

But anything short of I'll die without you energy

Forget about it. .

Even with that energy it's still 50/50 that you'll be with them 10yrs later


Save yourself

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

So in short, Im clearly better than all of these people

u literally was threatening to kill yaself on here seeking attention

No the fukk u not

U have kids and have the gall to make this thread

You literally disrespecting your seeds




Instead of saying shyt about cherishing the time u have with your kids....

U make this

 

[Thegospel]

48 daps on this thread from a pro black website? Interesting

 

[L. Deezy]

Most of yall come off as scared lil boys...

Scared of marriage
Scared of kids
Scared of life


Embarrassing black men on this site

 

[tuckgod]

End the race brehs

 

[tuckgod]

48 daps on this thread from a pro black website? Interesting

Most of yall come off as scared lil boys...

Scared of marriage
Scared of kids
Scared of life


Embarrassing black men on this site

I can only take this shyt in spurts now.

These are some of the most depressing black men I’ve ever experienced.

If this site is an accurate sample size of what 35 and under black men think and act like today we’re doomed.

 

[Thegospel]

I can only take this shyt in spurts now.

These are some of the most depressing black men I’ve ever experienced.

If this site is an accurate sample size of what 35 and under black men think and act like today we’re doomed.

In real life i dont hear it much. 99 percent of the coli males are weak and lost. I dont care how many degrees or certs they hide behind

 

[tuckgod]

In real life i dont hear it much. 99 percent of the coli males are weak and lost. I dont care how many degrees or certs they hide behind

I really hope you’re right.

 

[Wild self]

Change the laws that help married men

People forget that male providers need incentive too, outside of traditionalism.